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Flat mate needed in a 2 bedroom flat.

you will occupy one of the rooms, you also have a bathroom and toilet to yourself.

There is no need to buy anything big. the original occupant already has the house set up.

there is even a bed in your own room already.

so you can just come with your clothes alone if you like. �

reach me on 0 9 0 3 4 90 1444

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Price

150k

A Friend (Male) needs a Flat Mate. He stays around Iju Ishaga side of Lagos. It is a Two bedroom flat. He has a new job that takes him away for weeks now and has decided to share the apartment since he doesn't even stay there so much.

You would have a Room, a Bathroom and toilet to yourself and share the remaining places like Sitting room and Kitchen.

Its more of a Serviced Apartment, because the house is already set up and you probably don't need to bring any other thing except your personal stuff.

Please reach me.

NB: I only added a few jink to this work, it was totally
written by a friend of Mine: Tombellz Akorin
(@AkorinTm), A social Critic and Gospel/Conscious
Musician!


OUR PARENTS ARE DELUSIONAL!!!!

(Teenage- Parent relationship does it exist?)

First of all, I like to define what a Teen is: In order not
to confuse the great minds of my readers!
'Its simply defined'
A person aged from 13 to 19 years
But because of the versatility of what am writing and
the civilisation of our World I will reduce this age limit
down!

So the TEENS, that I will referring to in this journal are
children/Teens ranging from 8-18


Teens are wonderful people, unique people who are
easily Misunderstood, and badly treated! Yes I mean it!
Parents appreciate their teens so much, that some
times, they many go extra limit to do somethings for
them including FUSTRATE them!
Teens are largely Mis-understood! Parents claim to
wish them well(and in real sense, they do) but they
end up frustrating them!

As Parents, you have goals for your children, you want
them to be well successful in life, and you feel that
nothing should dent their destiny, Well, that's still the
best thing a Parent can wish for their children:
But how do we carry it Out, certainly not the way 90%
of Nigeria Parents carry it out!
First: Have seen countless parents, with the 'DON'T GO
OUT' policy, Parents who lock up their wards home, and
only release them to go to school, after that its indoors
thru out!
In all sense of reality, it is actually a way of keeping
their wards from joining bad company, and making
them read their books----- which is actually a good plan
but with poor execution!

Ask those children (If they would be truthful) you are
merely ENSLAVING them!
That a childs plays and catch fun doesn't mean he/she
can't read or will fall in bad company, its all about
Moderation- which you are supposed to TEACH them in
the first place!

Parents don't teach their children anything about life,
yet they become this Protective cover--- Over WHAT

You lock your girl inside because you don't TRUST
those guys out there, they may corrupt her, so she
shouldn't have male friends, and she should stay
indoor too!
That would solve the Problem shey?
Before we start talking about Consequences of this
Naïve acts by Parents, let's examine others

Let's talk about SEX!!


Hmmmm! Me as a person and over 50 people I asked
in 3 days-- None of them learnt about Sex from their
Parents, basically, we have just like 8% of Nigeria
Parents talking to their Wards about Sex!
And even those who do, probably only lecture their Girl
child, with some few words of: Don't allow a Boy to do
this, you may get pregnant, and so on..
The rest! Probably Sex is an abominable word in the
house, Parents don't lecture nor explain the basis of
Sex to their children, and they will be the first person
to shout

IF YOU EVER GET PREGNANT, I WILL DISOWN YOU

Sorry dad, but what's Pregnant??
Lmao! Actually, that's supposed to be a Joke.
But seriously; how come you are telling me not to get
pregnant, when u never even discussed the process of
pregnancy with me!

You feel shy or heavy to Discuss SEX with them, yet
you watch a nollywood movie that is expressly rated 18
with them, and feel free even with the Hot romance
and almost Sex Scenes! Basically 96% Of all Nollywood
films are always rated 18!
But Our parents watch it with US and yet wouldn't
explain Sex to their Wards! SMH
What Parents don't know, or are not paying attention
to is: If you don't teach them about it, they will learn it
from outside! And most times in a Wrong Way!
Don't u wonder, We find 8 year old children in the
process of playing 'Daddy and Mummy' having dry
Sex!!! There are several cases like that of course!

How
does an 8 year old kid know how to have Sex? You as a
parent, u feel its too Early to discuss Sex with them,
but How come the Kid already knows about it, and is
even practising it! And They even know better than to
do it where you can catch them, they do it Secret---
Don't you Wonder Why on Earth would they know what
they are doing is wrong and MUST not be caught! 8
YEAR old kids!!!
Now, You lock up your child at home, and keep
shouting don't have friends!
Well, that's almost impossible, they will have friends,
the worse part is you won't know!

And in case you don't know, Peer Pressure is like the
greatest Pressure a Teen can face! Not even your
pressure at home as a parent can match it!
When they start having friends Secretly - that's the
most dangerous trick!

You can easily solve the problem by allowing
transparency of friends, Make your Ward know, you are
cool with friends, and you can help them select!
When your Kid's friends feel free to walk up to your
house and joke around with you and the whole family:
Am telling you, your child is safe!

You can easily advise them: you know, they can easily
confide in you! And Guess what?
When Teens feel free around you, they leak their secret
to you without them even knowing, you can be aware
of their latest plan and can easily advice them out of it!


Talking about Friendship...


When Your 13 year old Girl receives a Love letter, and
shows it to her friend first, you have failed as a Parent!
You should be your kid's best friend, She could easily
walk up to you and tell you' Shile sent me this letter'
but here comes another WARNInG: its not really up to
you to go to 'Shile's house to start warning him to
leave your Daughter alone!

The Next time she receives another letter she won't
show you again! You can't be shouting around the
whole area, and except her to trust you again!
There are better ways to handle matters like that, in
which your daughter/Son will trust you more than
anyone!
On relationships....
You keep telling you 15 year old Girl not to have any
boyfriends, and the best Explanation you can give is
that Pregnancy and Virginity warning, am telling you
that this doesn't work anymore! She has 2 or more
friends that have boyfriends, and have been telling her
about it-- 'Of course you don't know them since you
don't know her friends' Those Virginity and Pregnancy
fear you thought you instilled in her has expired- I bet
a 10 year old can lecture you about the works of a
Condom!

Watch out for Part Two!
Thanks!

Judging from the Bible, God's intention was probably just to Create MAN (male gender) but MAN was obviously too lonely and instead of creating another MAN as a friend to him, God gave a HELPMATE



Now the work of an HELPMATE was to make the garden easier, someone like a modern day House Maid, till today Women are still referred to the Weaker Gender, Some Women don't believe in this, but from the beginning WOMEN were created to Serve, the type of work their MASTER(Man) decides!

To follow up the creation story of the bible, this HELPMATE is instrumental to the fall of the WHOLE human race from the Garden of Life! This HELPMATE is the stupid One who was deceived by an ordinary serpent!

The same HELPMATE received several curses from the Almighty (One I think is still battling them)

Looking Well at the Bible, it was evident that the BOYS were the treasures, while the Girls were available presents readymaid to be used at anytime!

When the Sinful people of Sodom and Gomorah were after the Angels who had Visited LOT, he came outside and offered them His DAUGHTERS, he had Sons also, and since the people of Sodom were GAY, they could also receive the Sons, but instead he offered them his Daughters to do whatsoever they want with them! He only thought about them as Gifts he could just give to any body anytime! The Sons were his Treasures that he adorn!

There are several stories in the Bible to buttress the point that Women are just HELPMATE, not serious Treasures!

In Nigeria here: Going back to the ancient Traditional setting of the Igbos, A Igbo Man Would contemplate taking another wife immediately his wife gives birth to two Girls without a BOY! The. Woman may be labelled a witch, and if not careful, may be Driven out of the House!

In the Northen Side: the Help Mate is not even allowed to Mature before she starts the duty of a 'Slave': Girls are given out to a Man at tender ages, and the Man gathers as many as he wants

In the South West: An ancient Warrior is quick to be welcomed from the battle field, by the preparation a a brand new Maiden, A Yoruba Chief can decide to Buy as many as he likes, and also Sell his Own off!


Let's forget the ancient days and think about the Current days in which we live in

Are Woman now free, since they are more Educated and Civilised??

Who are Prostitute around, the People who Men pay just to have fun, because they something to offer? Or Because they are just Slaves and flings who wil throw themselves at any thing Money?

Who are the Half Naked( Half naked is a better Word, this days they are virtually naked) People swinging in Videos of Hip Hop stars of Today!

It looks like this Slavery thing is launching deeper in them daily, in the 90's music was about a lady: how beautiful she is, her smiles, Her Love, ------- But this days, its about her breasts, her bums, her Sexiness, for her to shake it, and whine it well for Them--- the Male!

And they don't see it as an abuse, they would be the first to jump and dance at it in Parties!--- all My ladies shake up your bum bum' he said all my Ladies not Lady, So he meant a lot of them++ I know Girls that would dance Over Night to that Song! And really really would shake It! If you Watched the Video of the song before NBC banned it--- You will know that this Ladies are SLAVES!

Even when these Guys don't sing about them, they still put them in their videos( You are asking what for) To shake it as Well na!... 'Angeli toh Pin re Oju e daa, it is My time to Shine no retreat no surrender' That Song contained nothing about any Girl, but if you watch the Video: You will still find Half Naked Girls Whining!!! Why? Because A video is not complete without bringing the Slave Gender to come and do anything for Money!

Or you haven't seen pictures of Tiwa Savage a lady u all are shouting about, performing with almost nothing On, have you watched her Love me Love me Video---

Recently she was said to have been perfoming without under wear with a mere flimsy Skirt! And I see thousands of Girls saying 'Tiwa is my role Model' Are you not SLAVES?

In the United States at a Concert: Iyanya was billed to perform, When he came on stage, I was happy to see him, Kukere was a Banger, and I was happy to see him perform;; without any Ladies! But ooops: No he came on with a Lady who was Obviously not wearing any underwear and any other Clothing than a Top, and she started Whining her Downside NAKED!!!! Mehn I wanted to Vomit, but I could see a lot of Men gearing her and Shouting ... Well at least they were Fun seekers, What Shocked me was the Women too were Gearing her Up! MY GOD!!!! And if yu think those Women were rough women, there were so many Rich and Exposed Women in the Hall!

And is somebody saying I did not cite the good Ones YEZ we have good ones, We have Women that won't Sleep with Davido even if it involves 3 Bentleys!!!


Well.. We have Bank Managers, Even President of Females--- and to tell you I have seen countless bank managers who wear revealing cloth where you can easily pick out their Cleavages!!

And Come to think of It__ Ladies will put on cloths that reveals Cleaveges, Exposes their thighs all in the name of being Trending and Sexy! And Males will approach them because of what they Expose not what they see in them...

And you say they are not Slaves?


We can keep ranting and ranting as we can! No offence to the Female Gender, But from all indication from all what we can see and have seen: MOST of them are just like the Slaves we are talking about!


NB: This is to quicken the consciousness of. Whoever concerned not in any way Abusive!