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Career239 In Jamb But Confused by leoleo59(op): 5:45pm On Mar 18, 2016
I love nairaland for one thing... They help me out whenever am confused...

I wrote this year Jamb utme... I scored 239. I stay in Akure. I was happy about the jamb score but confused on what school to choose.
I don't want to school at my location, if not I would have chosen Futa(akure).

My father told me he doesn't have much. So I have to chose my school carefully.

Also I will love going to Federal university but not that compulsory...

Therefore, I have 3 schools in my mind, but don't know which to put on my First choice...which are 1.unilorin
2.u.i Ibadan
3.Akungba

I actually choosed Futa akure but I don't want to stay around my family cox of their influence...

So plz choose for me out of this 3. And besides does being an Indigene matters. (am from ondo).

As u do that, may the lord remember you for good.
Education239 In Jamb... But Confused by leoleo59(op): 5:08pm On Mar 18, 2016
I love nairaland for one thing... They help me out whenever am confused...

I wrote this year Jamb utme... I scored 239. I stay in Akure. I was happy about the jamb score but confused on what school to choose.
I don't want to school at my location, if not I would have chosen Futa(akure).

My father told me he doesn't have much. So I have to chose my school carefully.

Also I will love going to Federal university but not that compulsory...

Therefore, I have 3 schools in my mind, but don't know which to put on my First choice...which are 1.unilorin
2.u.i Ibadan
3.Akungba

I actually choosed Futa akure but I don't want to stay around my family cox of their influence...so am considering changing of institution

So plz choose for me out of this 3. And besides does being an Indigene matters. (am from ondo). what majority tells me here, I follow.

As u do that, may the lord remember you for good.
Christianity EtcHome Is Like Hell Fire by leoleo59(op): 8:22am On Mar 17, 2016
Am 25yrs of Age, with 5 younger ones, Am currently doing my n.c.e at Adeyemi college of Education....The second born is out of school getting ready for service, while the 3rd born should be at part 3,while the 4th born just gained admission.... I am the oldest of all doing my nce(my education is somehow slow due to some circumstances).I noticed that my dad doesn't love me as a first born, my younger ones are valuable than I, every mistakes I do counts, while my younger ones mistakes are overlooked... He even called me one day that he's not proud of me, that am not presentable. In short, home is like Hell fire... He told me that he's through with me after my NCE program.Though I am an huzzler, I try not to call them much for much.. I work here and there to survive in school... so as from December I left home till now (March) I haven't called home for money, not even going home at all, to avoid being a burden to them...my father once told me I have no future...he compares my progress to my younger ones...(sobing). He dare not see me bringing a lady as friend home let alone gf.. ..but my younger ones do bring friends ladies or male....My younger ones enjoy opportunities than I.. .i am just neglected .So I decided that before they see me, it will be long may be May or when I finish my program by August...The question is, hope am not wrong by not going home, (bcoz my dad is just so strict)... I don't know maybe I would have been disowned already for not coming home.... Home is just like Hell(and besides am 25, I need to learn to be independent) ....Am I wrong by not going home for a long time even though he's still sponsoring me.... plz help me out.... thanks.

Thanks for those who commented yesterday, God bless... Am posting it again to learn more... For the viewers, don't just view, comment too.
Christianity EtcHome Is Like Hell Fire by leoleo59(op): 8:16am On Mar 17, 2016
Am 25yrs of Age, with 5 younger ones, Am currently doing my n.c.e at Adeyemi college of Education....The second born is out of school getting ready for service, while the 3rd born should be at part 3,while the 4th born just gained admission.... I am the oldest of all doing my nce(my education is somehow slow due to some circumstances).I noticed that my dad doesn't love me as a first born, my younger ones are valuable than I, every mistakes I do counts, while my younger ones mistakes are overlooked... He even called me one day that he's not proud of me, that am not presentable. In short, home is like Hell fire... He told me that he's through with me after my NCE program.Though I am an huzzler, I try not to call them much for much.. I work here and there to survive in school... so as from December I left home till now (March) I haven't called home for money, not even going home at all, to avoid being a burden to them...my father once told me I have no future...he compares my progress to my younger ones...(sobing). He dare not see me bringing a lady as friend home let alone gf.. ..but my younger ones do bring friends ladies or male....My younger ones enjoy opportunities than I.. .i am just neglected .So I decided that before they see me, it will be long may be May or when I finish my program by August...The question is, hope am not wrong by not going home, (bcoz my dad is just so strict)... I don't know maybe I would have been disowned already for not coming home.... Home is just like Hell(and besides am 25, I need to learn to be independent) ....Am I wrong by not going home for a long time even though he's still sponsoring me.... plz help me out.... thanks.

Thanks for those who commented yesterday, God bless... Am posting it again to learn more... For the viewers, don't just view, comment too.
Christianity EtcHome Is Like Hell Fire by leoleo59(op): 8:07am On Mar 17, 2016
Am 25yrs of Age, with 5 younger ones, Am currently doing my n.c.e at Adeyemi college of Education....The second born is out of school getting ready for service, while the 3rd born should be at part 3,while the 4th born just gained admission.... I am the oldest of all doing my nce(my education is somehow slow due to some circumstances).I noticed that my dad doesn't love me as a first born, my younger ones are valuable than I, every mistakes I do counts, while my younger ones mistakes are overlooked... He even called me one day that he's not proud of me, that am not presentable. In short, home is like Hell fire... He told me that he's through with me after my NCE program.Though I am an huzzler, I try not to call them much for much.. I work here and there to survive in school... so as from December I left home till now (March) I haven't called home for money, not even going home at all, to avoid being a burden to them...my father once told me I have no future...he compares my progress to my younger ones...(sobing). He dare not see me bringing a lady as friend home let alone gf.. ..but my younger ones do bring friends ladies or male....My younger ones enjoy opportunities than I.. .i am just neglected .So I decided that before they see me, it will be long may be May or when I finish my program by August...The question is, hope am not wrong by not going home, (bcoz my dad is just so strict)... I don't know maybe I would have been disowned already for not coming home.... Home is just like Hell(and besides am 25, I need to learn to be independent) ....Am I wrong by not going home for a long time even though he's still sponsoring me.... plz help me out.... thanks.

Thanks for those who commented yesterday, God bless... Am posting it again to learn more... For the viewers, don't just view, comment too.
Christianity EtcI Almost Committed Suicide by leoleo59(op): 10:04pm On Mar 16, 2016
I am 25yrs of Age, with 5 younger ones, Am currently doing my n.c.e at Adeyemi college of Education....The second born is out of school getting ready for service, while the 3rd born should be at part 3,while the 4th born just gained admission.... I am the oldest of all doing my nce(my education is somehow slow due to some circumstances).I noticed that my dad doesn't love me asa first born, my younger ones are valuable than I, everything mistakes I docounts, while my younger ones mistakes are overlooked... He even called me one day that he's not proud ofme, that am not presentable.In short, home is like Hell fire... He told me that he's through with me after my NCE program.Though I am an huzzler, I try not to call them much for much.. I work here and there to survive in school... so as from December I left home till now (March) I haven't called home for money, not evengoing home at all, to avoid being a burden to them...my father once told meI have no future...he compares my progress to my younger ones...(sobing)He dare not see me bringing a lady as friend home let alone gf.. ..but my younger ones do bring friends ladies or male....My younger ones enjoy opportunities than I.. .i am just neglected .So I decided that before they see me, it will be long may be May or when I finish my program by August...The question is, hope am not wrong by not going home, (bcoz my dad is just so strict)... I don't know maybe I would havebeen disowned already for not coming home.... Home is just like Hell(and besides am 25, I need to learn to be independent) ....Am I wrong by not going home for a long time even though he's still sponsoring me.... plz help me out.... thanks
FamilyRe: I Almost Committed Suicide by leoleo59(op): 9:56pm On Mar 16, 2016
Swissheart:
Hmmn..... ... I understand how you feel. Firstly let me make this clear to you.. . That you are running an NCE prog when your siblings are running a degree program isn't a measure of what the future holds. NCE appears likes a program that waste time and for the less privileged but that is not true.Immediately you are through with this program don't hesitate to proceed for your degree. You will get there someday.
For your family... It is normal for ppl to look down on us, this is the more reason why you musnt relent but strive to make them celebrate you. Do you know some parents show preference to their kids based on Academics, Age, success, Attitude, Character, Financial assistance wink.. .... However it is normal for parents to show love to a child than others. You are the eldest so you just have to absorb everything this will make you appear matured. Go home once in a while but pls behave well.
God bless you, am inspired
FamilyRe: I Almost Committed Suicide by leoleo59(op): 9:52pm On Mar 16, 2016
no they didn't call me.... am Just inspired by your advice... God bless you @redwriter
FamilyI Almost Committed Suicide by leoleo59(op): 9:18pm On Mar 16, 2016
I am 25yrs of Age, with 5 younger ones, Am currently doing my n.c.e at Adeyemi college of Education....The second born is out of school getting ready for service, while the 3rd born should be at part 3,while the 4th born just gained admission.... I am the oldest of all doing my nce(my education is somehow slow due to some circumstances).

I noticed that my dad doesn't love me as a first born, my younger ones are valuable than I, everything mistakes I do counts, while my younger ones mistakes are overlooked... He even called me one day that he's not proud of me, that am not presentable.

In short, home is like Hell fire... He told me that he's through with me after my NCE program.

Though I am an huzzler, I try not to call them much for much.. I work here and there to survive in school... so as from December I left home till now (March) I haven't called home for money, not even going home at all, to avoid being a burden to them...my father once told me I have no future...he compares my progress to my younger ones...(sobing)
He dare not see me bringing a lady as friend home let alone gf.. ..but my younger ones do bring friends ladies or male....My younger ones enjoy opportunities than I.. .i am just neglected .

So I decided that before they see me, it will be long may be May or when I finish my program by August...

The question is, hope am not wrong by not going home, (bcoz my dad is just so strict)... I don't know maybe I would have been disowned already for not coming home.... Home is just like Hell(and besides am 25, I need to learn to be independent) ....

Am I wrong by not going home for a long time even though he's still sponsoring me.... plz help me out.... thanks

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