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VonScott:
49 yrs old Shakira...

Pr!ck no know age, satisfaction is the only language

Onegai:
(could have sworn that all the wisdom-filled gurus here and offline said that marriage na scam, men don't benefit and baby mama is the way. Anyway, that's bad advise for you: very sweet to espouse for others to foolishly fall into).

Dregs,

I'm pretty sure she didn't want to be a Baby Mama. She wanted to be a wife and a mother but you had other plans. So now she's pissed at you.

It is horrific to be alone with a very sick child and be imagining the father of that child having the time of his life somewhere else. You send money, well that takes precisely 5 mins versus days and weeks of sleepless nights with a sick baby. Yes, you worked hard to make the money, but wouldn't you have worked hard to make that money if you were not a father?

So sending money ain't it.

Now, before you get even further bad advise about forcefully taking your child from her or ignoring her and moving on with your life because the child will look for you when she/he grows up, please stop right there.

Firstly, apologize to her. Single Parenthood is hard and unless you're paying every single bill and sending extra money, she too is handling bills plus a child, all by herself. Apologize sincerely to her for putting her in this situation.

Secondly, be polite and respectful in your conversations with her. Always acknowledge her sacrifice.

Thirdly, any plans you want to bring your child over to you, better factor in the Mother. Ask her if it will be okay, explain the pros and cons of the child coming to you. And give yourself sense: how old is this child? Because you shouldn't take young children from their mothers unless their lives are in danger. If you want the child to relocate abroad, better ask the mum if she wants to relocate too. If you want the child closer to you, plan on renting a place closer to you for her mum.

If the Mother won't give you the child, there's nothing you can do. Legally, na she own the pikin.

You try, let me say 30%. because you one sided supporting the women.
These days, women are becoming unwifable, they don't respect and appreciate men for their sacrifice for the family. Many married are looking for way out but pitying their children which will be the victim.
He shouldn't even consider bringing he's baby mama closer to his life but he should try to give sometime to be available and closer to the child in this difficult time. Many baby mama will forever resent you, because they are confused, they want freedom (including fvcking around)but someone to pay the bills without complain of their lifestyle. They want to inherit you without supporting your success.

Pootle:
first choice dont always end up being the best

After devour every every, there is God oooo

Samantha125:
Did I?😅😅😅... Well, there were two potential guys before my husband, I was after the first one while the second one was after me, but he too was my spec, I mean he was educated, tall, yellow, and handsome with a beautiful smile, perfect for making babies, the type of a man whereby even if he dumps you, you'd be grateful that he at least gave you beautiful babies.

I never got a chance with the first one, all thanks to his mother and even though I also liked the the second one, he was a junior pastor in my friend's chapel and due to some circumstances I was going through at that time, I didn't want to be linked to any pastor or even become a pastor's wife... My friend and I used to take turns in visiting each other's churches and he always looked forward to my visitations because he'd grab the opportunity to get to know me more after the service, apparently he'd also be just staring at me throughout the service, but I eventually stopped visiting... Then there was my husband, who was in a relationship with someone else while pursuing me.

In short, you snatch someone boyfriend and ruin their relationship

Judemarco31:
They don't have right over the matter again, government have taken the case, the father should be a suspect too because the very day a child is delivered and obtain birth certificate, he or she has become government property, anything that happened to him/she law of the land will ask the parents questions.

And for your mind, you think autopsy from police will implicate Umah? Na them dey power. He for don tell Tinubu that na bcus of 2027 he dey do all these things


I see government pressure from the Father

IsIamVIRGINS:
Your senior man in Ilorin in person of Rahmon did the same to Hafsat before he 🔪 her 🗣️ for your Chief Imam that bought it in Oyo State!

That what are now copy? You don learn things

Can they stop using Children kidnapping for politics

The only things Atiku is using to campaign is kidnapping. And funny things is ,it's his kinsmen that are behind it.
Atiku should be a capital suspect for master minding all these attacks

yarimo:
From indication how makinde was speaking he knows something about this school kidnapping

He knows Tinubu or his supporters are behind the abduction

osuofia2:
Didn't your quran said western education is a sin?

Point out the verse that said so.

Only your liar Sunday school teacher said so

Amotolongbo:
Western Education and Knowledge is sacrilegious but they could utilise it to execute their aim and believe.
Why didn’t they use their quran verses and hadiths which they believe in to build AI or execute their plan?

It’s all about politics of stealing people’s land

Good that you mentioned it's all about Power, Politics, Private militias.

Has nothing to do with Quran and Hadith.

If i may ask, why Elon Musk who own ChatGPT, can't expose them? because they are his customers right!! or all other AI company they registered with can access their planning and logistics movement before execute it.

What am I even saying, who is selling weapons to them? Which ship transport it, which port they offload? How they moving it into countries and it reaches the fighters.

That is why you should know it's beyond Religion matter.

iwaeda:
Where are the kidnappers?

They are is DSS custody

The text is enlighten, baraka Allah feek

AdiscoPele:
No USA among those who can enter free. Very funny 🤣

It's true, I don't even thought of US will not make the list.

Nigeria is in US category be that

MemoriesAndMe:
Thats what I thought too until I did some research on Iran. Iran is the country and there are several tribes and religions within it.

The largest are the Persians, followed by the Islamics. Their beliefs are different and how they are buried are different - not same day for all.

Not sure why Iran is tagged Islamic Nation of Iran when Persians are more than Muslims there. May be its me that dont fully understand their way of life there though.

But you can read more about Itan below from AI


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Iranians are a nationality, while Persian is an ethnicity. Therefore, Iranians can be Muslim, but they are not defined solely by that religion, nor are all Iranians Persian. [1, 2]
To break down the difference:

• Iranian: Refers to citizenship in the country of Iran. It is a multi-ethnic country. About 61% of Iranians are Persian, while others are Azeri, Kurd, Lur, or Baloch.
• Persian: Refers to a specific ethnic group tied to the region's ancient history and language (Farsi). Persians make up the majority of Iran's population, but the ethnic group extends to other countries like Tajikistan and Afghanistan.
• Muslim: Refers to a follower of the religion of Islam. While roughly 90% to 99% of the population in Iran identifies as Muslim (mostly Shia), the population also includes Christians, Jews, and Zoroastrians, and many Persians are non-religious. [4, 7]

In short, "Iranian" tells you where someone is from, "Persian" tells you their ethnic heritage, and "Muslim" tells you their religion. [1, 4]

AI responses may include mistakes.

[1] https://www.quora.com/Are-Iranians-actually-Muslim-I-always-knew-that-persians-are-proud-of-their-ancient-pre-Islamic-past-but-is-Islam-still-a-big-thing-there-I-heard-from-other-Muslims-that-many-Persians-dont-take-too-Islam-seriously
[2] https://www.thoughtco.com/is-it-iranian-or-persian-3555178
[3] 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kej941kmJOk
[4] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iran
[5] https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2025/6/20/a-simple-visual-guide-to-iran-and-its-people
[6] https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-difference-between-a-Persian-and-a-Muslim
[7] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_in_Iran

Good job with the research, but i doubt if you actually read it and understand it.

*From what you post, Parsian refer to tribe not Religion.
So that means they are parsian and also Muslim (a person can be both)

MemoriesAndMe:
The largest are the Persians, followed by the Islamics.

MemoriesAndMe:
Not sure why Iran is tagged Islamic Nation of Iran when Persians are more than Muslims there.

*While roughly 90% to 99% of the population in Iran identifies as Muslim

Why the doubt? If a place has 90% to 99%, you can actually generalised it

Hezzyluv:
I dey confused here. I thought he was supposed to be buried the same day he was k!lld?

Buried while missiles were flying,
though that shouldn't stop them if the want to. But because of state funeral to befit his status, and also they has special place to Buried their great leaders, as you can see, he buried in Iraq which will not be possible in the midst of war

O boy, Its Ojoro.

You think winning football is only what you can play on the pitch, Officiating kills a match. Why disallowed a goal, penalty not given.

Why Trump call is enough to overturned a RED card.
Nothing wrong with Africa, but we are not yet compete on the same ground with Europe and America

robosky02:
0IAh

Let us understand, are you advertising for Boko-haram or Bandit.

Many top players will boycott playing AFCON in Nigeria, make they no kidnapped them.

Imagine Salah, Mane, Oshime, Hakim been kidnapped and Tinubu said he can't negotiate with terrorists for their release.

Wahala!!

ipobarecriminals:
the GOAT himse .
If PORTUGAL reach FINAL .Go's willing,I'll watch it live

Live or only wish or for your dream?

Anyway, apologies, I don't know you bank account

But sorry, where is that Yansh she do? That means she nor before, this is still potable

Borrow2222:
Pete Obi writes again:



Source

@OP, this is not how to do poll, all options means the same thing, no opposite options. obedient wise up, that's data from someone like you is always a disaster, you impose your opinion

Kanwulia:
The reason THEY WILL REFUSE TO LEAVE and will RIG TO HELLLLL to stay in power FOREVER!!!!

Nigerians are battling a DEMONIC, POLITICAL CULT!🍷

They can only do the rigging, but they can't survive the defeat in 2027

I think office of presidency is only look for cover up for this illegal agency.
How come he was able to do all these documents passing through CBN, giving office at federal sectarian, host website on FG domain, budget been allocated to him.

With what I know of Tinubu, Gbaja can not survive it, though he will prove the agency is fake but he will later resign.

Good one guy!!

I think long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together should carry more weight than love.

Love is psychological emotional, it can fade into tiny air with time if some core things are not in place.

At 31, she may be eager to marry, and that's the reason she herself ignored the err in social and career gap. So your mum is not doing a wrong thing but she need to be soft on her, to let her see the reasons they are against it.

Though, girls are emotional and do things first before reason. But she still need to take the desion for her future not being forced. She just need their guide

Politics and politiking

It's a good idea everyone should execute but discussing with one partner will look as if there is no trust. And truly many partner stay because the wealth

Instead of borrow loans, make Nigeria do like Iran.
Goto war with US, let them kill our President, then we demand for $300b for damage

This OP, nawa for you oo00.

It's easy to know obedient people, Please show us source where FG mentioned Adire, what do you gain in spreading lies.

It's good to carry along our children in our dealings, for continuity or preservation of the good work

Apcshit:
Nigeria is gone to the dogs.Why workforce inec remove NDC but ADA will be listed

To give 0bidients an option to port to

Chijeep:
To cut the long story short, I did my traditional marriage 3momths ago, though I met the girl online but before we even started talking about marriage, our chat always flow with fun and togetherness.

But the moment we return back to our base after the marriage this girl started behaving like introvert and a bit celibacy. Won't want to talk to me like in the aspect of gisting and barely share issues and decisions with me. Even the aspect of food she hardly find interest in eating what I'm able to provide.
I've confronted her more than 3 times and reminded her that I told you already before we go into this union that I'm not rich yet and I'm managing, and she assured me that she's also not from a rich home either and she'll be supportive. but now the girl will be acting as if I'm forcing her to eat the rubbish I provided.

I told her that she's free to quit the marriage if she's not that impressed and happy but she doesn't want to or maybe she's thinking of how people will see her.

PLEASE WHAT CAN I DO AS THIS IS AFFECTING MY EMOTIONS?, BECAUSE I'M A GUY THAT DECIDED TO LIVE AND DO MY THINGS ALONE, SO THAT I'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE MORE TIME WITH MY WIFE AND CHILDREN WHEN THE TIME COMES.

Bro, there is no issue without way out.

If you really want to work on your marriage, both of you can try a counselling session with a counsellor or you can get some books speaking about marriage.

If couples did not spend some quality time together before marriage, they always start the married life like a stranger to each other. I feel similar earlier in my marriage, you know most religion against too much intimacy before the marriage, so there are 1000s characters you don't know about her. Yes she said she will be supportive in theory, but this is reality and it doesn't mean she not but it's not necessarily mean in terms of money.

Many foods do not ready to serve until passing through the hotness of fire, likewise every marriage, it takes process, time to bond