₦airaland Forum

For those that said they don't understand what I mean, what I mean is that will your relationship still be fine and the love still intact if a situation which were to warrant no sex occurs? hope you get me now

For those that said they Dont understand what I'm saying is that is sex everything in a relationship. I bet if it were to be taken out(literarily) out of some peoples life their relationship will be meaningless which is not supposed to be so. It should be a cogent part of it(if I'm right) but not all. And that's why we have so many break ups and infidelity stories because that might be what such relationships were based on. Hope you get me now.

TrapQueen77:
Seriously, I have no idea wat u we're talking abt...

I mean if you are to take sex out of your relationship with your boyfriend or whoever how is it gonna look like to you. will it seem boring? childish? Or is it still gonna be the same kind of love?

Guys after your various sexpacades then you realize you're not equal to the task anymore. Or you have been confined to a wheel chair what will you do. You'll feel your life is over? You'll feel you're doomed? Or what I really what to know is that remove sex from relationship what's remaining? Is it still the same kind of love you feel for your partner?

When we are home we and we are asked to go on an errand we feel reluctant to do it and might end up pushing the task to our younger ones. But when we go out hmm even the owner of the work will be begging you to leave the work and go and rest. Its not good oh. God is watching us.

we find love in hopeless places, so we should never underestimate the power of love. But the problem is that most times we confuse love for lust, infatuation for love and the likes. we just need God and our no 6 to know which is which.

Just like choosing a life partner one must also be careful while choosing a career. Choosing a career must be like choosing something that you look at it and you are happy deep within you, happy with your choice ,and happy with your achievement (s). Choose something that you don't get tired of, something that will make you be at peace with God and be able to make you have time for those around you. Cos there's no point in working and you won't have time to cater for your family. Above all let God lead you as you do so and I pray it will end in praise.

Just like a Yoruba proverb says "eni ba ma jeun inu apata ko ni wo enu aake". we don't want to work so vigorously as youths but we want to reap so fat that we feel like we are in a dream. The more we take our hands to work for ourselves and our future, the better for us. If my wish tarry with that of God I'll like to delve into the agric sector cos you'll have something to eat as well as give or sell to others. You'll also be an employer of labour. And as they say "ti ounje bati kuro ninu ise, ise buse" :oJust like a Yoruba proverb says "eni ba ma jeun inu apata ko ni wo enu aake". we don't want to work so vigorously as youths but we want to reap so fat that we feel like we are in a dream. The more we take our hands to work for ourselves and our future, the better for us. If my wish tarry with that of God I'll like to delve into the agric sector cos you'll have something to eat as well as give or sell to others. You'll also be an employer of labour. And as they say "ti ounje bati kuro ninu ise, ise buse"

Ask a youth where would you like to work? You'll hear Shell, Chevron, somewhere so big that their certificate will be hiding to come out for submission. But if we are asked will you like to work in my farm? we will look at that person trying to offer us that job as if he was sent purposely to destroy us. Well when I was in sec school I didn't like agricultural science as a subject but I'm begging to feel some subjects are not the same as when practiced.

we should know what to do instead of relying on the government and blaming them. If the Bible can say "Heaven help those who help themselves" which means before we can attain things from God a step of faith and works must be done by us. How much more the government that is keeping mute and not saying anything. So my dears help yourself ask God to help you and things will be alright band Dont rely on your certificate and be a back slider to God when it doesn't serve you its purpose. God bless. we should know what to do instead of relying on the government and blaming them. If the Bible can say "Heaven help those who help themselves" which means before we can attain things from God a step of faith and works must be done by us. How much more the government that is keeping mute and not saying anything. So my dears help yourself ask God to help you and things will be alright band Dont rely on your certificate and be a back slider to God when it doesn't serve you its purpose. God bless.

You graduate and start looking for job under the course you studied and to the greatest shock the Almighty knowledge you thought you've garnered in school is nothing but a child's play when its time to work. just because of "one course" you step on a lot of people's toe. You feel you are on top of the world. Its very advisable that one acquires informal education too as well as the formal education.
A situation where a graduate can not get a job he begins to think of things that is not true and says someone is after his destiny or so. So let everyone think of how they can get things right

So if education is formal and informal why then do we put all of our life, our body and our soul on just one of it. Most especially in Nigeria if you didn't go to "school" Especially university you are as good as a nobody. How one will go to a university and study a course, I mean one course oh and you feel you've know all there is to education. A course of study is just one out of many things. Then you feel because you've graduated all the knowledge of the world is at your disposal.

I have been having this thought on my mind and the issue of one of our own asking what he/she could do to help improve in school. Just take your time to read through and let's share thoughts together.
Its not a new song in our ears that "education is the best legacy", "education is the best legacy". But sometimes I'm forced to think that most of us Don't really understand what it really means. I consulted a dictionary and this was what it reads out. "Education is the process art of impacting knowledge, skill and judgement.
Also it can also mean facts, skills and ideas that have been learned neither formally or informally.

the thing is that most of the youths nowadays don't know the real meaning of education. And a lot of us are in school just to keep up with the society. that is why we go to school just to study anything given to us and not what we really want. search yourself, it might be that you are not studying what you like. Infact education is more than going to school so don't be so sad.

Adexchelsea19:
Seventh days adventist church is my church and will always be.HAPPY SABBATH DAY!!!

Me too. Happy day bro

ighodalonosa:
GOD bless the SEVENTH DAY ADVETIST CHURCH.

Amen

"give me the Bible" "fill my cup Lord"

hilarious... paedophiles everywhere.

well those that can't read won't understand what's written there. so they will dump refuse there. the owner of the land is frustrated.

yaskarahyelhope:
Bros wake up from ya update slumber. Dis is no brouhaha. Euthanasia and Eugenics didn't start today. Obama once said "Nigeria is a fertile land". U think he was praising Nigeria for its fertile resources? That guy hates Nigeria for its success in everything, that he doesn't want to be in power while we keep succeeding and prospering in all ramifications. As for d boko, dem sabi d genesis gbam! They won't succeed. Bill Gates who tried to push d signing is a staunch member of illuminati even though he's a humanitarian. That's d way they keep deceiving people who feel they are hungry but are not. God will keep exposing them and giving us victory. Nigeria will be d last resort of d world wen ngs goes berserk in everything. Nigeria is d best country in d surface of d earth. Am most proud to be a NIGERIAN!

omg I wish I could hug you. that's just the spirit. we need to be patriotic and be prayerful concerning our nation. God's blessings and favour should be on us. some people's comment tho, so stupid and annoying

EUROBOMBER:
Nigeria has shown to be wise in international politics by covertly siding with Israel in being absent during the UN voting. If at all the US had any evil intentions against Nigeria, we have bargained out of it, trust me.

I pray so. but why Africa. we've been through so much hardship

braine:
Even tho beauty is not the most important trait in a lady, it is a good advantage. Men usually like to show off their ladies. But then in the long run, it diminishes with time. It depends on how gracefully the lady ages tho. Some beautiful women use themselves anyhow when young like bleaching, tattooing etc, then they look horrible later..

. wow u just nailed it . that's the truth

well sound city is also cool. I so much like the video vault where you watch videos of old music. 1980's, 1990's even naija own too.

ok