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Women are in marriage bcs of all of the above
Una go learn by fire

NotOfThisWorld:
His audacity to get angry because she cheated back is something else. So you know it's wrong to cheat and it's hurtful, but you did it anyway and you're pissed she did the same thing to you? Wow.

As for her, instead of her stooping that low and cheating back, she should've just bounced and leave the yeye marriage. You cannot cheat back and expect the brostitute to not be angry because that gender is full of hypocrites who can't take what they dish out. I would just chuck a deuce up ✌ and say bye bye to the thot (look up what thot is, if you don't know) and that marriage would be finito! Ciao!

This is why women should always have their own money. Having your own money is power because you won't accept nor tolerate nonsense, and won't resort to retaliation either, but can walk away when he misbehaves.

I understand your frustration but I feel it is coming from a place of ignorance.
Money can never give women power in marriage instead it will make her go single back again. That's what it has been doing to a lot of married women. You just confirmed from your submission that women are not interested in marriage, they only want sponsors or providers. Go and verify, most of these men cheating are doing so bcs their wives would deny them sex for flimsy excuse as he cant provide all that I need. Can anybody in this world satisfy anybody? Women lack contentment and that's why most of them would close their legs in marriage in response to their husband inability to provide all that they want in marriage, bcs thats why they are in that marriage in the first place---for sponsor. The man depending on their threshold for sexless life will resort to adultery. Go and check it, most marriages are like that. Women actions are the one causing the infidelity.
So if she pushes her husband to commit adultery by refusing to play her part of responsibility in marriage, the husband has not committed any crime if he sleeps with another woman who is ready to offer him sex. What he should just have done is to have sent her packing immediately and marry another woman instead.
Women are gas lighters and manipulators.

Dricker:
If you are benefiting billions from this government,if you among those that want tinubu back cus of tribe or 30k salary..u no go see December talk more of january..

Other countries are making effort to make things better..here in Nigeria na tribalism, religion,wickedness and greed...

To be candid dear. Nigeria is making progress. The fuel subsidy and dollar subsidy removal is the only workable solution and best for Nigeria. Though every solution to any problem also has it's own accompanying problems waiting for solution. There is a saying that when u solve a problem, u automatically create another one. Inflation and criminality are direct results of the reform. However Tinubu is already addressing them. We have seen that capacity. His reforms have more advantages than its antecedent disadvantages. Time is only the difference.
All former presidents have all made attempt to implement same policy but always chickened out for fear of losing re-election or losing popularity.
You should give kudos to Tinuhu for trying such at first tenure without any fear for losing re-election.
Other unpopular and commendable reforms he has equally done that no former presidents had had gut to do are: State police and Police reform, LG Autonomy, Decentrilisation of Nigeria security architecture, Dismantling of Norther Oligarchy, Regionalism and resource control which is underway. No president has ever dared the North.
Tinubu should be commended and supported to compete his job.

AMINDA:
Like Fashola, like Elrufai. Tinubu cannot stand competent opinionated men who can stand their own ground and tell him the truth. He prefers yes-men and sycophants who sing the mandate song and wear the slavechain insignia cap. Tinubu should stop hiding behind a finger. It wasn't those around him who didn't want Fashola. It was Tinubu himself. Fashola only got second tenure because Tinubu had no choice. He was going to get the Ambode treatment in his second stint as governor.

The same Fashola that u Obinggos were calling Minister of Darkness, Investigator on Lekki bridge etc is now who could have transform Tinubu team? What he couldn't do with Buhari for 8 years. So Tinubu dont have other people he can use apart from all these recycled failed Politicians? Especially those who just finished 8 years with Buhari and u all tagged them failures?
You u dont like the way he brought in fresh ideas like Wale Edun, Bosun Tijani, Lateef Fagbemi, Yemi Cadosso, Jumoke Oduwole, Bianca Ojukwu, Yilwatilda, Alausa, Lola Ade John, Taiwo Oyedele, Uju Kennedy, Lokpobiri etc.
You still prefer El-Rufai, Fashola, Ameachi, Aregbesola, Lawal the grasscutter, These people u have earlier termed failure but now your saviour bcs they now oppose Tinubu your enemy.

Segehtec:
That's nonsense...am a guy and I blame the girl for allowing that nonsense...if am the girl I will arrest the guy and his friends for burgling my apartment...you were not forced to buy things for her u did it out of love...because you bought something for her so she should die with u..that modern day slavery...the girl should demand payment for all the sex he has been having with her...she can charge as high as possible and he must pay too....Omo na mumu girl de allow that rubbish

The guy collected back all the gifts he bought for her. Na those gifts he collected back o. He didnt ask for refund or cash equivalent despite the lady has already used them. He collected them back like that.
To be fair, if the sex she offered was also a big deal to her, then she should also asked to fvck the guy back the number of times he fvcked her.
That settles it.
Did the guy take money from her?
No
Na sex, she should also take sex back from him.
Shikena

They all have same mentality.
Wanna eat their cake and still have it.
I am still dealing with one case currently. She doesnt like me again but she want me to continue to foot her bills, pay her house rent, feed her, pay for energy, security and other benefits accrued to marriage but she no want me. No be juju be that?
Just still watching but the way I go fling her away, e go be like when trailer fling away a piece of paper on express road.
If u wanna be leaches, at least be grateful. I hate ingrate with entitlement mentality.

LagosOrigin:
This is where the Fuel subsidy money has gone and some mumu people are applauding this tinubu government for the subsidy removal

This is where the subsidy money is being spent

Tinubu won't make policy that will not favour him the most

The fuel subsidy has gone into the following landmark projects and all eyes could see it:
1. Coastal highway from Lagos to Calabar
2. All various federal highways recontruction across the country with concrete cement architecture
3. Badagry to Sokoto super highway
4. Salary upgrade for all workers with minimum wage taking from 30k to 70k and still under review to reach above 100k soonest
5. Police, Army and other military salary adjustment and funding
6. NELFUND for hopeless tertiary students
7. State governments increased IGR to fund critical infrastructure across the country
8. Improved education funding: More universities built, some state secondary schools now have now new building under construction by federal government. It has never happened before.
9. Free education and funding of technical colleges of both state and federal by Tinubu administration
10. The FCT is now in good state and befitting compare to how Buhari left it. All thanks to subsidy money
11. Security funding and fight against insurgency
12. PH to Maiduguri super highway
13. So many federal airport upgraded to international standards across the country
14. Foreign reserve
AND MANY MORE TOO MUCH TO CONTAIN HERE.
Nigerians could see these areas but haters wont see them. I live along Benin expressway and I could see what Tinubu is doing along that corridor. I am a civil servant, I know how much I earn now compare to the peanut I earned before. All these improvement dont fall from heaven.
Those branded cars are private investments into the reelection of the president and other candidates.
Quit all the backward thinking already boy

All these content creators should stop all these nonsense skits before they start to establish these nonsense attitude into marriages. Women dont have critical thinking. Some of these house wives will think it is real and begin to exert control over their husband until they lose it. They have herd mentality. No objective thinking. Government should regulate all these stupid contents for public especially as it affect marriages.
I come in peace.

A very good advice.
I fuckup big time.
Especaiily pay attention to the lady's mother attitude to her husband.
As the mama do, na so the daughter go do.
Pattern no dey change, na we blind

When a woman is seeking for freedom from her husband. She is actually seeking for permission to destroy herself. The man should just grant her and watch her shred to pieces.
This is what love for money can do to a woman but yet the remaining ones wont listen nor learn.
Ned is the victim here, he truly dodge a bullet.

Even if I have mad money as in a billionaire, once i notice your dealing with me is for the money, I cut u off completely. Me who cut a woman off bcs I noticed she was in for the money and not the marriage. Olosho go starve for where I dey. I hate leeches......

Yoruba already acknowledged it and said "owo lobinrin mo" I.e women dont love but after money.
I told my wife to be this line and she said she was different, that she really loved me and not after my money. I just laughed inside of me bcs I knew she was either a kid or lying.
She eventually destroyed the marriage based on her priority on money over relationship. If u leave a woman to her opinion, she will destroy you, destroy herself, destroy the relationship and destroy everybody.

jadyclem:
If someone else can make you feel worthless then you need to work on yourself- that's a symptom of low self esteem .

Human dignity is a self perception thing. How you treat, carry, feel about and think about yourself should never be determined by anyone. I will never ever care what anyone thinks about me - mostly if they're being mischievous like those chinkos in that video.

In terms of looks, physique, strength and resilience no other race in the world come close to the black race. Our only problem is our low economic development that's what they're tying their racism on

Keep deceiving urself

Lalami3232:
Na man wey never mature and get experience na go think say women no like sex more than men.
Wetin dey underage wey dey sweet una? Anyways she's a nonvirgin and they're the same worldwide. It's either a politician or a force man is dying ontop of them in a hotel or dem dey open leg for something cheap or dem dey use toys/cucumber or dem dey take advantage of minors. Unforgiving and bandit preeq dey here for free but they won't want to come and get it, rather they go for the yeye ones. Tufiakwa!!!
If you were lucky to meet your wife as a virgin, oga take her out tonight and give her a treat because she's special. But if the door was wide open by unforgiving carpenters like us before you took full ownership, oga DNA should be your first location next week.


What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

It is called Ego.
Ego destroys women especially those of them who feel too highly of themselves.
They would prefer to use despicable objects than to allow a living human being mount them. If it should be human being, then they will rather prey on unsuspecting minors than submit themselves to an authority man.
Ego is the problem.

That was too much for a human denigration.
Most of the people saying it was nothing in the comments were just saying it bcs they were not the one experiencing that.
After u have made the money u are looking for, dignity is what will matter to you next, and in this case, u will feel worthless and can go home and start crying.
My brother, it will affect your psyche, especially if u are a lady.

Where will she get sex from with her bad character.......
Women dont actually need men to satisfy themselves on bed bcs most of them are covet chronic mastobators including the married women.

Anytime I come my life again and I merely smell ordinary "fem" in a woman let alone "minist", the rate i go take race ehhh. Usain bolt no go reach me.
These people are toxic, unintelligent, bitter, evil, barbaric,darrk-minded, demonic, strange, destructive, possessed, satanic and devilish.
May God airpus ooooo

She was just a victim of circumstances. It could have been the most righteous person on earth. RIP young woman.

What I know is this
Sha dont offend Igbo people or want same thing they want........
They will use propaganda finish u walahi

Owo lobinrin mo
know this and know peace

It is all gimmicks.These creatures lie a lot. Beware men. Dont get married, women need men more than they appear to.

Some people will think this is content but it actually happens in marriage. I have heard of a man who pays for sex anytime he wants to get intimate with his own wife.
When your marriage is gearing towards this, just leave and never look back again.

Some people will think this is content but it actually happens in marriage. I have heard of a man who pays for sex anytime he wants to get intimate with his own wife.
When your marriage is gearing towards this, just leave and never look back.

Nigerian Yahuuu boys
How are thou God answers your prayers

Skit na u be this

Rubyjade:
Honestly, Nigeria needs to seriously consider having a law like this.

If a third party knowingly interferes in a marriage and deliberately helps destroy a home, there should be some form of legal accountability. Marriage is not just a relationship between two people; it comes with responsibilities and consequences when someone intentionally interferes.

But let’s be honest about what would happen in Nigeria if such a law becomes reality 😂. A lot of side chicks would suddenly start losing their “investments,” because many of them are being sponsored, housed, financed and spoiled by married men.

The truth is that some married men are the biggest sponsors of these relationships. Remove the money, gifts, cars, rent and other benefits, and many of these so-called “side relationships” may not survive.

That said, accountability should not be one-sided. The married person who made the commitment and chose to cheat should also face the consequences of their actions. You cannot blame only the outsider when the person who owes you loyalty willingly opened the door.

Maybe a Nigerian version of a “homewrecker law” would make people think twice before deliberately getting involved in someone else's marriage—and it might even save some homes.

There is nothing like sidechick wrecking homes. Wives are their own home wreckers. If u hear what most wives are doing in their own homes and to their marriage, u will be praying for those side chicks.
It is a complicated world and these so called evil side chicks are the reasons why some women are still remaining in their marriage till today. What an irony.

Cybog7:
The masses need to know her president....alot of controversy about this man

Controversies that u created by yourself or what?. According to him,
1. he said Bola Ahmed Tinubu is his name.
2. He said he is from Lagos state and that her mother was the late Alhaja Abibatu Mogaji, the late Iyaloja of Lagos. Neither the woman nor her family denied him and he was even the one who buried the woman.
3. He said he graduated from Chicago state university and trained as an accountant and the sch testified to it. The school never denied him.
4. He said he had worked with Mobil and Deloitte accounting firm. Both reputable international firms never denied him.
5. He told us his age and even showed his date of birth certificate. All his records in the public domain about age at different places and times never had contradictions.
6. He contested for Nigeria senate with these same record and won.
7. He contested as a governor of Lagos state with these same public records and won 2 tenures in office.
8. He contested for the position of the president of nigeria with these same record and won.
9. We know her wife and children and some of her siblings and cousins, even some of them still in government and popular till today.
What controversial are u talking about again?
Is it what Tinubu says about himself that I will believe or what losers like Obi and Atiku are concocting that I will believe.
My brother, propaganda doesnt win election. Campaign, convince the electorate and u will win. My message to Obi and Atiku.

whippersnapper:
you see you are not even aware of it. Until you read the book you'll understand

No vex brotherhood
I will appreciate u send the book to me....👍

whippersnapper:
Theres what we call principles and standards. Some men have a boundary they don't cross no matter the money or temptation. There's a book I just read" the manipulated man" by Esther vilar. It's after I read I understand women have been controlling men from time immemorial using sex

Women will control me using sex??
Na where her toto go rust be that....
e go grow thick forest sef