Politics › Re: Abaribe: Nigeria Would Have Been Better Under Peter Obi by lapintoz: 7:02am On Nov 26, 2024 |
Of course.....in your dreams, it would have been better.
Afterall you can easily build castles in the cloud while dreaming.
Everything is POssible! |
Politics › Re: Forensic analyst explains how INEC Rigged Edo Election (Video) by lapintoz: 6:48pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
SCAM SCAM SCAM Cyuare: please guys please don't just scroll pass. please I beg you in the name of almighty GOD pls someone should please help me, my little sister and I we are starving. Please help us the last time we ate a good food was from our neighbor on Thursday last week. Since then we have surviving on drinking garri since on Friday and the garri we use to have hope has finished. the little money I have I used it to pay for house rent so that we can at least have roof over our head. am pleading for help please, not for my sake but for kid sis please am a primary school teacher and a house painter, our mom is late and my dad has retired. No matter how little it will go a long way to help us. May GOD in heaven come to your aid as you have come to ours. amen opay 70 42 32 80 59 M.A |
Family › Re: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by lapintoz: 5:13pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
You are 100% right. He sacrificed less than 50% for you unlike your mum. So he should get far less. amazinghands: I relocated to the United States about eight years ago. My relationship with my dad has been strained and continues to deteriorate.
Background: I grew up in a lower-middle-class family with both my mom and dad working hard. Everything changed when my dad started earning significant money. His newfound wealth led to a lifestyle filled with parties, women, and alcohol (to be fair, he earned his money, so he had the right to spend it as he pleased). He built a hotel and was barely home afterward.
2010: While I was in college, I wanted to leave Nigeria due to the incessant ASUU strikes. I told my dad I wanted to study abroad. Initially, he agreed and gave me the funds to start the process. I was admitted to a school in Ukraine and secured a visa, but he later said he couldn’t afford to send me abroad. This decision felt contradictory, as his lifestyle said otherwise. (To be fair, it’s his money, and he has the right to decide how to spend it.)
2016: I got admitted to a master’s program in the U.S. and approached my dad for help again. He told me to "cut my coat according to my size" and said he couldn’t sell any of his properties for the sake of a child studying abroad. (Again, to be fair, he was right—he had already paid for my college tuition in Nigeria.) Around the same time, he married another wife.
On the other hand, my mom sold her only piece of land and some jewelry to give me half of my first semester's tuition. After involving family members, my dad reluctantly gave me ₦400,000, stating that was all he could afford. I thanked him for the support.
Fast Forward to Today: I struggled and worked odd jobs to make ends meet, determined never to ask him for help again. Over time, I’ve become financially stable, secured a good job, and am now a permanent resident. I give my dad a monthly allowance and occasionally send more during festive seasons. My mom, on the other hand, gets spoiled with gifts, extra money, and I’ve even invited her to visit and spend time with me in the U.S.
Now, my dad is broke and has suggested I buy him a car and increase what I do for him, despite the fact that my parents are separated and he currently lives with his second wife. I’ve told myself I won’t go above and beyond for him, especially since he chose to prioritize his lifestyle and the new wife (who came with a stepson). I find it hard to reconcile his past decisions with his current expectations.
Am I in the wrong here? |
Career › Re: Japa: Senior Lawyer Shuts Down Chamber In Akure To Become A Cleaner In The UK by lapintoz: 1:52pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
No be juju be that.... |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar Is 78 Today by lapintoz: 12:07pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
Happy birthday Alhaji Atiku. The Turakin Adamawa of our time!
Please send your ambition to the museum of failed presidential aspiration projects. |
Crime › Re: Soldiers, Unknown Gunmen In Fierce Gun Battle In Abia by lapintoz: 11:09am On Nov 25, 2024 |
I trust PBAT, una no go hear pam again. Operation lizards smile 😃 |
Politics › Re: LP Rep, Attah Thaddeus Spotted Wearing Cap With Tinubu's Logo by lapintoz: 9:15am On Nov 25, 2024 |
Tell that to the jobless lot. Those in gainful employment and business will adapt and adopt. Life goes on..... London - Lagos flight is hitting $4,000 in December and the flights are filling up to the brim..... But you are wailing dollar rate.....you better find something productive to do with your life... Temptation147: Toh, dollar is 1750 What do you have to say? |
Politics › Re: LP Rep, Attah Thaddeus Spotted Wearing Cap With Tinubu's Logo by lapintoz: 9:10am On Nov 25, 2024 |
He has been BATified 🙌🙌🙌 |
Health › Re: Men Lacking Morning Erection Need Medical Examination, Say Urologists by lapintoz: 11:16pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
This scam has been on for years... Run run run! Newage360: Dear everyone, please, i won't be doing this if only there's a glimmer of hope. please forgive me, but it seems that I have no choice. I'm typing this with tears in my eyes and with a very heavy heart. I'm doing this for my little girl who is asthmatic, I have exhausted my savings to buy her Seretide inhaler but at this point it has become too expensive to afford. I work two jobs to provide for my family but it never seem to be enough and as it stands I have exhausted all channels with which I can borrow money to buy it. It is sold for 18,500 but anything we can lay our hands on is perfectly okay please. Even 1k will go a long way to keep my baby girl alive please. Please my family, am on my knees, I am pleading for assistance to save my daughters life. I beg you in God's name please.. Any well meaning Nigerian whom God has touched their heart to help us, please help us. May the Almighty GOD bless all you lay your fingers on, amen.
10 25 02 57 87. First City Monument Bank (fcmb) May God bless you immensely ❤ 🙏 |
Politics › Re: Sir Jude Nnam (Ancestor) Has Been Released From Kidnappers' Den by lapintoz: 12:52pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
See what Nigerians thank God for. To be alive, hale and hearty in this country is a miracle.
Sad |
Politics › Re: Can Goodluck Jonathan Make A Historical Comeback Like Donald Trump by lapintoz: 11:38am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Of course yes. But on what platform....PDAPC |
Politics › Re: Finland Court Remands Simon Ekpa In Prison For Inciting Terror In Nigeria by lapintoz: 9:51am On Nov 24, 2024 |
Men, this person don kolo o..... You need immediate psychiatric treatment. Can you even read what you wrote? SMH. legitnow: I DONT HAVE TIME FOR NIGERIA RETARDS.
FROM AMAKA IN CANADA TO SIMON IN FINLAND, NIGERIA IS DISGRACED.
ALL THE ATROCITIES YOU COMMIT AND HATE SPEECH, THEY HAVE BEEN COLLECTING AND STORING.
THAT IS WHAT PEOPLE THAT HAVE REACHED THEIR LAST BUS STOP DO, WHEN THEY NO LONGER WANT THE ASSOCIATION.
HE HAS BEEN GOING ROUND TRYING TO SHOW ANYBODY THAT CARES TO LISTEN.
NOW HE HAS A WHOLE JUDGE TO TENDER HIS EVIDENCE.
U NO SEE SAY U DAFT |
Romance › Re: Soldier Catches Wife Cheating, Feeds Her And Her Lover Cake (Photos) by lapintoz: 6:49pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
The man went to the lion's den to conquer |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by lapintoz: 5:13pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
That is the tradition. The father in law don follow other people chop bride price....now its the turn of others to chop. If the guy no fit afford the amount asked, he should move on. Another Odogwu will ask for the lady's hand in marriage. TheBillyonaire: That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.
He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London. |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa: Nigerians In Finland Panic As Search For Sponsors Begins by lapintoz: 11:55am On Nov 23, 2024 |
At least Ojukwu stayed to fight for Biafra before he ran away. Hand never touch this one and he is already singing I am a content creator.. .. Buffoon Peterobiisathie: Coward people They will never take responsibility for their actions |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa: Nigerians In Finland Panic As Search For Sponsors Begins by lapintoz: 11:07am On Nov 23, 2024 |
One word!
Cowards |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa’s Arrest Huge Relief For Ndigbo - Ohanaeze by lapintoz: 12:29pm On Nov 22, 2024 |
The coward Simon Ekpa is already claiming to be a social media content creator......I laugh in Spanish. He is no longer the Prime Minister of Biafra. He don dey shit for body....
And you have millions of idiots following this maroon of a coward.....telling them to sit at home while he is living in luxury smiling to the bank 😄 |
Politics › Re: ‘Don’t Waste Your Time Again In 2027’: Bode George Begs Atiku (Video) by lapintoz: 9:52am On Nov 22, 2024 |
Like Donald Trump....Atiku go try again....the worst fulani man after Buhari.....he must be really desperate and his 30 children wanting to suck their teeth into the nation's treasure |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa Not Our Member, Should Not Be Associated With Us- IPOB by lapintoz: 9:49am On Nov 22, 2024 |
But when he says sit at home, you do.....
Mumu |
Politics › Re: Nigeria More Polarised Than Ever After 2023 Election, Tinubu’s Unpopular Reforms by lapintoz: 6:21pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Dey play.....you wan make omelette without breaking egg....continue |
Politics › Re: Finland Court Remands Simon Ekpa In Prison For Inciting Terror In Nigeria by lapintoz: 3:59pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Off course you and your ancestors are with him. How come your aamaka has been quiet. Who shut her mouth.....she for continue to dey run mouth now....and see if she no go chop watery beans and dey service chief warden..... legitnow: SIMON WILL USE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO OPEN UNA SMELLY YANSH FOR FINLAND.
ALL THE HATE SPEECH, MASS MURDER, HE HAS BEEN COLLECTING COMMITTED BY NIGERIA MILITARY.
REMEBER HE HIS A GOVERNMENT WITH MANY NETWORK OF PEOPLE THAT WILL BE WOKING OVERTIME.
HE IS NEVER ALONE. |
Politics › Re: Finland Court Remands Simon Ekpa In Prison For Inciting Terror In Nigeria by lapintoz: 3:55pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
His IPOB idiotic followers can sit at home indefinitely until they release their Lord of The Manor 😁
Emeka in Iceland or Russia should take over |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kill Architect Asomba Andrew Egbuonu 4 Days To Mother’s Burial In Anambra by lapintoz: 3:02pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
MC Oluomo and Seyi Tinubu be their problem at the moment. madridguy: They are intentionally making their region uninhabitable so they can move to others region and be fighting with the real owners of the land.
As you can see, Saint Obi-Tu-Lie is yet to comment or grant interview over the killing, let wheel barrows jam each other in the SW he will be the first person to sign the condolence register. His disciples are busy talking about MC Oluomo. |
Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa Arrested In Finland - BBC Pidgin by lapintoz: 2:37pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Fake news..... |
Politics › Re: Soludo Has Successfully Linked Up Anambra Airport To Onitsha/Awka Express Road by lapintoz: 10:53am On Nov 21, 2024 |
Solution has truly come to Anambra. Far better than the Pandora's 8years of gbajue performance record in the state. |
Politics › Re: Senate Removes Danladi Umar As CCT Chairman by lapintoz: 8:05am On Nov 21, 2024 |
Your ancestors.........already sacked 😁😁😁 GOFRONT: UNIZIK VC, sack........Registrar....Sack
PTAD.....sack.......
Danladi.....sack.
Tinubu.......To be sacked
Its the week of massive Sack..... |
Education › Re: Tinubu Sacks UNIZIK VC Odoh, Dissolves Governing Council by lapintoz: 12:04am On Nov 21, 2024 |
Ma so your ancestors too take observe.... Mr observer. 😁 legitnow1: TINUBU YORUBA PRESIDENCY DON ENETR UNIZIK.
WEN U CANNOT GO NEAR THE FULANI OR HAUSA MAN OFFICES, AND U RUN OUT OF OFFICES TO SHARE IN SW, U WILL INEVITABLY ENTER SE.
LET HIM APPOINT THE YORUBA HE WANT TO APPOINT THERE, WE ARE ALL OBSERVING KEENLY HIS NEXT MOVE. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Sacks PTAD Boss Chioma Ejikeme, Appoints Tolu Odunaiya As Replacement by lapintoz: 1:43pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
When Obi finally become President, my people go hear am o. He will give us Minister for Toilet Affairs, Minister for Street Sweeping and Water front Surveillance 😀
No complaints |
Business › Re: Ladipo Market: Mushin LG Takes Over Market by lapintoz: 7:38am On Nov 20, 2024 |
You should not expect less from both of them. Obi and Oby suffer from selective amnesia. Richtaiwo: Ladipo market is in Mushin LGA of Lagos state. Mushin LGA is taking over this Ladipo market which is located within its area. Naturally, this shouldn't raise any eyebrows.
Neither of Peter Obi and Ezekwesili live or come from this area. In fact, none of them come from Lagos state. But as it is now, each of them will soon organise press conferences to discuss and criticise this decision, which is in the best interest of both the traders and residents of Mushin and, by extension, Lagos state.
Meanwhile, a famous Christian music composer, Jude Nnam, was reportedly kidnapped recently in Anambra, Peter Obi's state of origin and acclaimed residence. It was also reported that ipob terrorist group killed 5 Anambrarians last Monday while enforcing sit-at-home. Yet, till this very minute, neither of Peter Obi and Obi Ezekwesili has deemed it necessary to be worried about this, even on X. If hypocrisy were a human being. |
Politics › Re: NNPCL Admits Challenges Delaying Port Harcourt Refinery Take-Off by lapintoz: 10:58am On Nov 19, 2024 |
Professional lambas. They have to disband nnpc for this country to move forward |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of President Tinubu Representing Nigeria At The G20 Summit by lapintoz: 7:59am On Nov 19, 2024 |
Hand sey shake, leg dey shake, baba wey no well, he dey shout emilokan.....this song sweet die.....
But who go sing that song now.....
See PBAT looking fresh and younger than their fathers!
Carry go Baba! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Abioye Begins New Ministry After Retirement From Living Faith Church by lapintoz: 11:53pm On Nov 18, 2024 |
Not at all. You got me all wrong. I never ever ever worship men, only God. But I listen to their preaching and only pick those ones that resonate with my understanding of the bible. For example, when they quote a verse....I read verses before and after their references for better understanding. Each and everyone of us can speak directly to God and He will listen to and answer us if we BELIEVE. You do not need a middleman to get across to our Father who hath in heaven. 🙏 Kobojunkie: 1. So, they are not holy after all, just humans. Which God then do they claim to speak to because the God of Israel whom they lie against says He only communes to those who are holy and righteous, not humans. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
2. So, it is Daddy Go, and not God, who validates these doctrines and teachings of theirs for you lot? Your Christian life is as defined by these selective ideas your Mogs put forth, essentially they are the gods you worship. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
3. You mean you would gladly Worship him(not with him), right? because that seems to be what you have been doing even before now.  |