adepink: Huh? How can he be ready 4 marriage wen he's nt ready 2 part with a little cash My advice 2 pple is alwaz tell ur partner what's troubling u about him/her bcz until u share it, it will keep bothering u.
Give him a test jor, cook up a story abt u needing a specific amt of money 4 sometin urgent, watch how he will react 2 it. If he gives u, gud; but if not, OYO when u guys get married. Project or no project, so wen u guys r married, u will be using feeding money 2 do project ba

Big.game:

Why? Don't you love him enough to settle down with him, or are you evaluating his said stingy attitude with money towards you? which in that case makes you more concerned with his money not how he treats you, not how you guys are compatible with each other or even if you truly love him and vice-versa .
Op no offence but i think you are more concerned about his Owoh, ask me why and i will show notable points from your first post.

adepink: Huh? How can he be ready 4 marriage wen he's nt ready 2 part with a little cash My advice 2 pple is alwaz tell ur partner what's troubling u about him/her bcz until u share it, it will keep bothering u.
Give him a test jor, cook up a story abt u needing a specific amt of money 4 sometin urgent, watch how he will react 2 it. If he gives u, gud; but if not, OYO when u guys get married. Project or no project, so wen u guys r married, u will be using feeding money 2 do project ba

jmoore: Before you call him stingy you need to know the answers to the following questions.

1: Do you know the amount he gives to his siblings?

2: Do you know the amount he gives to his parents?

3: Do you know the amount he gives to others that are not related to him?


A stingy man cannot be stingy to only you.

segzi cres: This babe is confused. As far as the relationship goes, he has no obligation to buy stuffs for ya or sh it! if you cant tell him simple sh it thatbothering you then teres a problem. Abeggi dont come n sugar coat your side of te story feining angel floating inr the sky.

Nuzo':
I've come to realize that most women live a delusional life of thinking that any man who sleep with them considers them their girlfriend.

On the other hand, why do some of our ladies feel it's the obligation of their bfs to take care of them financially even when these ladies are doing well for themselves?

And then he finally gave you the money you are greedily yearning for and you hypocritically refused it.

What do you want?!!

faakay:

common that's too harsh on her

she just felt she stood by him when he was still hustling and since he bucks up..

he should give her some nice treatment!

Since the guy wants to propose atleast he should start showing some attitude

I think the poster is feeling unsecured like is this how this guy would be behaving after we get married I mean you have got cash and you don't want to spend even she's not demanding as prescribed

are you guys saying you don't spend for your babes? so because she's not your wife so you don't want to spend to make her happy atleast

you guys are bunch of hypocrites, I bet some of you have spent recklessly on babes!!!







On point

arcbabe: Do you know how much he gave me?

jay bee:
I was reading your post, nodding along and was ready to click like until i got to the point where you advised her to lie.

Just talk to your man since you aren't comfortable with his stingy ways. He would probably make the right adjustments if he truly loves you.

faakay:

common that's too harsh on her

she just felt she stood by him when he was still hustling and since he bucks up..

he should give her some nice treatment!

Since the guy wants to propose atleast he should start showing some attitude

I think the poster is feeling unsecured like is this how this guy would be behaving after we get married I mean you have got cash and you don't want to spend even she's not demanding as prescribed

are you guys saying you don't spend for your babes? so because she's not your wife so you don't want to spend to make her happy atleast

you guys are bunch of hypocrites, I bet some of you have spent recklessly on babes!!!







On point

Nuzo':


How much my dear?

arcbabe: An unreasonable amount

adepink: Huh? How can he be ready 4 marriage wen he's nt ready 2 part with a little cash My advice 2 pple is alwaz tell ur partner what's troubling u about him/her bcz until u share it, it will keep bothering u.
Give him a test jor, cook up a story abt u needing a specific amt of money 4 sometin urgent, watch how he will react 2 it. If he gives u, gud; but if not, OYO when u guys get married. Project or no project, so wen u guys r married, u will be using feeding money 2 do project ba

mecussey:

Her boyfriend could be testing her as well, what if this money seize to come tomorrow? Op if you love your boyfriend, stop asking for a dime, one day he will ask you what happened. My ex babe changed when I got a car suprisenly, she said so i had been underspending on her..WTF. Op you are wrong for rejecting the money. Dont compare what he is giving you with his assets. Try to be one of his assets and not a liability. Let us look at it this way. No matter how much he gives you, there are bigger spenders and no matter how much you want to collect, there are better collectors. If I were you, i will concentrate on how he would love me more and how do you achieve that? By been different from other girls. Almost all girls are money consious, do not be money consious. I was suprised when you said, you are rejecting his proposal because, you are not sure if he will spend on u in marriage. This is how dumb you are, how can you use such a myopic thought? If I am the guy, i may start having double mind...i would not like my children to be so dumb. If you becomes his wife, automatically, everything becomes yours including the cars and the house. So what are you worried about? What do you need money for in the first place, if not jeweries and Brazillian hair. Park well jo

arcbabe: thanks for the advice but you can as well pass your message across without insulting me by calling me dumb.

scribble:

i spend recklessly on my mom, and my girl. I know. Just did their xmas allocations. point here is she should exercise patience, maybe he's planning for a wedding. she shouldnt be throwing tantrum on NL because ole' boy never sanwo

arcbabe: An unreasonable amount

Snoggy: Which one be unreasonable amount? Tell us the exact amount jorh. Because to me, 50,000 naira is unreasonable. So tell us.

faakay:

OK. But you spend for ur girl recklessly and u accusing the poster cos her guy never sanwo abi... Shey bi iwo se ma se fun baby ti ni yen, but u don go rush by xmas collection when xmas gan never reach.

Exercise patience for aw long? When its wasn't rosy she was now its getting beta so she should keep been patience till when?

jay bee:
I was reading your post, nodding along and was ready to click like until i got to the point where you advised her to lie.

Just talk to your man since you aren't comfortable with his stingy ways. He would probably make the right adjustments if he truly loves you.

arcbabe: I told him last year that I needed some money to start up a business but he hasn't given it to me. That part about feeding is very true oh my sister! How can I get married to man and visitors will come and I will tell them there is no food in the house or a situation where myself and kids will be complaining of no food or shopping money because am married to a stingy man,that is what I am thinking. I don't want my kids to suffer because of my mistake of marrying the wrong person.

arcbabe: I told him last year that I needed some money to start up a business but he hasn't given it to me. That part about feeding is very true oh my sister! How can I get married to man and visitors will come and I will tell them there is no food in the house or a situation where myself and kids will be complaining of no food or shopping money because am married to a stingy man,that is what I am thinking. I don't want my kids to suffer because of my mistake of marrying the wrong person.

faakay:

common that's too harsh on her

she just felt she stood by him when he was still hustling and since he bucks up..

he should give her some nice treatment!

Since the guy wants to propose atleast he should start showing some attitude

I think the poster is feeling unsecured like is this how this guy would be behaving after we get married I mean you have got cash and you don't want to spend even she's not demanding as prescribed

are you guys saying you don't spend for your babes? so because she's not your wife so you don't want to spend to make her happy atleast

you guys are bunch of hypocrites, I bet some of you have spent recklessly on babes!!!







On point

ochon:

Gob bless you. So so, on point. That guy is defo stingy. I'm not saying he should spend the world, or but things for her recklessly, but a guy which his lady stood by him when drinking garri(I'm giving an example) was the status quo, now he's got money, living well and building a house(and we to build house in naija no be beans), h e can't spend for his chick?. C'mon, that's stinginess. I bet you, if he loves and care about this lady so much, she won't complain before he buys things for her. The buying shouldn't be a one way thing though, the lady should reciprocate once in a while according to her pocket's size. When a lady receives only and thinks she's giving back through sex/in kind, most times, the guy demeans her and pride sets in. That's what some ladies still haven't figured out.

Once again, nice post bruv, you killed it.

gcfr.com:

Most sensible comment so far.

mecussey:

If she gets the nice treatment, he is already paying her back. I like it when someone is owing me.

gcfr.com:
huh? So he shud starve d poor lady to death? Lol

mecussey:

The lady was not starving when they were in a room apartment.