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lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

you need to figure out your life and path first.

RodgersAkpafu:
"basement squatter "

Permanently on nairaland ?

Lmao
More jokes

Im just here to let yall know that the derogatory words you use to describe women are not people who are sensible will use to describe women.

But apparently yall alfa mails are irredeemable, so continue basking in your delusional thoughts

He say "even left overs" wont look my way
🤡 🤡 🤡

no you're here for the attention and validation, you otherwise lack in the other side., the real-life from women.

It is the true reason you're orbiting around this post.

You won't stop until your salvation comes

Mrchippychappy:
Oga it is not virginity that created Boko Haram, Fuel scarcity, power failure, lack of education, poor healthcare. No be virginity go fix am. Please get your priorities straight.

one of the examples

RodgersAkpafu:
How is having a number of sexxx partners in the past a "horrible past"?

"Penilely destroyed"
Only a blunt pencil will think an organ that a human head passes through can be "destroyed penilely"

"left overs"
What does that even mean?

Man kids of these days are even more misogynistic than when I was growing up decades ago.

Well, make una continue sha

growing up decades ago and you still miss common biological reality and psychological truth admitted even by liberal commentators?

Seems you still have decades yet to grow.

See you when you get there eventually.

Mrchippychappy:
Una country is in the worse state its ever been in, even the civil war era, Nigeria wasn't this bad but na irrelevant matter like a woman's viriginity dey bother una. Truly u deserve the leaders u get.

women are the foundation of society everywhere. A promiscuous woman will destroy a good man and all his efforts.

A sound society starts with a good mother and girls with long body count don't make the cut.

I didn't my know how you term virginity and women virtue irrelevant.

Could be it's personal to you.

marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?

olo. Osho and their defenders will be very vexed at this post for its brutal truth.

Girls who have been penilely destroyed and men in love with leftovers will die defending and denying the truth about women with horrible past.

Sonnobax15:

Wahala

Maybe he was mistaking the bag of beans he married for something light

be respectful. That's someone wife. Don't show us your family standards

Strong countries demand for accountability and for the criminals to be brought to justice.

Weak countries ask for evacuation without holding the host criminals accountable.

As long as our elections have dubious credibility and weak , unqualified individuals, the worst candidates will continue to project us weakly before the outside world.

hush15:
But that is highly irresponsible of the Nigerian army na. You see the problem, we always encourage stupid behaviours. If we look am well now, I am sure you must be an APC apologist. By their actions, how is the army not different from the stupid officer that shot a unarmed suspect. Is army now into kidnapping? The other day, they went into someone's house and kill a corner and still denying it.

What is wrong with Nigerians...

I am not even saying don't arrest, but let his people know. The law says one is innocent till proven guilty. Why abduct him, and kept quiet while his family have now idea of his whereabouts. Is it a crime to tell Nigerians truth about how they are being treated. Na wa o.

If tomorrow na, Army abduct you for whatever reason and people don't know what's going on with you, what will you say...

the people are worse than even their leaders. People so uneducated and sentimental encouraging unlawful abduction by the army in the guise id arrest

Originalsly:
Why are they asking for justice to be served now when justice was going to be served on site? I'm not saying they should've killed the beast ... but give it the same treatment it meted out to the girl... what's wrong with an eye for an eye? Some people deserve jungle justice.... now she has the opportunity to bribe her way free.....move on....and commit the same crime again. I'm almost sure this is not her first victim ... and if freed ...will not be the last

What's the difference between you and that police officer in Effurrun-Warri?

Nemesis0147:
Don’t tell him
Just be looking for an apartment….even if he gives you quit notice….it will be at least 6 months for you to vacate

These landlords are heartless

and she will still pay for the 6 months notice at the new rates

Misterone:
Oga, stop talking nonsense! Get your facts right! Do you know the meaning of the word arrest? Even in the constitution, there's what's called citizens arrest! The citizens have right to detain someone going against the laws of the land and then hand him/her over to the lawful authorities. Talk more of the armed forces!

you're still speaking more from a sense of bold ignorance.

Citizen's arrest is activated when one witnesses a crime being committed or strongly suspects a crime.

That the armed forces are given guns doesn't mean they possess the power to arrest. Your concept follows that even the Nigerian Corrections officers l,vaka Wardens, can also arrest because they have guns.

Also, when citizen's arrest is applied the suspect is handed over to the police immediately without taken to any other facilities or cell or barracks as that would amount to abduction and illegal detention.

Now get this and get sense, if someone breaks into the army barracks to steal, if he's apprehended, the army calls the police or hands him over to the police IMMEDIATELY.

Now in this case is a cyber claim of incitement or incitement claim by the lazy unprofessional army, they have no powers , no authority to go after the guy in his house or anywhere to arrest him.

You cannot refuse to learn or grow or improve yourself.

Don't kill this country with ignorance.

Abi you be part of lazy armed forces who thinks guns give you right! ?

Because you seem to be the muscle head and less the brain

Misterone:
it's like you have comprehension issues! Didn't you see where it was written that he's been handed over to the relevant authorities for investigation and prosecution?
Oga, if you no like the country, leave am na? Go Togo

you're the one with the comprehension issues. Or maybe you don't know how theaw works

The army have no powers arresting anyone. The army isn't a law enforcement agency

The only thing they ought to have done is to petition the police or dss for action and not arrest the man

Don't let Nigeria happen to you mentally.

ExAngel007:
Army confirms arrest of social critic, Justice Crack; accuses him of inciting soldiers to create discontent within the system




https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2026/5/army-confirms-arrest-of-social-critic-justice-crack-accuses-him-of-inciting-soldiers-to-create-discontent-within-the-system.html

madness and unprofessionalism.

The strongest military in the works , the United States army was lampooned by runoursxin the press that they were rationing food for troops on the Ford Aircraft carrier.

The United state army corrected the rumours with an official statement and not arrest the press for holding them to account.

Secondly if soldiers grant interview to a blogger why is the army blaming the blogger and spinning it as incitement? What powers in Nigeria does the army have to arrest anyone?

This is why they can't defeat the insurgency for over 20 years because the professionalism, discipline and tact have since long left the army.

I hope the blogger sue this dundees

SixSeven:
If there's no hard feelings, then you can attend. Your ex becomes a friend or ex lover. Even if you divorced the person, I don't see anything wrong in visiting them. This life na one. Those who carry war on their head were the 2 kids fighting. I attended my ex wedding. The separation was matured so no hard feelings. I don't get it why people will sever ties just because they stopped a love relationship, that's childish. You can maintain distance if you are afraid of catching feelings but you were just a chapter in my life. Next chapter.

never seen a post so put maturely yet so foolish and naive

Another jobless EFCC chair giving unverifiable statistics for media sensation.

With this kind of dumb people in position of power , he's encouraging his men and also members of the police to profile student without proof or reasonable suspicion.

And he's 100% correct. Tinubu doesn't care about decency or shame or standards. This is arguably the most corrupt political era in the history of Nigeria where a man is turning the entire multiethnic nation into a one party state out of political anxiety and fear

Obi has left Labour and suddenly Labour's Wahala has suddenly ended. It's now ADC and problems are sprouting out everywhere like weeds.

And the hungry despicable people in support of him cannot even speak the truth for the sake of their children for tomorrow

In case anyone is wondering how this is possible.

Doctors account for one of them ost demographics with substance abuse. Yes many of them are substance abusers and actually go on theatre on a high.

You don't remain sober and leave a pair of scissors in the stomach of a human being.

Many doctors in Nigeria were forced into the profession for clout and family affiliation without the zeal or interest.

That's how we got here.

The Nigerian government should hold Pretoria responsible for this to the highest standards.

We cannot give Neanderthals their freedom and they turn around to polute humanity. If not for Nigerian government many of this people in SA will still be sharing habitats with chacma baboons.

Enough of lazy minded people in SA feeling Africans owe them anything when they are surviving...their very economy is riding on the backs of African migrants while they loaf around drinking pap and drugs.

nlfpmod:
https://www.thecable.ng/he-was-shot-in-his-room-family-rejects-armys-account-of-nysc-members-killing-demands-probe/

You guys deserve an Oscar. Bunch of liars and killers pic.twitter.com/T7LQ5OKUp7

— #Renewed Shege ProMAX #EndSARS (@prettycachy) April 26, 2026

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8660964/corper-abdulsamad-jamiu-shot-dead

The tired and useless line police use in arresting innocent bystanders or pedestrians for bail money... saying there was an armed robbery incident at the vicinity.

The soldiers have learnt form our corrupt and unprofessional police too lying that they were responding to an armed robbery attack....since when are soldiers mandated to go after armed robbers?

Savageman247:
SOURCE
https://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/04/tragedy-in-abuja-nysc-corps-member-shot.html

Army releases statement:



Source



https://www.icirnigeria.org/army-confirms-corps-members-death-during-shootout-with-robbers-in-abuja-orders-probe/

Crossfire indeed! Look at where ur men shot from! Did the gun fight happen in the house? Fucking liars. Arrest the monster that carried out this crime and charge him! pic.twitter.com/ghy0lx8hct

— SAVI🃏 (@betsage24) April 26, 2026

What is the army's business with armed robbers? Are the army law enforcement agents.

This poorly trained and criminal elements are without bounds or laws or restraints.

From the video, it is clear that shots are from within the compound and not from outside.

The army should vacate the streets and stop posing as law enforcement agents.

They can't fight and defeat bolo haram for 20 years but can act the with bloody force on civilians

God1000:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzpEq0LOVt8?si=r87oU1266qOpEClf




https://www.facebook.com/reel/1022821163758172/?app=fbl

The South African economy is run by the 8% white and sustained by African migrants why Xhosa and Bantu and Zulu wait on food stamps and grants .

Africa should stay away . We grant them their freedom and country and they owe us an incalculable debt forever.

edunwablog:
A high-profile land dispute between the former Governor of old Anambra State, Chief Jim Ifeanyichukwu Nwobodo, and the Chief Executive Officer of Energy FM, Dr. Basil Kenechukwu Ogbuanu, has escalated into a legal firestorm following the alleged demolition of property worth hundreds of millions of naira.


​At the heart of the crisis is a ₦5.8 billion claim brought by Dr. Ogbuanu against the elder statesman and his wife, Dr. Patricia Nwobodo. The Lagos-based businessman alleges that his investments at Patson Estate, Independence Layout, were not only secured through a deceptive web of shell companies but were eventually reduced to rubble while he was being "persecuted" through the criminal justice system.


​The Demolition and the ₦5.8bn Bill

​According to court filings obtained by our correspondent, Dr. Ogbuanu is seeking ₦820 million in special damages specifically for the destruction of his buildings and the loss of construction materials.

This is bolstered by an additional ₦5 billion claim in general damages for what he describes as emotional and psychological distress.
​Ogbuanu’s legal team asserts that after obtaining all necessary building permits and government approvals, his development was allegedly targeted in early 2026.


The plaintiff claims that while he was being detained, earthmoving equipment—allegedly protected by police officers—leveled his structures and carted away materials worth millions.


​A Web of Companies and "Conflicting Titles"

​The plaintiff’s statement of claim paints a picture of a complex transaction involving multiple entities linked to the Nwobodos. Ogbuanu alleges he paid over ₦235 million for several plots (R/18 to R/22), initially dealing with Millennium Construction & Estate Developers Ltd.


​However, the plot thickened when subsequent transactions were moved to Linkana Hotels Limited. A search at the Ministry of Lands later revealed a third entity, Moss Island Limited, held the actual title as of 2022.


​"All the sales done in the name of Linkana had no authority because the property belonged to another company," a source familiar with the case alleged.

​The Counter-Suit: "No Enforceable Sale"

​In a swift legal counter-move (Suit No. E/244/2025), Senator Jim Nwobodo and his wife have asked the court to declare that no valid or enforceable sale ever took place.

​The former Governor maintains that Ogbuanu proceeded with construction despite being notified that titles were undergoing recertification due to government land-use changes.


Nwobodo claims he offered the investor a refund, which was rejected. He further alleges that Ogbuanu’s workers assaulted a police officer and "unlawfully confined" his wife during a site visit in January 2026.


​The Failed Criminal Prosecution

​While the civil suits loom, the Nwobodos suffered a legal setback on April 15, 2026. A Magistrate Court struck out criminal charges of conspiracy and assault filed against Dr. Ogbuanu.


​His Worship D.K. Ekoh lambasted the complainants for a "lack of diligent prosecution," noting that Dr. Patricia Nwobodo failed to appear in court to lead evidence.


The court consequently awarded ₦1 million in costs against her, with the Magistrate remarking that complainants who stay in "luxury homes" instead of proving their case must pay for the wrongful inconvenience caused to the defendants.


​The Road Ahead

​As it stands, the Enugu State High Court is set to become the battlefield for two conflicting narratives: one of an investor allegedly defrauded and his property demolished, and another of a prominent family defending their estate from "unauthorized building activities."

Mrs Nwobodo has caused irreparable damage to the Nwobodo family and legacy.

After collecting money for this said property since 2021 and handed over papers and documents, she now demolishing the property to force the owner to accept refund.

The greed and wickedness of this woman who is also a lawyer is unprecedented. After boasting she will never allow the man to build. She boasted this at the Independence Layout police station

ogododo:
BREAKING NEWS: Starting July 1, 2026, Nigeria 🇳🇬 will introduce a new "green tax" surcharge on vehicles with high-capacity engines (2,000cc and above) as part of the 2026 fiscal policy measures. This tax aims to encourage cleaner energy by placing a 2%–4% levy on high-emission vehicles, while smaller vehicles, mass transit, and electric vehicles are exempted.

Source

cleaner energy? In a country that uses generators in their millions as an alternative power?

In a country where 99.9 % of the citizenry can't afford brand new vehicles?

In a country which has not even achieved manufacturing or production basis by even 3rd world standards?

Tinubu is delusional, corrupt and a complete failure plus a fraud.

China is still heavy on coal and oil and producing more caborn footprints and Nigeria with practically zero manufacturing industry is killing it before it starts.

A 2000cc engine is the one found in Toyota Camry 2001 model yet it's taxed as high capacity engine in a country that has zero car manufacturing plant

Is this illiteracy or corruption or both? God help this country from the hands of its leaders who are vultures

Patriotic9ja:
*Suspect In Custody

President Trump was rushed off the stage, and he and his Cabinet members are all safe.

Updated 12:03 AM EDT, Sun April 26, 2026


What we know
• President Donald Trump said a suspect “armed with multiple weapons” charged a security checkpoint before shots were fired at the White House Correspondents’ Dinner tonight in Washington, DC. Trump was rushed off stage, and he and his Cabinet members are all safe.

• The suspect — who is in custody — will be charged with using a firearm during a crime of violence and assault on federal officer using a dangerous weapon, US Attorney for the District of Columbia Jeanine Pirro said. Authorities have identified the suspect as a 31-year-old California man, law enforcement officials told CNN.

• CNN’s Wolf Blitzer was outside the ballroom at the Washington Hilton when he saw a gunman opening fire just a few feet away. He was among the dozens of attendees who took cover as law enforcement swarmed. A US Secret Service agent was shot in their protective gear and has been hospitalized, sources said.


https://edition.cnn.com/2026/04/25/politics/live-news/trump-white-house-correspondents-dinner

Your headline is fake news .

Tareq1105:
Do you know that you can be tracked and arrested by this reckless comment you just made?

You guys don't learn. You don't come over to social media and be talking rubbish, insulting people in authority and damaging institutions just bcoz you have data.

Pls, I beg of you, don't bring your emotions and frustrations to social media. There's no hiding place here except if the authorities ignore you. It can get you into what you never bargained for.

Let's be guided please.

please shut up and sit down somewhere.

What allegations has he made here to warrant this your threat of tracking and arresting?

If someone claims majority of the members in the judiciary are corrupt and paid by the ruling party to carter to their whims, that is quite a remark any citizen can make against an institution that has been seen losing public trust

It's quite a different matter legally if he had said particular individual.

Abi, do you want to trace him for saying some police men or military men are corrupt and abuse human rights?

You're lucky nairaland bot is too sensitive for insults now, I would have cursed you to the next life.

Rubbish

Jakumo:
This man comes across as a law-abiding citizen who armed himself with an illegal pistol NOT to commit crimes, but to protect himself from criminals who carry firearms and can only be deterred by an armed citizen who is willing to stand his ground and reject the role of a submissive victim.

The cardinal mistake made by the man caught with a pistol, was his decision to arm himself with an illegal handgun, rather than going through the proper channels to obtain a licensed shotgun or rifle. Outside of serving and retired military or police officers, NO Nigerian is allowed to own a concealable gun, be that a pistol or a shortened shotgun. For home defense, a standard shotgun is far more effective than a pistol, in trained hands.

Hopefully the judge slated to try this case will temper justice with mercy.

he's a cultist, no? That's not the defence of an innocent person to me

WriterNig:

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🔗 Times Of Israel || Jerusalem Post

old stale news since over 3 days ago.

Copy and paste propagandist

joseph1832:
Wrong bro, very wrong. Actually, to be a Nigerian, that is, a typical Nigerian, you have to possess a magnificent amount of shamelessness and total lack of common sense.

About 10 years ago, on this very site, didn't we experience the total lack of shame, and common sense from some Nairalanders, albeit, nigerians?

If you possess a single amount of shame and common sense, watch how those who don't have any of this things, swoop on you, like flies on sh1t, just to take advantage of you.

We live in a messed up system!.

lolz. It's just disgusting to watch