₦airaland Forum

The kind of mentally disturbed neurotic imbeciles on Nairaland is staggering.

I hope it's not a reflection of the mental health and IQ of this country.

Reading Nairaland comment feeds is heartbreaking

I know she must be Igbo

Worthless regional block

lacasera14:
Honestly, I need to find the originator of this theory that ignoring women will make them chase you.

How does that even work?

They say you'll ignore her, don't reply her texts, don't call her often, even when she calls you form busy and promise to call back but don't call back, keep yourself busy with other women, pretend like you can thrive without her and see her chasing after you like her life depends on you.

Really?

In what world is that?

The truth is, a woman that loves you or is attracted to you can easily lose interest when she notices you don't have her time or starve her attention. Women thrives on attention, they do everything to get it, and when they don't get it, they find it elsewhere. So, even if the woman loves you to your poo, and you starve her attention, you cause her interest in you to decline. She feels "okay great, this guy doesn't like me and I don't want to disturb him, let me focus on this one that has my time".

Secondly, if the woman doesn't even like you, she'll be glad you stopped calling and texting and you gave zero chance of winning her back if you like surround yourself with multiple women to create the illusion that you're highly sought after. She'll only wonder how dumb these women are that they're flocking after you.

I conducted this survey on about 30 different women and all gave the same reply

"If a guy keeps ignoring me and starves me attention, I feel he doesn't really want me and I'll move on because I'm beautiful and there are other men who want me too, so why chase after one that shows disinterest?"

Lastly, I think the only girls that will chase a guy who ignores them are low self esteemed, insecure, less attractive, broke, without-a-life, sociopaths, and mentally unstable girls.

No real girl with beauty, brains, steeze, curves, charms, small money and high self esteem will chase a guy or crave a guy that is showing lack of interest in her. She believes she's the prize and should be chased, not the other way round.

So, I wonder again, who thought men this?

Modified.

If you hold unto this fallacious theory so strong you're willing to experiment with it, then I'm game. It will be fun while it lasts. We create a WhatsApp group to share our screenshots of chats.

We approach beautiful women online or offline, chat them up, inspire some vibes and ghost them, then see how many will chat back or call and become interested. 10 girls each. We can finally put this theory to rest and dispel the deception.

The undiluted gospel of a bonafide simp

I just know there's a link between Igbo and criminality and olosho..... while not all smokers are violent criminals, all armed robbers and violent criminals smoke

oloriooko:
take out time and read again before passing your judgement

you're dancing in circle, young man

oloriooko:
read my post again then read yours and make appropriate adjustment

well-worn. A second read doesn't suffice. You said what you said and it came out the way it did.

oloriooko:
OP FYI all churches are registered as NGO which must be audited and account for every penny received and spent to the govt. The letter you received detailing their account are evidences for audit report. And as an NGO you are non profit and mandated to run programs helping the needy and poor. The govt closely monitors your activities and expects the church to keep to all stipulated rules and regulations guiding NGOs.
Check the whole of UK how many churches do you see boasting of massive buildings except the very old orthodox churches
So church in the UK is a helping non profit group.

your statement which is a general knowledge seems as if it's justifying the theft and lack of accountability in many Nigerian churches.

It is the opposition planning it with the Chinese.

DaddyCoool:
What crass generalization!
Just as Nigerians are all scammers

and all Americans are drug addicts

Cousin9999:
I'm sorry you have had bad experiences with BA men and women, but it makes no sense to label tens of millions of people in that way.

There are Nigerians who engage in scamming and drug trafficking, but it would be ignorant to claim that all Nigerians are this way.

You should also have empathy for BA who have spent generations living with the animals known as oyinbos. In addition to the horrors of human trafficking, they have endured physical and psychological attacks that continue today. That has had a profound effect on them.

If you feel certain cultural differences separate you from them, that's fine. But there is no need to bash them and use racist talking points dreamt up by some oyinbo sociopath.

Black Americans don't hold favourable opinions about Africans either, majority of them.

I don't believe in the victim mentality. They are 12% of the American population and most populated in jails and prisons and all the wrong indices.

Majority of their men are never full-time fathers. And their woman end up being masculine and bitter and raising up sons with no father figure.

Time up for excuses

The truth is single mothers can't raise men. Black American males are pussies raised by single mothers who are often drug addicts and their females are masculine and very disagreeable.

oz4real83:
If "small" Ukraine that is living on the generosity of other nations could be doing this to Russia, just imagine how it will be when Russia is facing America and other nations . I have concluded that without nuclear weapons, Russia can't fight a fly

you know book

she isn't Caucasian. People originating from South East Asia aren't Caucasians

InfoGuru118:
https://news360ng.com/woman-in-viral-video-tearing-husbands-passport-arrested-transferred-to-abuja/

stupid commenters, who tears up international passport as content?

RuggedBiafran:
Unity beggar ..

dumb criminal

RuggedBiafran:
Unity beggar...

that's all? My conquered boy

ogododo:
https://saharareporters.com/2024/08/14/nigerian-police-top-ghost-workers-list-icpc-uncovers-over-12000-fake-staff-federal

the agency established to fight crime is evidently the most corrupt.

RuggedBiafran:
Says a UNITY BEGGAR

carry your barren landlocked region and fawk off. Fraudulent criminals.

UN kill you there.

RuggedBiafran:
Even Vultures wish they are EAGLEs

defeated people

10mobile:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/08/battle-for-biafra-moves-to-us/

there are many fools and pipe dreamers in Nigeria, but I have to say, the kind of stupidity coming out of South East is very rare

naptu2:
https://www.channelstv.com/2024/08/14/we-are-taking-actions-on-simon-ekpas-case-finnish-govt-confirms/

Photo: Nordic foreign ministers with Nigeria's foreign minister, Ambassador Yusuf M. Tuggar

I wish that Abakalilki pig would be dragged down to Nigeria.

Lousy criminal deceiving stupid people in the south east

BitterPost:
Sexual Assualt against a minor is a very disgusting and unforgivable offence.

What is disturbing and heartbreaking is the fact that it is rampant in so called places of worship.

Alot of children are abused or exposed to child abusers all because of loyalty to one's religion.

I have created a thread on this topic to advise parents on how to be protective of their children in their place of worship.

If you are a parent, I will appreciate it if you take a few seconds to read that thread.

let's have the link to that thread

Prisschi:
How Anambra Journalist Survived Armed Men Attack,



Story of Izunna Okafor



Yes, it was exactly one week yesterday, on August 4th, 2024.

My friends and I had finished a gathering we had somewhere in Awka, the capital city of Anambra State, which though didn't start early enough on Saturday, August 3. We broke the day there, as the gathering officially ended at about 2.am.

Awka had been revered as a ‘happening city’ where activities, especially nightlife, remain never go off, till almost the following night.

Being an Awka-based practicing journalist, I had also attended many other functions, meetings, and media-related assignments in the past, especially during emergencies and political periods, from where I safely returned home late in the night, even at such odd hours as 2.am, 3.am and so on, without anybody or group interfering with my movement.

These, and other heap of confidence so far built over more than ten years of my stay and practice of journalism in the city made me have less anxiety over my safe return to my residence that fateful Sunday night after our dismissal. Although I hear of and also write many news of the various crimes and security happenings in Awka on a daily basis, I never knew that the city had currently grown to be in its most unsecured status in the history of human existence.

So, as usual, after our gathering, I saddled on my somewhat new ride and mounted the road, after my friends and colleagues had taken their own direction. I was the only one among us going to my side.

And, as is usually the case, some streets were still on, especially the ever-busy Abakaliki Street (Club Road), as at that 2:09 am when I took off and was cruising to my residence.

It, however, became unusual, as I bent towards the direction of my destination, Off the Abakaliki Street before the Queen Suit Hotel, as a yellow-coloured tricycle (Keke) double-crossed me, with three ferocious and cantankerous men onboard.

That area is known for its quietness, darkness, and loneliness, especially in the night, and early hours of the day when the shop owners in the area are closed or yet to open for the day.

“Come down from the bike,” one of the boys said, brandishing a gun in his hand.

As I was trying to resist, question, and understand what was happening, the other one among the two persons who alighted from the tricycle drew closer and leveraged the tool of hot slap to order me not to waste their time.

As the slap was still echoing some bee sounds in my ear, the third person who remained inside the tricycle joined his voice to warn me not to delay them further; even as few cars that approached the area at that moment all reversed upon seeing the tricycle standing at the center of the road, with armed men standing by.

With courage and instigation that came from nowhere, as this was going on, I immediately geared up my motorcycle in a bid to flee, while one of them immediately cocked his gun, and the other pushed me down on motion, together with the motorcycle. And we crashed.

As I was struggling to get up, one of them grabbed up the motorcycle, saddled on it, and zoomed off in the company of the Keke, in which the other two had already mounted; and they sped off.

Immediately after the scene cleared, some people rushed to assist me, as they comforted me and stopped a tricycle for me, which I boarded in the company of some people, and was ridden home, after I declined to go to the hospital that night.

As I got home, and even while still inside the Keke, I started making calls, beginning with informing the friends I had just finished staying with before the incident, and then calling the Commissioner of Police, CP Nnaghe Obono Itam; the State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Ikenga Tochukwu, and some other security personnel I could reach on phone then, notifying them of what happened. I also requested their assistance in facilitating the apprehension of the hoodlums and recovering my stolen motorcycle — a ride that had been of great help to me in meeting up with my various journalistic engagements, both timeously and economically.

It was not until later in the morning that I clearly saw and began to feel the real pains of the injuries I sustained from the incident the time hoodlums pushed me down when I took the highly regretted dangerous risk to escape.

While I could not comfortably sleep that night, the following morning, as early as 6:30 am, I was already dressed up for church. But the pains couldn't allow me. So, I had to begin finding transportation means to a hospital for urgent medical attention.

However, on second thought, I decided to trek down the axis where I had been attacked the previous night, though still making some phone calls and raising alarms.

Moments later, I was already at the Abakaliki Street. Lo and behold, a motorcycle that looked exactly like mine was dumped along the roadside.

“Could this not be my bike? Or, are these criminals relaxing and drinking somewhere around here in celebration of their successful ‘outing’ last night?” I reasoned aloud.

As I drew much closer, with some premeditated phone numbers in mind to call immediately if something strange was encountered, or if the men were drinking there; lo and behold, it was my motorcycle; abandoned, without anyone in sight as the parker.

What could have happened that led to the motorcycle being abandoned there?

The carburetor of my motorcycle had developed a fault a few weeks ago, such that it usually overfloats most times when I park it, especially when there is enough fuel in it. This made me start locking up the fuel tap each time I park the bike and unlock it when I'm about to go.

Now, this mechanical fault has believably become my saving grace this time; little wonder why I had been reluctant to go fix it since about two weeks ago it started.

Now, before taking off from the venue of our gathering that night, I forgot to unlock the fuel tap as I usually do; and so, the only fuel inside the carburetor was what sustained my ride to the point where the hoodlums robbed me. Unknown to me and them, the carburetor fuel was almost finished, even though there was enough fuel in the fuel tank.

So, men and brethren, it was this remaining fuel in the carburetor that eventually finished up along the road when the criminals were fleeing with the bike, and then, the motorcycle locked up without any sign. Because they obviously could not begin to look for the fault (being a stolen bike), for the fear of being apprehended in the process; they disappointedly dumped and abandoned it there along the road, which was where I saw it the following morning, to the glory of God. This occurred just a few treks away from where the robbery occurred, implying that they didn't even go far with the motorcycle before it locked up — a miracle I believe they might suspect to be a security lock, as it usually happens without giving signs.

Because I couldn't find the key on the motorcycle, I rolled it to a place and parked it there; then went back home, brought the spare key, and started it, after having switched on the fuel tap and given enough time for the carburetor to absorb fuel. Men and brethren, that was how I miraculously recovered and regained the ownership of my lost motorcycle, all to the glory of God.

With that accomplished, the next concern was seeking urgent medical attention, because the various degrees of injuries I sustained on different parts of my body were still very acerbic, which include part of my cheek, part of my eyes, and limbs. Consequently, therefore, I mounted my motorcycle and hurried off to the hospital to take care of myself. And since then, I have been on medication till date, with many significant differences showing already on my body.

Many of the people I have encountered since the day of this incident have shown concern, empathy, and sympathy, but not without asking me what happened to me, especially given the degrees of injuries and scars on my body.

However, because of the blame I perceived would trail me when I should tell the people the real story, especially that aspect of the daring and highly regretted risk that I took by staking my life to drag a motorcycle with armed hoodlums; and because of my reluctance to be recounting the same long story to different people over and over; I decided to be telling them that it was just an accident that I had, whenever anyone asks me what happened after seeing the injuries all over my body. In fact, I even started this the very night the incident happened.

So, as it stands today, many people, including some of my biological relatives, still hold the belief that it was just an accident that I had, as I told them, without knowing yet the real thing that happened to me. Although it's also an accident, to some extent; only a few persons I told know the true story. Meanwhile, some are not even aware that anything happened to me at all.

Howbeit, now that I have almost fully recovered; with appreciation to God, and with sincere apologies to those I somewhat lied to about that; I have finally made up my mind to tell the world the true story of what actually happened to me.

So, men and brethren, this is my story!

Join me to thank God, especially for sparing my life this time again, as many have died through this kind of incident and still lost the dragged item.

It is indeed a testimony and a great lesson to me.

The Lord's name be praised.

the she od stupidity

Kingsmeal:
Press Release

The APC New Media Directorate strongly condemns the recent actions and statements by Arise TV anchor, Rufai Oseni, and the station's portrayal of our candidate, Senator Monday Okpebholo, through a misleading infographic depicting him as "running" from an interview. This deliberate attempt to smear Senator Okpebholo's reputation is not only unprofessional but reeks of a biased agenda designed to belittle our candidate.

Let us make it clear: Senator Okpebholo has no obligation to grant an interview to a platform that has already shown its hand in trying to ridicule him. Rufai Oseni’s claim that his invitation to our candidate is being "politicized" is nothing but a diversion from the real issue—his lack of impartiality and professional ethics.

Rufai Oseni has compared Senator Okpebholo’s decision to decline an interview with Arise TV to other candidates who have appeared on the station. However, the circumstances are different. We cannot ignore the fact that Oseni's tone and approach have consistently been confrontational when addressing issues related to the APC. It is therefore not surprising that Senator Okpebholo would choose to avoid an interview that seems to have been set up as a trap rather than an opportunity for genuine discourse.

If Arise TV and Rufai Oseni are so eager to have Senator Okpebholo on their platform, perhaps they should consider compensating him with a sum of $1 million. Only then might he entertain the notion of subjecting himself to what we can only describe as an act of media bullying. The integrity and principles of our candidate are not for sale, but such an offer might at least demonstrate a seriousness on their part that has thus far been sorely lacking.

We advise Rufai Oseni to revisit the ethics of his profession and refrain from further attempts to manipulate public perception for personal or political gain. His assertion that interviewing the APC candidate is "no big deal" is an understatement; it is a big deal when the interviewer is already seen as biased and partial.

To the general public, we urge caution in consuming content from media outlets that prioritize sensationalism over substance. Senator Monday Okpebholo continues to engage with the people of Edo State directly, sharing his vision and policies for the future. He will not be deterred by attempts to undermine his campaign through media antics.

Signed:

Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah
Director, APC New Media Directorate

August 2024

what an idiotic press release from quacks and unfit people in Edo APC.

The press is to hold public officials and government accountable on behalf of the people. So there's nothing as genuine discourse as this silly APC press release is saying.

You're looking for a job and you're running from interview where the people who are your employers want to scrutinise you and still turn around that a media platform should pay you .

The stupidity of these people needs professional management

KingCold:
You keep quoting me with a dumber comment than the previous one

you can't smell dumb even if I stuck it into your nostril.

Your history is dumb

Your heritage is bleak with dumb
Your women think you're dumb and Africa believes you're dumb.

tishbite42:
Chai
This is brutal but true
Even Nelson Mandela is a Xhosa
In reality, greatness can't be ascribed to the Zulus
Cursed tribe
I was shocked when a Nigerian was the first black female to bag a PhD (Mathematics) in a South African university

In south Africa their pass Mark is 40% not 50%

That's how mentally and physically lazy they are.

KingCold:
Nice try. Not good enough

a zulu has no standard or opinion. 80% of the population with one billionaire, no intellectual nobel laureate and no beauty pageant.


Africa's burden

KingCold:
You mean a dirt poor Malwian with 1 kwacha in his pockets who's just crossed a border to come to SA to sell a tray of eggs? Come on now, you can't be serious..

are you honestly describing the people taking your girls over.

That must mean you're the poorest of the poor, the scum of the barrel.

Yahoo yahoo money is sweetest to spend

KingCold:
Yawn. You've been typing the same tired rhetoric since 1899. Boring

that's the year your ancestor Shaka the defeated Zulu was running half naked with spears challenging machine guns.

Small-minded lot, other black African countries make you people feel so small and inadequate.

Carrer looters and xenophobic mongrels

KingCold:
And you're so focused on South Africa's to pay attention to your tribalistic present. Hypocrites you people

I thought the bolded should be presence.

A zulu like you owe all of Africa your heritage and identity.

You don't have the right to talk or prate. You're a redeemed slave. A dispossessed sojourner.

Your debt to Nigerians is incalculable.