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dre11: Queen LerteefatI'm good and u?. I dey come here just lowkey. |
dre11: Woa!Hi dre |
Monstertrucks: I would never break ur heart nau.I'm a female like you ![]() |
mikyke: my dear dis is my true life experience not a fiction. for a second I felt the whole world crumbling dwn b4 my own eyes. I built everytn around herGood that you passed the test. I hope she is actually worth it too and she is as true as you are to her. #justsaying. |
That was too expensive but it was worth it. How do girls even get idea on how to test their partners,i heard it is good to do so once in a while. I've never done it. ,though i have never had a reason to test him. |
Shade gold..... |
This Op must be sooooooo fine,only you gor all the babes tripping,wow. ![]() |
I love this,if it was me,i would do the same. Obama was too engrossed in the conversation with the other woman,wtf was that for . |
donphilopus: I'm fine ma, and you??I'm very fine,thanks. ![]() |
GentleMimi: Na that one u go quick dash me! Mbok,i dash u back!Werin caseless do you,he loves you and you know it. ![]() [quote author=Maria-Goretti]lolz idonblivu.[/quote]Believe it baby,i know their style ![]() |
donphilopus: Hello aunty!How r u doing uncle? |
donphilopus: We're all here!Hi |
[quote author=Maria-Goretti]Caseless and Lertee.....you guys should just kiss already.[/quote]He belongs to mimi, ![]() |
caseless: ![]() |
It's been a while...where's everyone? ![]() |
caseless: whr is lertee? ,howfar? |
Wow ![]() |
Mondisweets: so mentioning that they both work means she wants him to do allYou are not good at argument and you are only trying to twist matter after you have seen the glaring truth. The OP asked if it is cool to draw a duty roaster with her hubby all because they both work. The answer is NO,it is not cool. It is only cool for the man to help her out at his own discretion. Now when she said duty roaster,what is the definition for duty roaster? It means i will do some and he will also do some like division of labor right? So stop making it look like i wrote that the OP said she wants her hubby to do ALL house chores. |
Kween1: Nl's pls roaster btween hubby nd wife indicating who to prepare food is it bad? at least am working you are working and if you get home b4 me you cook vice versa.At bold is the major reason she feels it is cool to draw a time table. Mondisweets: please show me where, " the woman (OP) made it seem like HE HAS TO DO ALL because they both work."Are we clear now? |
Mondisweets: i remember the very first post stating " if you get home before me and vice versa" where did she say roaster for cleaning and bathing the children? According to sharia a woman does work at all and a man does chores at his discretion right? In this case this OP clearly doesn't live according to those norms because she works. Any reasonable man with common sense knows that if he cooks before she gets home she gets to clean up the house earlier and they can go to bed earlier. Its really nit rock science its a matter of getting things done when they need to be done. Whats the point of leaving her to everything simply because one believes he is a man and its not his duty, who will eat late at the end of it?I have not stated the sharia version of marriage so leave that aspect,i only wrote that i don't want to bring in that one. A woman should know her duty and should not expect her man to share duty with her. It is morally wrong. I get the point you are trying to raise that a man can help out YES,he can help out at his own discretion not when the woman make it seem like he has to do it all because they both work. You are not getting it here and you need to calm down. The Op stated that because she is working and her husband is working as well then they should share chores. It is crap. |
Seanord: hello lerte...I am the nairaland e-ashawo...currently trolling on threadsOk,that's a nice one. Keep it up. |
Mondisweets: not every person lives by sharia law or african traditions. Are they both not working? Don't they both get tired? There is a reason why some women have resorted to feminist views! What a man can do a woman can do and what a woman can do a man can do too. Whats so sinful about a man cooking if his wife gets home late? Clearly if there is nothing sinful about a woman working a 40hrs week to help with paying the bills and buying the food they will both consume, then i dont see anything sinful about a man helping out when his wife gets home late. OP said when one gets home before the other and vice versaMadam i don't want to bring religion into this,i bet you don't want to know what sharia says about a woman and man in marriage. A woman does not even work the man does everything to the point of going to buy foodstuff in the market and the wife takes care of the home. Now in my previous post,see i didn't say a woman should be left to do all house chores couple with her usual office work NO. A man may or may not help out with house chores,it is done at his own discretion. That a woman works same hours as her husband is not enough to draw up a duty roaster in the house for housechores. Monday: husband cooks n washes toilet Tuesday: wife cooks n arrange the house Wednesday: husband baths the kids and cook...and so on....ahan reason am na. |
Kween1: Nl's pls roaster btween hubby nd wife indicating who to prepare food is it bad? at least am working you are working and if you get home b4 me you cook vice versa.This is what FEMINISM is turning our ladies to. What happens to our African pride as a woman being submissive to her man and taking care of the home. Your husband can help you out if he wants to but doing a roaster is ridiculous. |
Some guys can really be funny with advices. When a girl refuses to stay with a guy when he has nothing,she will get insulted,now she stood by him and he is earning little change but he isn't spending for her,she complains and she still gets insulted that she is still his gf and not his wife,whew,can a woman ever please the world NO. To make matter worse,he is cheating on her and she keeps enduring wtf. OP,if your boyfriend is stingy now,that is how he will remain forever,he can never change,if he cheats on you now and you keep forgiving him,he will continue doing it because he knows you will always forgive him. The ball is in your court. |
[quote author=DE_GONGS]You like chocolate baa? U stay close to Lag?[/quote] ![]() I love chocolate |
[quote author=DE_GONGS]Lol at "not easily convinced" sure I observed that already ofcos! Will be in naija before next weekend.[/quote]Alright then,i wish you a safe flight back. Bring something for me. ![]() |
[quote author=DE_GONGS]You came across like one who sticks to her gun no matter what. ![]() Thanks for your wish. Sincerely grateful I can only tell you that both of us will be home before Xmas break.[/quote]Lol,don't mind me. I am not easily convinced .I see,hope you woulda finished the exams by christmas and you won't have to go back or something? |
[quote author=DE_GONGS]Be sure he'll hear that. Latifat I know you now. ishsoph says high hope you're no longer mad with me. ![]() Where is Cathaliya and Spikes ![]() Caseless how far bro Mimi I sight you and am bewildered you haven't wished me luck on my forthcoming exam[/quote] ![]() Smiling in greek..regards to him ![]() I wish you all the best in your exams,go for success and the Lord will be your strength. So when is ishsoph coming back? |
Mondisweets: Garri ti pami oo.Mo ti mun garri yo,ikun mi fe be.Mo yo de bi wipe eni ti ko jeun gan san ju mi lo. Ye ikun mi oLol ![]() |
GentleMimi: Busy,but good.Hw abt u?Mine wasn't too busy. I did little work and got back home early. It is december now,nothing serious again. ![]() |
GentleMimi: Interesting.....Pa antelope sells garrium.Hey babes,how was your day? |
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