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Business / Re: What Can One Do Legally To Be Financially Independent In 2021? by LifeStylePlus: 1:45am On Jan 05, 2021
Drop shipping of unique products. Sell other people's goods and make profit. You don't need inventory. Just pictures posted rightly on various platforms.
Check my soggy and send a message on WhatsApp or send a PM so I can add you to our group.
Romance / Re: He Has A Girlfriend But Does Not Want To Let Me Go by LifeStylePlus: 3:14pm On Dec 11, 2020
For your mental health, cut all forms of communication with him. You're not just friends anymore but in a complicated relationship. Remove all complications by cutting off.
For an avoidance of doubt, he will never be with you. You're just hanging na.
It will be painful. You may cry but after that dry your tears and move on. He likes your character but doesn't love you relationship wise.
See, a man that doesn't know what he wants at this stage, is not ready for a serious relationship. Pls protect yourself from a mental breakdown, move on...

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Education / Re: NAAT Warns FG Against Accepting ASUU’s UTAS by LifeStylePlus: 6:45am On Dec 07, 2020
haywhy1026:
angry abi ori NAAT daru ni? Devil want to use them to extend the strike

You would not say that if any of your parents were NAAT members.

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Family / Re: Internet Never Forgets by LifeStylePlus: 11:56pm On Nov 19, 2020
Wow! Congratulations. Great Connection.
Family / Re: The Health Benefits Of Bitter Leaf You Need To Know by LifeStylePlus: 11:46pm On Nov 19, 2020
Wow! Thanks for this.
Business / Re: Dropshipping by LifeStylePlus: 11:36pm On Nov 19, 2020
Rhiya:
The link is not working...kindly look into this

I just noticed it as well. Pls use the personal link on my signature now.
Thanks for stating your observation.
Romance / Re: "Dont Spoil My Make Up Oo"–Bride Tells Groom On Wedding Day (video) by LifeStylePlus: 11:19pm On Nov 19, 2020
Is this Nollywood or it's real?
Politics / Re: Justice Beatrice Iliya Excluded From Gombe CJ-Nominee List For Being A Christian by LifeStylePlus: 11:12pm On Nov 19, 2020
Where is Nigeria heading with all these? The question should be her qualification not her religion. It's such a pity. We are where we are because of such behavior.
Business / Re: Dropshipping by LifeStylePlus: 2:12pm On Nov 06, 2020
Dropshipping Tips

For drop shipping, you need to be persistent. You think people are not observing until they begin to ask you questions about the products and place orders.
Don't waste your status space by posting only things that won't put money in your pocket. Post other people's products, connect your buyers and make money.

Check my siggy for a link to our WhatsApp drop shipping group.
Celebrities / Re: Macaulay Culkin 40th Birthday: Home Alone Star Actor Is Now 40 Years Old! by LifeStylePlus: 5:51pm On Aug 27, 2020
Wow! How time flies

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Pets / Re: South African Conservationist Killed By White Lions by LifeStylePlus: 5:09pm On Aug 27, 2020
I'm really not a fan of these extreme behaviors. How will you think you can fully tame such a wild animal?

It's a pity. My condolences to his family. So sad.
Business / Dropshipping by LifeStylePlus: 9:49am On Aug 21, 2020
Dropshipping is one of the easiest ways to make money online because you require no startup capital as in #0.00. You just need your smartphone and strategies.

This is what Dropshipping entails basically, you promote/advertise someone's available products on your status, FB, Instagram e.t.c., adding a little profit on the original cost price. You get customers who pay to you then you transfer the original cost price to the seller who will also arrange for delivery to your customers. That's it.

Join LifeStylePlus Sales for a beautiful dropshipping experience of household equipment, kitchen accessories, fashion accessories and much more.
Health / Re: I Have This Skin Disease And I'm About To Get Married... Help Needed!! by LifeStylePlus: 9:45am On Nov 29, 2019
Ifeelsad:
I've had this recurrent skin issue for about three years now. I've used everything usable both creams and drugs but its not going. Its getting worst, its on my face, breast, neck, all over my back even on my stomach. I don't know what to do again I'm tired

Please has anyone had this kind of rash
I'll like this moved to the front page for more views because I'm getting frustrated and my husband is getting impatient

I use dettol or izal to bath and I bath twice a day sometimes 3 times depending on d weather so I won't say its uncleanliness

Why should your fiance be getting impatient instead of joining you in looking for a solution? Do I see a red flag there?

Anyway, I think you should stop the use of disinfectants in your bath water. Continuous use is dangerous for your skin & could burn your skin as they are very strong.
Also, discontinue antiseptic soap. These should only be used periodically not consistently. The skin can heal itself if provided with the right atmosphere.

There is a natural/herbal soap made by an American Company I can prescribe that will help your skin greatly. If interested, pls send me a PM.

Take care.

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Romance / Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by LifeStylePlus: 11:43am On Aug 12, 2019
bigpriik:


I love this comment but I have a question,what is the determinant of success in life is it hard work or or grace of God?because am a bit confused about all this...

Your definition of success is very important here. Is success to you being like Mr. A who has many cars, houses and a fat bank? Or having a fulfilled life? Being successful is about impacting other lives positively. A person with physical wealth could do so but it would surprise you to note that even someone without so much cash can also impact others. This will be both a successful and a fulfilled life.
I have heard of very rich persons who commit suicide because they weren't fulfilled with their lives. You would then see that knowing God is pivotal in life as our Creator. He would reveal one's purpose and when we act in that direction we become successful and fulfilled. Note that both the grace of God and work is important in living a successful and fulfilled life.

Hope this gives a bit of clarity? Pls feel free to ask more questions.
Romance / Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by LifeStylePlus: 11:25am On Aug 12, 2019
Shadbay:
I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.

Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup.
I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.

I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.

I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.

The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.

I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.

I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.

I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.


Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".

I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you.




I'm sorry for the hurt you're going through. The way you react/ respond to another relationship is a matter of choice. I believe you'll choose to do better in another relationship where you may have slacked in this last one. Take time to look inwards and discover your own shortcomings. It will help you become a better person. Avoid any exclusive relationship until you have healed properly. I think a therapist will help you navigate the process. Talk to one today.
Education / Re: In Serious Need Of Help For My School Fees Before Depression Sets In by LifeStylePlus: 8:55am On Aug 09, 2019
Hi, myfan. I have seen your pleas for school fees on many posts here. I may not be able to help with cash now but I can show you how to generate some residual income for yourself. PM me if interested.
Romance / Re: Why do I keep getting rejected by girls? by LifeStylePlus: 8:42am On Aug 09, 2019
SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

The reason you feel this way is because you are comparing yourself with other guys your age. Everyone has their own timing in life. It may not just be time for you to get into a profiting relationship. If you know the hurts and pains that you are being delivered from, you would rather be grateful. Because others are having girlfriends doesn't mean you should too.
It is not compulsory to have a girlfriend at this stage of your life. Have platonic friends but learn in those relationships. Get busy preparing a foundation for the rest of your life- get to know and understand your purpose in life and start taking steps towards fulfilling them. Spend time developing yourself. These will help you see better the kind of woman that will help you to fulfil purpose and vice versa.
When it is time, you will get that one who you will spend the rest of your life with fulfilled.
Many would wish to be like you but you are wishing to be like them. What an irony.

You can PM to recommend/ give you some good books

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Career / Re: My Heart Felt Message To GRADUATES Teaching In Private Primary/secondary Schoo by LifeStylePlus: 3:00pm On Jul 28, 2019
So sorry about that. It is indeed unfortunate. Please look for other legit things to do. Even though you like teaching, look for another school this period before resumption.
PM me for a side hustle if interested.

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