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fellis:
I was expecting you to come back with feedback about what happened when you saw the psychiatrist today.

Are you even serious about this thing?

Anyways good luck. Your problem is psychological and not spiritual.

he traveled 4 xmas,I'll see him later

fellis:
Please do so, I strongly believe it will help you. Also, if you can, try to confirm that it is a reputable doctor who knows what they are doing before you tell them your issues. This is so that you don't end up getting shabby treatment from some idi•t quack that will conclude that your problem is spiritual and send you off, just because they don't have enough medical know how to handle the case.

ok,thanks a lot,I'll do that

starlingleanets:
Well not a problem for me Holy Spirit is in charge.

so which means without a holy spirit such thing can even come across your mind?

This thread irritates me alot

For this question to be asked it simply means such thing is happening in some families

Jesus christ,me we dey use my sisters back do pillow if she snatch the only pillow on bed

if I see my sister's sensitive parts of the body it only irritate me

This question should be about cousins not flesh and blood



Isi odikwa ndia mma?

Tallesty1:
We all know that there’s something inside us that fuels the desire to marry. If we are not married then we’re missing something. There’s something wrong with us.(or atleast we feel that way.) but I have seen men that have refused to marry and they are not being disturbed or gossiped like women.

Often times I do see posts on here that preach being single but the funny thing is that if you pay close attention to the message you will understand that the poster(woman) ain't happy being single.(in most cases)

In our families and society, we see single women as a problem to be fixed, a conundrum to unravel. No one can rest until they are sorted. Everybody will be giving advice/suggestions.

In fact, if a woman in her 30s should open her mouth and say that she is single and happy, I can tell ya that no one will believe her. No one. It's at that word 'happy' that everyone gets stuck.

Once a woman is in 30ish and not married yet ha, I can tell ya that she will be restless(most of them) unlike guys. A guy can be in his late 40s and still be cool with it, people will still not see any problem in it but the reverse is always the case if it is a lady.

So, together, let’s consider why men are generally cooler with being single than women!

its a man's world ,period!

I always tell people that this issue of age being a number is only in a man's life not women,women use that to console their selves

A man can decide to marry at the age of 50,a woman dare not try it

My father is 64 and is about getting married 2015,he keep rejecting women we bring saying he doesn't like them,his taste is too high even at that age

Can a woman of that age get married? Even if she does its a miracle and bigger miracle to bear children

So a man should be cool being single not woman

fabolakers:
What I will ask you is was his money involve? If you're the one that took all the risk, payment shouldn't be more than 10% even God no dey ask for more than that.

its actually a friend of mine gave out number to someone,the guy won #110,000 and gave him #20,000 and he refused it,so the guy ran to me in order to speak to my friend on his behalf

He's scared because he doesn't want problem that will circulate the issue since he's a son of a pastor,no one should know that he plays pool

asalimpo:
Op, if u opened a thread to lament why cudnt you go the extra mile and state exactly what the problem is?
You want posters to fish it from ur mind?

Dont make another comment until you address this issue.

I have over 100 people who know what I'm talking about here,they've been following me for long

Atigba:
@op
I have been following your topics in this forum
Today I conclude you have a psychological problem
You might have a spirit tormenting you but your problem is more of physical.

You need to see a a doctor a psycratic

ok,I'll see a doc tomorrow,thanks

shdemidemi:
I don't think christianity is the problem here. You might have come for the wrong reason, you might have been sold a snake oil by charlatans who mask themselves as christians.

OP, why did you choose to become a christian?

What is so depressing about your new lifestyle that warrants suicidal thoughts?

What would you rather do or have to feel happy?

I had issues and they said the only way to be free and remain free is becoming a "born again"

Which I am but feeling like I'm obligated to,like am in a hostage or something

fellis:
@lastchild, In all honesty,I am not writing this to insult you but I really think psychological help will do good for you. Am not calling you crazy, no. I think you are sane and the problem is that some of your neuro systems or body chemical processes are not working the way they should and that's why you have these issues you think are spiritual. Please try to see a Psychiatrist and tell them your problem. Seeing a psychiatrist does not mean you are crazy and perfectly sane, intelligent people also see psychiatrists when they have problems that cause them mental distress, its not just a crazy people thing. I say this because I genuinely care and want to help you; please see a psychiatrist.

thanks a lot,I'll try and see one tomorrow

Ishilove:
The problem with lastchild is he has not truly surrendered his life to Christ, and as such is looking for a fast and easy way out of the battles. He calls being born-again an unpleasant lifestyle. This emanates from a heart that is not yet broken.

In the scriptures, God did not say you won't pass through fire. No, He said WHEN you pass through the fire, I will be with you. (Isaiah 43: 1-5)
. In order words, there will always be battles in life but He will see us through.

If you faint in the days of adversity, how weak your strength is. Before the test-imony comes the 'test'. These are the days of your 'test'. Chin up man and surrender to God, because the devil, your adversary has got his eyes on you.

getting born again should be willingly not a ransom for something that is chasing you

Am born again by force,the worst is what I became born again for is back in worst conditions

sagio09:
This guy must b a mugu if he collects it.I never accept ur point shld b put in consideration to ur actions.honestly ur points are pointless,u're jst tryn 2 betray him 4 other hidden reasons d@ I can figure 1 out.U said "he's currently broke".I think u're tryn 2 leave him bcox he doesn't hv cool cash. Remember "The rice @ d top of the flask was once at the bottom of the pot.

on the contrary,the guy must be a mugu if he doesn't accept that cash,what is love?

@ op don't be surprise at the guy collecting the money with smiles and you finding out you were not what you think to him

Not just happy in this new lifestyle called born again, feeling so suicidal

Chazzyboy:
50

Lol.. Then if you are the one 2 give,how much would you give?

Chazzyboy:
Give 30

if you are the one who gave out the number,how much would you expect?

Well, I don't support him but let him win so boko haram will stop,we need peace

Somebody gave you pool number and you won #110,000 , please what's the ideal amount to give this person

Note: you didn't have any agreement with the person

LMAyedun:
Beautiful!
Son 9yrs, father 24yrs... that means Pato became a father at 15yrs?

Lol...

You catch am, nigerians don't think before they lie, davido said he was born in 1992,in an interview he said he started doing music in early 90s

The way money enters my hand is different from the people earning salaries,if you were paid #100,000 as a salary you already know your tithe is #10,000

What about a business man who doesn't know his profits weekly,some business men only check their balance yearly,how is he going to pay since tithe should be 10% of your income(gain)

If it is guaranteed that I'll later have a male child then I'll prefer a female child as a first born,a 12 year female child is more useful to the family than male,female child usually take care of their parents at old age more than male especially when they are first born

But in all ramifications I prefer male child as the first born because there's no guarantee if I'll later have one,and you know very well that a family without a male child is in trouble

Ghostlady:
bro you no dey tire ni which family you still dey find again...God protected ur family till this moment,you dey complain...some people they wish for just father/mother/brother/ sister....yet you get,you dey complain...

don't you know that some people's misfortune is because they have brothers and sisters

@ topic,I love my family but hate my lineage with passion

JUBILEE2000:
By d grace of God I was a deliverance minister in mfm for some years. D scriptures we used to teach about d existence of spiritual spouses are mis-applied n quoted out of context. We have been taught wrongly on certain spiritual issues. Sir, u need to soak urself in d Word. The demon torment u bc they know u r ignorant of who u are in Christ Jesus. We should not by our actions make the death n resurrection of our Lord of no effect. Jesus did not go to d cross in vain!!!! D devil was defeated at d cross. I have a lot to tell u but bf then I want u to get me biblical proofs that spirit wife exists

this is so ridiculous that someone whom was a deliverance minister in mfm for many years doesn't know that spiritual spouse exist,what were you doing there?

During your years of staying there didn't you witness a demon manifesting and speaking from the host's mouth? Are they just acting?

Well,in my own case,no one told me that I had spiritual spouse,I know on my own,I know her very well including her name and we become close as day pass by,during the time I wasn't even a christian,it was when her presence in my life became something else that I started running up and down for years which led me to mfm,I told the story in my diary thread

Mfm saved me mr,the only problem I have with the church is that they don't give me a worship song the way other churches do(I don't know if its just here)

If I may ask which church did you leave mfm to?

Longstride:

Lazy friend prays for himself and his hardworking friend.
Hardworking friend works and get results.
Lazy friend does nothing and doesn't get results.
Lazy friend complains that his prayers seem to work for others but not him.

when I bought my first car in 2010 I thought its out of my hard working,what gave me the car told me that she was the one that did it,I doubted her,she collected the car and even collected things she didn't give,she brought me to nothing,absolute nothing that I had to go back to my parents house,I became more hard working but lesser result

Infact when I struggle it become worst,I suffered for years begging her to let me go,running up and down,opening threads all over nairaland,I never knew I was doing it the wrong way until I ran to mountain of fire and had a last fight with her which I won, Although I'm coming up again from square one

In conclusion,hardworking doesn't bring success,if it does barrow pushers should be rich,the struggle that gave me a car in 2010,if you multiply it by 20 that's what I struggled in 2013 but couldn't buy a phone

One thing I understand about this nysc is that the story differs for many people

JUBILEE2000:
sir, can i tell u smth that will shock u? U been busy fighting smth that has no basis in scriptures. God is faithful n still answers prayers. I believed n taught this falsehood of spiritual spouses even as a deliverance minister until God opened my eyes through His word. I believe demons, fallen angels n Satan exist but no scripture in the entire bible supports the existence of spiritual spouses. It is only the truth u know that will make u free...may d Lord open ur eyes...Shalom

I wonder the kind pf church you attend,you believe demons and fallen angels yet you don't know that they are spiritual spouses

Thank God for mountain of fire ministries,I would have been living in bondage while saying there's no such thing as a spiritual wife

JUBILEE2000:
what if i tell u that spiritual spouses only exist in ur imagination.

pls lets go to the Word of God n give me biblical proofs of the existence of spiritual spouses..thank you

I used to reason like you that's why spent many years in bondage

Greyworld:
Dis kind thrash nor dey unical jor

who told you? Go to ette agbor and check all those malabites and malabresses living there

Though this is more rampant in institution located in villages

CFCfan:
Especially if she's non-Black

yes he's talking about white girls because according to him he lives in a white dominated area