I can't get married right now. I keep backing out from my plan to stop being the "virgin boy" and yes you're right, this comes with a price – super high libido, being accused of being gay (because I'm not ugly), self hatred because I have to make myself look ugly but despite that I still get attention, and etc.
Get married or leave it..
In a mordern world wia people don’t get married on time abstinence is a big hoax..
Samantha124: Just tell them to abstain until they feel they're ready, as long as they do it responsibly and also advice them about the variety of contraceptives to use when the time finally comes.
Because in a as much as you can try to encourage them to wait until a certain age, they'll still go ahead and do it if they want to.
Don’t boda advising ignorant and selfish Nigerian parents. They expect their kids to be celibate even at 50..
I'm 21 and I'm getting tired of abstaining from sex but I just can't break away from my parents' teachings. One of the main reasons is that I have to pretend to be an expert in that shit but in actuality I don't really know except from reading and porn. And yeah, I'm not easily influenced by others... This pretense is like a defense mechanism to protect me from those "you, virgin?" Stare.
Plus lately, my libido has been doing crazy numbers but I need money and I also don't want to make a mistake -- y'know, regret being celibate in the future.
You have to get married ASAP..
Sex I’d ment to be unleashed.
Even the holding had its problems..
Get married, you don try..
Forget Wetin your parents teach you, you are no longer a child..
That’s the only thing African parents have to teach their kids…
aisha1314: Is it better to tell children or teenagers when giving them sex education to be abstinent till marriage or just till they're 18, that is when they're adults? I think abstinence till marriage is stupid and old fashioned but, though I'm a very sex positive person, I also don't approve of minors or children having sex.
The whole abstinence thing is a hoax..
Let them get married early, at least at 20 years..
Abstinence can never work..
It’s easy to say by mouth..
Children from home were sex is a taboo, end up been over sexed and abused by any body..
Rebuker: Bukola Saraki and others watched as the FCT Minister, Nyesom Wike, prepared a meal. A humorous video shows Nyesom Wike cooking in the kitchen while sharing laughs and jokes with Bukola Saraki and fellow politicians.
At one point, Wike requested a small spoon to taste the soup and, after trying it, he exclaimed, 'we are there,' with Saraki joining in on the jest while the others laughed and cheered.
The politicians were clearly enjoying their time together as the FCT Minister showcased his culinary skills.
There is this girl in my street.I like her but had to apply the law of delayed gratification: I didn't push my mind to her immediately but after some days I noticed that my heart kept racing it time I see her.
SmartyPants: This is the lack of logic we are talking about. So in your mind there is this distinction between relatives of those you believe died at Lekki and those the government says died around the state, such that the relatives of the former would refuse to claim their bodies even three years after, while those of the victims from other places would rush to claim theirs?
What is the basis of this dichotomy??
I Laff at ya statements..
One thing is to make claim, another thing is for your claims to be granted..
You should say their claims were not granted, not they never made claims..
Even you know too well your logical faculties are faulty.. Forget all the jargons you have been typing..
What if the relatives made claims and they were denied?
Have you ever taught about that?
Making a claim is not like posting a pics on Facebook…
The government can frustrate and also turn down their request… Are not a Nigerian?
I don’t hate Sanwo.. Never..
This is the lack of logic we are talking about. So in your mind there is this distinction between relatives of those you believe died at Lekki and those the government says died around the state
The bolded from u is not clear enuf, but I guess u assumed: I think there is a distinction between those that died at the Lekki toll gate vs others.
Those that killed them know were they kept them, so it can be distinguished..
Very, very.. They take records na..
Think!
You are the one with logical problems..
Although those that killed them know were they kept them and can still distinguish both..
My point is even the non Lekki corpse owners will also complain through the Chanel created by the governor in a bid to find the remains of their loved ones..
Some of them may also be confused, or may not know how their relative died or went missin…
So the governor can never say no body came to claim their corps… It’s not logical..
Think about it..
And all the people they are about to mass burial too, nobody came for their corpse?
SmartyPants: What does this have to do with whether or not the bodies in the custody of Lagos State were from Lekki toll gate in particular or collected from incidents all over the State?
You definitely have no business discussing politics indeed so it would be most kind of you to relieve the rest of us of the burden of having to read such arguments.
Thanks for coming and good bye!
For you to believe no one came to report about their missing relatives broke my heart..
A youth for that matter..
Even if you call for Nigerians to report about their missing relatives they will troop out to report..
People go missing a lot in Nigeria, talk less of during the ends sars days.
You also claimed lots of none end sars protesters died also..You think the relatives of none end sars protesters that died will not complain about their missing relatives via the channels created by governor Sanwo Olu..
Continue supporting policticians..
Most of you now love policticians more than you love your children and relatives..
SmartyPants: What does this have to do with whether or not the bodies in the custody of Lagos State were from Lekki toll gate in particular or collected from incidents all over the State?
You definitely have no business discussing politics indeed so it would be most kind of you to relieve the rest of us of the burden of having to read such arguments.
Thanks for coming and good bye!
My point is majority of us are too emotional, so we can’t think and also speak the truth about bad governance in the country..
Chetas81: SANWOLU said come forward if you have missing child during the endsars, nobody show face, does that mean Nigerians parents forgot their labor room when giving birth to those children, you claim to be killed in lekki tollgate
Oga try think like an educated man..
Come forward if your child is missing. How will the parents come forward if security men fail to give them the opportunity?
It’s just the height of deciet and senseless politics in Nigeria ..
Even if the parents went there and they complained. The whole thing can still be swept under the carpet..
The evidence you want in this case can only be presented by the government…
It’s not possible for at least one parent in Nigeria, not to step forward with compliants of missing child, even if their missing children may not be related to the end sars saga. In this case.
Do you know how many cases of missing people in this country?
Believing no parent came forward to complain about their missing children, is a sign you still have lots of work to do on your logical faculties or conscience.
SmartyPants: Is that not obvious? Let me understand you - are you saying you are unaware of the widespread violence that took place across Lagos at the time?
And if you're not aware of the Lagos State government's comments on the identities of the deceased, don't you think that indicts your level of awareness rather than providing any evidence of your obviously misguided position??
Thanks for the amdonition. I similarly call on you to use your brain to avoid holding misguided positions - for you may think you are resisting evil when all you are doing is constituing a nuisance to the nation.
I should be calling on you instead to use your brain..
U are fighting against your fellow youths cos of some old men..
Chetas81: OOOOOH BROTHER NIGERIAN HAVE PROBLEM TO SOLVE, SOMEONE DON'T SEE THEIR CHILDREN AND THEY REFUSED TO ASK AND SEARCH,FAKE PEOPLE EVERYWHERE, NIGERIAN ARE NOT RAT 🐀 WHERE PEOPLE JUST COME AND BEGIN TO SHOOT PEOPLE JUST LIKE THAT, AND MOVE THEIR BODY AWAY,LIE KILLED THOSE WHO BELIEVE THIS
Do you have any evidence to back your claim? : @ parents are not searching for their missing kids..
SmartyPants: You don't need to comment on every post. This issue has been discussed over and over. According to LASG, these are the bodies of the victims of the widespread indiscriminate violence that took place acrosss the State and not particulalry from the Lekki toll gate protest.
Take note of the above.
U mean the LSG was going house to house, street to street picking corpse?
U know our govt don’t act that sophisticated when it come to issues like this… Secondly I don’t think the Lagos State government ever mention 150 lost dia lives during end sars..
Oga stop supporting evil, it will come back to you…
ch214: I love your Campaign against Prostitution in Nigeria. You are the number one chairman on Nairaland, your voicing out against this menace of Prostitution have earn you respect and dignity among responsible celebrities all over the world.
What I am doing to eradicate prostitution in Nigeria is by speaking against the menace of prostitution in Nigeria and by praying to God to eradicate prostitution from Nigeria.
My chairman I stand with you on this good work.
And what results has your efforts produced?
Please focus on the root of the problem..
It’s poverty and a disorganized system, backed by injustice and inequality…
NoahHadNoArk: Focus your energies on eradicating poverty first…..create employment opportunities and get the youths busy with business and legit money making schemes. Trust me when I say crime rate will drop as a result of these.
Truth!
Nigerians are too emotional and not factual..
We want to solve a problem without any reasonable solutions..
Poverty and unemployment are the cause of unemployment in the country.. You have to tackle the problem from its root..
We most also be taught patience, bravery, boldness, logic, creativity and innovation…
We most do away with every form of superstition…
Most of the girls doing this ashawo work are just talents wasting away…
Nigeria need to focus on talents… I forgot justice and equality..
A nation were everything na man know man, will surly breed lot of problems..