suggary: I was dating a man who insulted me and rubbished my self esteem.while I was dating him I did everytin to make tins work.I washed,cleaned and served him cos I wanted to make tins work.I knew he had a girlfriend who he refused to dropped yet I managed along.any time I complained we would fight and I was the one been beaten up becos he is stronger than me.I remember my last birthday he didn't even give me any tin cos I refused to sleep in his house.the next day I discovered he gave the bottle of wine out out to his neighour which I bought with my own money.this guy really dealt with me dat it got to a point dat I was a shadow of myself cos the whole tin affected me emotionally.one day he sized my handbag and money and I had to trek home ten in the night just becos I insulted him and the girl he was dating.I bore all this becos of one of my auntys.she was always telling me to be patient and bear anytin I saw cos most women go thru the same.this went on from july to december and God I saw hell.I finally quite the relationship on the 31st of december when he refused to open the door cos I came two hours later than expected.dat day I decided to let go and enjoy my Godgiven life darming what ever my aunty would say.now the monkey has been runing around begging dat he wants to get married to me and he knows he wasn't fair to me and he has decided to change his way dat he was only testing me if I loved him.(He is a divorce and his former wife cleared everytin when she was leaving).he has been crying to my parents and they all seem to like him cos I never told my mum what he did to me when I was dating him(she would disown me and my aunty if she hears half of what I went thru).now he wants to get married and he wants me back.should I give him the benefit of doubt.deep down I don't know if he has changed or he is coming back cos he feels he has a dummy he can always ride on

peterchicagofun: Sure sure, today i saw very interesting story...look at this:
"(...)Wanda's Story
A Bitter and Broken Vessel

true love stories The year was 1999, and I was a divorcee with two young boys ages eight and eleven. We were living in Baltimore, Maryland during this time.

Because of the mental anguish suffered in my first marriage, I vowed NEVER to marry again.

After my divorce in 1996, I was extremely broken and bitter.

My self esteem was at an all time low, and at one point depression left me 90lbs frail.

But thank God for praying parents and loving family members.

Slowly God began to restore my joy and self esteem. After a few years of healing, I had a desire to remarry.

So I began praying earnestly for God to send me a marriage partner, a Godly man.

For those of you who can't read BTL (between the lines), "earnestly" means I was begging God day and night .

Well, one day when I was in prayer I asked God if I would be married and He gave me a scripture that confirmed that yes I would remarry.

The scripture was Isaiah 62:2-5. When you have time, please read it.

A few months later, He woke me in the middle of the night and spoke the month of November to me. At first, I had no idea what November had to do with anything.

That same night, He also gave me a vision which warned me about a young man I was involved with at that time.

You know God really is a loving Father who only wants the best for us.

Anyway, months went by, and November came and left. But there was no hint of a romantic story manifesting in my life.

Then all of a sudden I began to feel an urgent tugging in my spirit. I felt in my spirit that I needed to move but I had no clue where I was suppose to move.

At first I thought I needed to relocate from the city to the county, so I began looking at houses in the county.

But the Holy Spirit, said "no" that's not it.

After more prayer and feeling confused, I began entertaining the thought of moving to Georgia to join my parents and siblings.

By the way, I had previously told my family that I would NEVER move to Georgia.

I just could not understand for the life of me why they loved the place so much.

I was a true city girl and Georgia was just a little too country for my liking.

But oddly enough, this time when I began thinking about moving to Georgia I was filled with excitement.

I knew and felt that my steps were being ordered by God.

I knew in my spirit that there was something or someone waiting for me in Georgia.

So, after much drama with my ex-husband who did not want me to leave the state with our children.

I stepped out on faith and moved to Georgia in November of 2000. By the way, I had no job when I arrived and very little money in my pocket...(...)"

I hope very interesting story....you can read here http://www.christian-marriage-today.com/romantic-love-stories.html


Have a nice dreams.


Regards.

Peter