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SmartPolician:
I like that Seun is taking time to improve Nairaland. Nobody can use smileys to occupy space on Nairaland anymore. Everyone must write a comment of up to 40 characters 😁😁😁

Interesting, now this is a good development... No more hurry to post just so that you'd be first to comment

Futuristica:
This is sequel to an earlier thread


https://www.nairaland.com/8445299/what-saw-wifes-whatsapp-chat



I want to thank everyone for the advise both good and bad though I didn't highlight my own flaws. I married my wife because she is the only one I've met that wasn't normal. I dated many girls when I was younger. Alot. They all were the normal girlish type. They drooled over me. They apologised and even cried if they went wrong(I de feel like obasanjo.. Lol) .

They wrote emotional notes on cards or even sent emotional love messages.When they come to my house, they clean, wash and cook delicious meals. I enjoyed having them.. Some even sing love songs to me and professed love.. I was a handsome dude with a good job. You see, my wife is the only girl I've met that didn't do all these. In beauty she wasn't comparable to the babes I dated-She is jusk ok(she always kept a frowning face by default) . She's Tom boy like. Independent minded. She couldnt cook or even clean(but has enormous strength in other good areas) . Wasn't drooling over me. I became spellbound wanting to find out more. She is a good woman and very loyal. I married her knowing how she is.

She has improved in cooking now. I taught her most of it but I get frustrated atimes calling her names and shouting at her when I knew she didn't know basic things like steaming meat or even how to hold a knife to cut vegetables. She was never the emotional type so it's not that she changed(forgive me for saying she has been acting wierd.. She has always been wierd) .I feel she talks to me anyhow but in truth that's how she talks. In thier family they talk aggressively compared to me that came from a home that we talk in a calm way. I have tried to make her talk with me in a calm way but she can't help it. She won't cheat on me.. I know women a little. She comes straight from work and doesn't go anywhere I don't know(she is a good woman and has a good heart) . She doesn't make up, doesn't even dress to impress anyone. She doesn't even buy things for herself but for our home. I make it a duty to buy her clothes make she even de try small.

That message could mean anything but why should I suspect the worst? My wife is not reactive as I am. She's never checked my phone for hints. She doesn't hide her phone and as I have access anytime. I won't divorce her.She knows she doesn't offer me much in some sense(so she plays attack.. Lol) Instead I will show more leadership and care. Shes already going through a lot.Imagine losing a child and your womb and just being diagnosed with diabetes.. Its a lot to bear. My idea of love is not her idea of love cos she is different and was raised differently. She believes we should be friends but I hammer on respect all the time. NB.. I showed her this thread and didn't say anything(thats her nature).

If I demand for an apology, she won't give it. She'l by herself think it over for 2weeks and apologise.. (am not built that way-If in reverse, I would apologise immediately and get it off my chest)

I will go ahead and do surrogacy for her to have her children. She remains my wife.

Very repulsive reading this at first!

Help the reader ... Everything was just packed like a can of sardine!

All of a sudden, the urchins are no where to be found!

When people critique the government...the only thing online urchins do is rain insult!

Back to the post, many of you who defend the present administration are no different from the man who is the subject of this discuss!!!

SocialJustice:
Saying she forgot is not true and very deceitful.

Yes that's true for a 71 year old!

Have you ever seen a cleaner of such age in Nigeria? How do you treat them?

You have to consider many scenarios before jumping to conclusions

franchasng:
Let me open the floor.


I strongly believe that if the President does these two things, Nigeria will become more secure:


1.) Fully implement State Police & Forest Guards

2.) Electoral reforms to make electronic transmission of polling unit results compulsory and irev a compulsory part of election result collation.

Also make Presidential, Governorship and LGA Chairman election same day, Senate, Reps, State House of Assembly and LGA Councilors same day.


I will stop here

People are in the future tackling future problems.... You talking about electronic transmission of results.... What happened to electronic voting?

Let me not say what's on my mind

TimeManager:
God bless ST plenty..

Also, this elegant and beautiful daughter of APC Chairman and who is also the wife of the son of late Governor Ajimobi, distributed Sallah food to the good people of Kano.



-Kiss the truth!

Nice truth dished out....

This truth has really benefited me!

TimeManager:
Lol.. Lere Olayinka is a kryptonite of those political presenters at Arisetv. Soon when they hear his name as a guest on the show, they will run away.
To be honest, Wike had been of tremendous help to so many people just like Tinubu. We never knew that he had helped people like Gov Bala Muhammed, Ikenga Ugochinyere, Reuben Abati & the likes who are now turning against him. But of course, we knew about Fubara, Amaechi, Odili and the likes in Rivers State whom he had also helped in the past. However, the difference is that Tinubu , despite all the betrayal, never fought dirty in public. We can then agree that people are wired differently to react in different ways.


-Kiss the truth!

Can you shade more light on this truth you just shade?

erad:
Urgent cash needed and you still wan collect 200k for settlement...

Issokay.

The audacity for me!

Well, it's not my car .... but paying 200k for what exactly For putting up this advert or what?

kareemkamil:
Y is Nigeria excepted

Exempted you meant....

We are not that bad

Usmanovic95:
Now I understand Tuface verse in REGRET by BNXN. Man don leave Annie for the relationship e don tey.

....I wan start again clean slating .....


Same thing in .... Finish me by Larry Gaga ft Tuface rt al

Yes! First time in a very long time I'd see something sensible in here!

You made sense!

Subsidy was supposed to free up funds for infrastructural development!

My problem with the tolling of the roads are the effect of inflation! It clearly states that 50% discount will be given to frequent road users!
When the effect of inflation comes into Olay now..... You'd hear things like, toll gas been increased 100%! And to toll a road for 25, years just to repay loan!

How will repairs and maintenance be funded then?

nairalanda1:
This probably would be my last post on nairaland.

It is kind of funny to see people saying that those who defend the toll gate are supporters of tinubu.

The reason why is that such criticisim is basically their way of campaigning for their side. Just as the agbado people were ferociosuly attacking PDP In 2012 when it was time to remove subsidy. Fast forward to today, and they all support subsidy removal.

Nigeria needs to toll roads. And as I have said here, if it was Obi that was president and he made the same decision to toll the roads...I would have backed him well well.

Because at the end, just as I backed pdp on subsidy removal, even when I despised them, I will back APC on this, even though I also despise them

Fools and imbeciles will come and call me agbado. Some will think I am supporting their side....the truth is, I am supporting NIgeria. I support and have never supported a side.

If you want to complain about how the money would be eaten by corruption...you should not be here. You should be out there doing the thing many did to make saner climes sane. But many of you are supporting or criticising because...you have taken sides. You want your side to win. It's why abuse, rather than discussion , is the currency of this site.

It's time for me to go, after being here in one way or the other since 2013. I can't stand the abuse and the magical thinking anymore. The idiots who oppsed subsdy removal in 2012 brought today's economic crisis on us. The idiots who oppose this road tolling....somehow expect us to magically find money to keep the roads running.

Yeah, that's how people like Ojuntana and Helinues think. Magical thinking. And they abuse those who disagree with them.

Well, it's been nice playing with the kids...but I got to do adult things.

2013-2025.

Ask4bigneyo:
Trust we are doing fine. Please, who can recommend a genuine Remote Job for me or link me up with genuine one? I have a laptop to aid my work. The Nigerian economy is not friendly as the matter is getting serious.

My Phone number is on my signature.

Thanks.

Wishing you all the best...

But you didn't drop info on the kind of remote job you want....

You want people to assume?
At least out in effort into making people see you as serious

helinues:
The problem is the government and reasonable number of the citizens are lazy thinkers, no disrespectful.

Even those that have been provided with sufficient loans or credit to boost their business, then end up squandering the money.

The acclaimed Billionaires in Nigeria, if you know how much debt they are owning AMCON which they are not even interested in paying back self

How you juxtapose the words "thinking" and "lazy" baffles me...

Why the generalization?

How can a country make headway without basic amenities?

I am into printing in Delta state, during the first few months of the current president's administration... quite a handful of printers closed shop, they couldn't afford diesel, the price was too high! It was catastrophic manh!

We aren't lazy ... Sometimes the systems are rigged against the common man!

Let the common man on the street feel the impact of the government....

Better and affordable health care, electricity, accessible roads!

I used to ply the southern - northern roads back then... we could afford transportation and there was security, but the same cannot be said now!

Enter road .... You'd experience bad road, you'd experience kidnapping, armed robbery, prohibitive costs, which way brother?

Now the government is tasking the citizenry left, right and center, I only hope the funds will be used for meaningful projects...

I won't be surprised if I am insulted

No news from this thread

RealityKings1:
Have you heard from the Op?

Great idea.... but no one has heard from the op

DZTech:
Hi,
Great initiative.
But this post is what you should have started with. Just modify that first post, copy this one and paste it there.

Also, maybe look into making the funds an investment, rather than a grant; this will ensure that you have funds from your ROI, to replicate the project in future.
Of course, this would mean more work on your end, but you can actually build a Micro Venture Capital or NGO/foundation from this.
if you're intrigued by the idea, we can talk some more.
081 6625 2749.
God bless 🇳🇬

Thugnificent:
pls Sir, can you assist me with any amount for foodstuffs please 🙏

Guy .... What happened?

You've been on this app since 2011?

Where you based?

Quelme:
The Asian dragon 🐉 has come to stay...

China's statue as a superpower has come to stay... There's nothing the United States of Perverts can do about it.

Lols

Ekele22:
Hello nairalanders,
Pls I will need your input on this.
I will be very brief.

Ok,I work in an office alongside my boss daughter.this lady is what the Bible called a damsel,so pretty and fair to look upon like a white lady with her point nose.

Our interaction is only good morning,good morning.

Now,the issues is that ,I notice she is always unease when am around.

She gets tense up when am close to her in terms of doing things close to her .

Am not trying to seek her attention because I will be roasted by my boss but I find it worrisome with such altitude.
We greets with smile sometimes but not always and she is a very nice and humble lady of 26years.

Pls,nairalanders I think am been gossiped at house by her family members, of what do you think?

Oga OP,

WHATEVER YOU DO IN THAT OFFICE, NEVER CATCH FEELINGS IN THAT OFFICE!

FOCUS ON YOUR JOB, LEAVE WOMAN, GREETINGS ARE OK ATLEAST SHE DEY REPLY YOUR GREETING... LEAVE YOUR BOSS DAUGHTER ALONE

YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO "THE GUY" BY MI ABAGA

Richtaiwo:
Reno Omokiri is not inciting hate against igbos. He is saying the truth with verifiable facts. I commend Tinubu for directing schools to reintroduce History into our schools curricula.

Of what use is this truth at this point in time?

Does it bring goodwill to all concerned?
Does it foster harmony and unity to all concerned?
Does it promote the fragile political landscape we find ourselves in now with the rampant killings, kidnapping, armed robbery, cultism, inflation etc?

You see what you don't know is that.... ALL THESE HAPPENINGS AROUND US, THE NEXT VICTIM MIGHT JUST BE ONE OF YOURS, THEN THE MESSAGE WILL HIT HOME CLEARLY!


Nairalanders, I don't know why you hate each other so much....

Too much religious intolerance in here with lots of tribal bigotry

YeyeGbami:
Last year we increased minimum wage, we will review another increase in 2025 or 2026.

"We"

People are looking for money to solve real life issues these ones are looking for who to scam!

If it was food you used this for.... It would have been understandable, but no, you wan impress who no send you, haha manna in Mallam Audu's voice

Adakintroy:
Evidence say you no de waka.

You think lagos nnpc pump price them de use for iinside community

Leave that one in his delusion

Freetech:
Is it a must to drink Milo, what abot pap, kunu, akpu etc. Live within your means no more free food for lazy ass

Why do you have to lie to make your point?

Fuel 1509, where? Which country?
Is lying in Dna of you these tribe. The same lambe all round failure lie even in sleep and dream

That's true bro....

But even that pap you quote up there is not affordable again...

So come up with something else!

What reasonable thing can one afford with #100 again? Nothing.... So what "means" are you talking about?

YeyeGbami:
They need to make profit also, everything don cost.

Abi na until dem begin downsize, na una go still cry if them pack up.

How about minimum wage let's see how we fair and see which countries can afford these increase the most...

Then you see how low your county rank?

See I don't have a problem with the increase but increase minimum wage so that people can afford basic necessities

NOTE: THIS WAS WHEN $1 = #400

ForexPay:
Wastefulness, shortsightedness,greed and maladministration are major traits in blacks .

Very true.... I love the fact that you used the work BLACK!

That's one thing folks in here don't know!!! They think the world sees them as Hausa, Igbo, Yoruba etc.... na, you're BLACK !

I implore those quoting stats to also use minimum wage stats

DarkJeddi:
Indeed..
They shouldn't increase their tariff whilst everyone else is jacking their prices to high heavens,including you.
Dey play.

Yea, I guess you're paid to this work.... Well done sir

Bobloco:
Wetin dey vex me were some of una dey na this nonsense comparison with other African countries wey una dey always bring up when government increases prices of fuel, goods and services

Una no dey ever compare minimum wage

It's very appalling o...

They will bring stats just to justify policies that affect them negatively....

I just wander how people think!

If we do a poll about Nigerian youths .... How many people earn 200k per month to conveniently buy data and other daily necessities in Nigeria? The number is very low!

But they are quick to quote stats comparing Nigeria to other countries!

YeyeGbami:
They need to make profit also, everything don cost.

Abi na until dem begin downsize, na una go still cry if them pack up.

Yea..... Very quick to quote statistics

How about you do same with the standard of living bro?

Happy birthday sire

#100k can go a long way in my business center.... That will afford me 4 toners (BK, C, M, Y) @10K EACH and 2 cartons of A4 paper (75gram) @ #25k each

One day I'd do give away on this forum .....

Guess what criteria I'd use?

crossfire:
Can we see how social media has made young nigeria to talk and act like moroons,every body is just commenting bullshit,have u guys sit-down to ask ,y wld young boy between the age of 19 n 21 just kill an Uber driver,u fools just concluded, have u guys gotten first hand information. People just come out to talk bullshit. Am not in support of the killing,but atleast people shld not just just into conclusion. Mumu children for nairaland

I have attached a screenshot of one of your comments here for your perusal... Enjoy!

No matter the provocation, I'd never insult!

Back to the topic: 4 young boys ordered a cab in the middle of the night .... Even if the cab driver had intentions of harm, I don't think he stands a chance against 4 guys (no use weapons)

What could have made them attack him in a lonely place? Well there's two side to a story!

The comments shows clearly people rushed to conclusions... but reverting to insults is a no no

ibinaboonline:
Nope. I only need danfo in Lagos

Is there a deadline? And the quantity you'd need?

LINO?
At least do us the honour of typing its meaning!