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I have made up my mind. I will do d blood test just 2 cover all areas and wait till after d new yr b4 I tell my parents. They are going 2 be very disappointed but it's a lot better than abortion. I don't know how I can even ask God 4 forgiveness 4 dat kind of sin.

I thank all of u 4 ur comments. I will have to find d best way & time to break d news to my parents probably after d new year celebration. I don't think I'm going 2 marry her. I will be thru with d service in 2months & hopefully I would be able to get a job in time to take care of d financial responsibilities that will come.
It's really amazing how one act can bring a colossal consequence. I would've have been laughing my a$$ off because of some comments if it was another person's thread. But thank you all for your comments.

Anyone who is not interested in telling me how silly I was can help me suggest how to break this news to my parents.
They have been separated for about 17yrs so my mom has no emotional power over my dad so I will have to break d news separately.
Any suggestion would be helpful

starlingleanets:
It starts with being friends but one have to be smart. Like a Lady we met we start being friend small time she come dey talk she loves me na so i run for my dear life but as 4 u hm be like u don enter one chance here. My guy nothing can be done o since u actually have carnal knowledge of her.

I understand u
I always like 2 take responsibility 4 my actions but this one scares d hell out of me

starlingleanets:
How come u impregnate a Friend?

we were just friends but things started changing when she continued to tell me she loves me. She seemed really devastated when I said I don't want a relationship now so I felt I was helping by always being around her since we were really close friends

we live in different states(2 states apart) but if she doesn't do d blood test I will have to meet so we can do test together.
I just want to be sure beyond all doubts while I decide on what to do. I don't know how the nurse was able to tell the age of foetus from a urine test and from my calculation the 3wks is still 2days ahead of when we had the intercourse.
maybe I'm still in denial but I'm really wishing the test was wrong. only the blood test will get me out of this zone

Yes! We are just friends. We have known each other for abt 9mths. We are currently serving in d same place of primary assignment & she lives next door. We have been good friends & a really close type but we have never gone beyond that even though people around us think otherwise. But last month she told she loves me & she would like us to start a relationship. I told her I really like her but I'm not ready to start a relationship bt she's having non of that because she persisted. D part that scared me d most was when she said I'm d kind of guy she would like to get married to. I'm not relationship crazy. I have not been in a relationship or had s3x in 4yrs. She agreed partially to let d issue go but she always wants me around her. I was chatting with her in her room one evening and she made d move & I didn't resist but I can recall vividly that I withdrew before ejaculation. She is beautiful and has incredible body attributes so the thought of having s3x with her has crossed my mind a few times.
She pinged me last week that she is having some symptoms of pregnancy so I told her to go and do the test and I will send her the money she will spend. She told me yesterday that she went to the hospital but she had to do the urine test because she is afraid of needles and the nurse told her it's positive and it's 3wks old. I told her to do the one of blood test and get back to me but d real problem is that I'm not ready 4 dis. My parents are going to be extremely disappointed and even my younger ones that see me as a role model. as a matter of fact I can't even count the number of people that will be disappointed in me because everyone trust me a lot including extended family. I'm not even through with my service year so I don't know how I will be able to handle this. my action was very stupid and I'm now considering another stupid one(abortion)
I'm really confused right now