IyaebeTheGreat: Exactly, no matter how highly graceful you are, it will diminish and eventually vanish when you start sleeping around. Fornication is a big killer of grace.
Story! Even some married women destroy their husbands future with their bad luck..
Op bang any woman of your choice.. Just don't forget to be spiritually fit.
LotaTee: Why talk down on yourself so? Did you ever measure your IQ to know it's low? You sound like an amazing person with a humble personality, don't let anyone look down on you.
This may be true... He is a humle personality.. For Naija na gra gra personality dey work.. He should only be humble when he meets people beta than him or when it come to biz...
He shud not be humble around his peeers, neighbors, etc.. He shud b real.
Wallteck: Since have been in this life nobody have ever told me or acknowledge that I'm smart. All my life have always believe I'm not smart which is true. But with me not been smart. God always help me a lot. I just don't know why. Where I'm currently nw I don't worth the place. Because I lack ability to speak very well, my iq is low, I'm shy. Anything to qualify a man I don't have, I'm not bold, I'm gentle and introvert. But I always work hard and pray a lot. I wish to find someone like me. because the world is full with smart people. Have had couple of friends, out of my friend I will always be the most foolish one among. I just wanna give thanks to God for what he has done for me. Despite me lacking a lot he still r helped me a lot.
Interestingly you don't need to be intelligent etc.. Just descover your talent and work towards it..
The only problem you have here is your introvert side, it's not too good.
U know hate men kill and bury their bosses, cause they feel no body will find them. An introvert man is a vunrable man..
Try make friends, try get babes... Try to have at least a visitor in your house per week also go out too.
If your wife discovers you are an introvert, you are finished.
MaxInDHouse: I'm still waiting for one traditionalist that will come to PREACH and TEACH what his religion says without comparing it to another religion.
Just preach and teach your religion then make sure you present those practicing it so that all can learn from what they're seeing your people doing as they can perceive the practical benefits of your religion.
This is not about tarnishing the image of other religions but presenting yours with conviction!
oteneaaron: Well, Christians and Muslims practice an imported religion.
Funny enough, these imported religions are only cheap copies of the Ancient African "Religion", also known as the Old Religion.
A simple investigation into the ancient origins of religion, civilization and science, will lead you back to Africa.
According to history, the main message from "Old Religion" was simply - The Knowledge of Self.
Know Thy Self.
It was this knowledge of self that made our ancient ancestors build such megalithic structures like the Walls of Benin, The Pyramid of Giza, The Sphinx, etc.
The first multi-genius ever recorded in history was the African man known as IMHOTEP - after he died, he was deified.
He was first surgeon and is the true father of medicine and not Hippocrates.
I can go on and on and on.
We must go back to our roots and learn about our true origins or else, we will keep repeating the mistakes of our ancestors.
MaxInDHouse: When i said "present a group" you may think i just want to interrupt you but the fact remains that all other schools of thought may be making noises in their places of worship they can never ever have the confidence to present themselves as a worthy source of light (WISDOM) like the one and only group established by Jesus of Nazareth the only begotten Son of God.
Listen to what Jesus said:
You are the light of the world. A city cannot be hid when located on a mountain. People light a lamp and set it, not under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it shines on all those in the house. Likewise, let your light shine before men, so that they may see your fine works and give glory to your Father who is in the heavens. Matthew 5:14-16
I can bet you that you will never find any group of people that can fit in this description except Jesus' disciples. God has given them the mouth that no religion on this planet can challenge! Isaiah 54:17
So if you have found the true Christians all these won't be needed but you can continue encouraging other religions to come out and speak perhaps they have what it takes to stand as the source of divine guidance for the human race like Jesus' true disciples.
May you have PEACE!
Baba, abeg no post anything about Jesus for here agian.
MaxInDHouse: It's good to make a wake-up call but it's better when you present a GROUP that has woken up. When you wake up in the morning and start preparing for your daily activities the first sign that you're doing the right thing is the people you find doing exactly the same in your neighbourhood. Imagine after waking, bathing, brushing, dressing, and as you step out you walk half a kilometer but found no one outside will you still be encouraged to continue going?
So instead of calling people to do something why not present those doing it for others to know exactly what they ought to do?
Derrylatei: This is one of the many reasons I will never attend REDEEM (RCCG) again. Imagine an ordained Pastor defending broad daylight robbery, killing, satanic motives. The other time, he was sharing Tradermoni to buy vote.
Them say incoming first lady to is a redeem pastor. Na wa o.
Happy weekend to you all! I just moved to the UK with myself and my family in Oct last year as my wife is doing her masters in one of the unis in london here. There is something that in a way wasnt bothering me before, but now I seem to be bothered and based off of the fact that this country does not allow men exercise some sort of rightful move here, I am limited to the decisions and actions I cant make or take.
So my wife have been friends with this 50 year old course mate, they talk on the phone for minutes, sometimes hours, I noticed she always put the call on speaker just so I could hear the content of their discussion. This became frequent, though at a time I wasnt bothered, so one day I asked her that do you know if I was the one that was schooling and I had a female married frien who is 50 years old, you would have started questioning me and telling me how uncomfortable you are with the way we always talk, she was like oh well thats true, but that as long as it is school discussion and thats it. I was like oh well I doubt you would mind even if you know its just assignment discussion she said oh well, she doesnt trust her gender that she would be observant. She now said that this her classmate that nothing can ever be between them, that he's 50, I was like when did u hear a 50year old Nigerian man does not have penis, and that anytime they talk, she always put it on speaker so I can hear that it is only school stuffs they talk about. I was like thats not the issue, that sometimes familiarity breeds contempt.
To cut the long story short as to why I started feeling uncomfortable. The dude called as early as 5mins to 8am early in the morning when we are trying to prep the kids for school, she had gone to drop the kids but her phone was at home, I picked and told him she had gone for school runs, he quickly said oh sorry for disturbing and hung up. Secondly, that very day, I had stepped out, on gettig back, I pressed the bell tire, so tey my hand begin dey pain me, she didnt open the door, luckily for me the front porch door was opened so i gained entrace through there, lo and behold she was in kitchen where the bell could be loudly heard but she was on call with this same dude and that made her not hear me. 3rdly I had worked overnight and I got home to rest, she then told me that she needs to get to the library, that they both have an assignment to do together, that she will be back in 2hours, I was now like why didnt u guys plan out a time, I needed to rest and ur friend just called without a proper timing that u should start coming. She left and I had to use sleepy eyes to take care of the kids that morning. Now am on the verge of sitting her down and have a dialogue with her that I have finally figured out that her close friendhsip with this person seems not to go down well with me, I know some people will call me simp or weak man, but being very pragmatic in halding issues like this is foremost, besides most women here seem to maturally exhibit that sense of freedom and i can make decisions without u kinda thing, and I truly dont want to get in the way of that.
Just divorce your wife... She don fall in love with that man... Him fit don collect sef..