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bobowaja:
They are trying too hard to correct their mistakes. Mr president has already goofed on Ruga saga. And people of Nigeria have seen fulanis in bad light already, it will take some years to change that perception.

My take is Mr president should not only suspend Ruga but cancel it and any other lifestock program. Else other good initiatives by the govt will be roundly rejected by the citizens (people no longer trust the govt and the opposition will use it to their advantage to win sympathy).

We should all embrace peace and stop heating up the polity (both the govt and citizens)

Splendid write up bro

I honestly do not understand who advised them to start this ruga thing!!!

Nigeria has myriad of issues and they thought ruga was the way to go?

I am still dumbfounded, frankly, and you said the populace don't trust the government anymore

Disregard?

Should they not be arrested?

LordofAllIgbos:
Mind your own business. I spoke the bitter truth.

Don't let foreigners think Nigerians pokenose when they are not involved.

You are borderline incitive and rude in your comments sir

The truth is relative but can be put out in a reasonable way.

One needs to exhibit decorum and not display a lack of it
.be guided on this forum

Rules exist for a reason

Cheers

LordofAllIgbos:


The guy lives rent-free in his haters' minds.

Very few people would be mature enough to forgo Governor-Senator route his colleagues all took.

Looking at how frail he is, it's easy to see he likely doesn't crave the stress of Presidency.

As President, you would receive all the curses and blames... it's your beneficiaries who enjoy the post.

Some useless youth will see this as a cause of celebration despite him being a billionaire and they, paupers

While your points maybe accurate reduce the vile words on the forum

Foreign viewers view threads daily here as guests so don't depict such deplorable persona so they don't think all nigerian youths speak this way

Segeshow:
Excellent write up. You indeed know what depression is and when your life doesn't look like it is worth living. My friend and mentor took her own life despite being too of her game. A paediatric surgeon. It haunts me till today. She was far from poor, had kids ,still wasn't enough.

Exactly as someone who knows first hand what she was going through all your achievements Don't stop the pain, all the material don't either

All it takes it's the right trigger and boom you are back at the edge

So one has to stay alert , it's a life long struggle

People don't understand when people like Robin Williams take their own life .. Jim carry has been battling depression for years , it's hard to explain to someone who doesn't experience it .

It's not as simple as saying he or she took the cowards way out

It's more complex than that

FarahAideed:
Thank you ..this touched me in a positive way ..God bless you .

Bless you too dear

FarahAideed:
Since you know the answer to to problems why don't you share so people can learn

You get up each day and try

You try hard , no one understands how it feels, motivational.books and comments don't help infact they make you feel.worthless for not being able to be motivated by them

But you have to find that thing that evens the pain out the reduces it from a feeling of being stabbed from just a broken bone

There is not easy fix for derpession , what I found out is helping others by talking to them helped me.deal.with mine
I tried suicide twice when I was younger in my years I think I was 17

That's when depression set in and it never left .. as an adult I found ways of coping ... For me smoking helps it distracts me when ever something happens that jolts me

Like mine years ago I lost my soul mate , few months nths to our wedding

It came rushing back , I would.sit days I'm doors talking to myself grin

It was hard very hard at one point I couldn't go on

I even picked one of the bedrooms in my apartment then one of the guest rooms I had decided I was tired

I had quit my job i was frustrated two days before I decided to end it someone comes visiting and tells the the most tragic tale... He had lost a child and needed somewhere to stay his marriage was shaky

He never knew I was planning to end my life but that visit that day and the coming days we spent made me shift my perspective

I realized that no matter how broken we feel deep down it we heal eventually.

Depression is a life long battle , it has nothing to do with financial status or material possessions that was never my issue

It's like a fever that sometimes can be triggered

What you need to understand is that people prone to depression have it like a birth mark. And it can be triggered

Mine was growing up in an abusive home , dysfunctional as imaginable , so that probably screed something deep.inside me that caused me to have life long PTSD in which makes me prone to depression

But I am handing it and I am aware of it and not ashamed to talk about it because it just might help someone

So if there's anyone reading this don't feel ashamed or messed up or insane there's nothing wrong with you .. you are just prone to depression which is a manageable condition

Just own it , understand it , no pastor or imam can fix it or pray it away .. you just have to deal with it

Depressed people internalize things , they feel things deeper than the average person

Learn to focus that energy one something else

Sometimes changing house , neighborhood, or even start can help.

Learn to do things differently to cope with your depression

Spend time.amd connect with people who make you happy .. if talking about politics takes your mind.off the pain then.please do it , if walking for hours helps.tjen please do it. Mine is smoking cigarettes , and it's helped me.for years

Just find that thing which helps.you cope , apart from smoking my dogs help.too , and sometimes video games

Just find what helps you stay afloat , and know it is a life long struggle but you have to own it , don't let it own you or then you will.loose the fight like this gentle man.here

Apologies for the long post


Cheers

Ciscogod:
As soon as i saw the profiles of the people that commented, i understood the reaction,

all i see is Tinubu wife this and that... They deviated from the issue on ground

Becareful not to tribalize there by derailing this thread be cautioned

Respect the forum's rules

mperornero:
ARe you okay? ARe you okay?

Respect the forum's Rules

mperornero:
I don tire for this bia-frauds o

Inciting comment, off topic and derailing thread

Mynd44 Seun lalasticlala OAM4J

Onyi90:
Very DIRTY ENVIRONMENT. Is that area for pigs. Sorry to those who lost valuables

Inciting comment, off topic and derailing thread

Mynd44 Seun lalasticlala OAM4J

odiereke:
When Bride price is too outrageous, all form of cutting corners would definitely set in.
This Mbaise dowry no be here oooooooo

Stop this

deomelo:
Who stole your bisquit...

Noted

Cheers