Thanks everyone for your insightful comments.

Just for clarity...

For those who said I've had sex with him, that is not true, we don't even sleep in the same room when he visits or I visit.

For those who said I'm in a relationship with him because of his financial status or because he's a medical doctor, that is also not true. With God's grace, I have done very for myself career-wise, I have a high paying job as well and we earn almost the same amount of money.

Good day everyone

My boyfriend and I started dating about 2 months ago. We've met a few times because we stay in different cities. He has been very nice to me and told me the last time we met that he wants us to settle down as soon as possible. After that, he started acting in a strange way, not picking my calls, responding to messages after 2 days, then I asked him if he was okay, he said he will "catch up". He is a medical doctor and I understand he can be very busy so I left him for a week and tried to reach him to check on him again. He responded with "Please stop communicating for now, I am not in a position to respond to messages now, I will reconnect with you later"

We didn't have any quarrel, everything looked okay before all these started. I'm really worried because even if he is so busy with work, he couldn't spare a few minutes to talk to me and explain the situation.

I'm confused right now because I think he probably lost interest as I don't know what to make out of the whole thing.

What do you guys think?

Thanks