Most men focus too much on techniques and deceptive “tricks” to attract
women. The sexual marketplace has changed quite a bit over the years, but
one thing is still true: If you just avoid the mistakes most guys make with women,
you’ll have no problem meeting women, attracting women, and getting laid...

MISTAKE 1: Bragging And Talking Too Much - This one is extremely common - Don’t make this mistake. Be
sure to turn over at least half (more is better) of the conversation to her so that she can feel included. She
also just wants to know that you’re interested in her, which means demonstrating that you can listen as well
as talk. You need to listen to hear the signals she will give you that she’s ready for you to move forward
and escalate...

MISTAKE 2: Buying Drinks And Throwing Money Around - Women don’t want to start out a conversation –
or a date – feeling like they will owe you something at the end. (And this is not how you get laid, either.)
Leave your wallet out of the equation and let her impress you based on who she is, not because she feels
obligated to pay attention to you. When you start things based on bribery, don’t be surprised when she uses
you for meals and expensive dates. You want to turn the tables so she’s coming on to you...

MISTAKE 3: Lying - A woman can tell when you’re lying. And even if you pull it off in the short-term, you’re
writing checks you can’t cash later on. She will find out eventually, and then flake out on you. There’s also
the toll that being deceptive takes on your self-image as you develop an identity as an impostor.
Stick to the truth. An occasional embellishment is forgivable - but if you start out with deception, you’re
going to destroy the connection she needs to sleep with you...

MISTAKE 4: Being Needy - Being too into her is going to kill your confidence faster than you can say “Let’s
just be friends.” Remember that the more you show someone that you need them in your life, the more they
will feel repulsed by you. If you make yourself too agreeable and “nice,” she will never feel sexually
attracted to you. So the key is to demonstrate independence and masculine confidence to her...

MISTAKE 5: Coming On Too Strong - When guys let a woman know that he’s “into her” too quickly and too
fast, this is coming on too strong - very similar to being needy. Being assertive and dominant is good,
but being over-eager is not good. One of the ways guys come on too strong is touching too much, too
soon. You should always be treating her as if she were your bratty sister. Just play it confidently cool...

MISTAKE 6: Being Meek And Timid - You’ve probably heard it a million times before - you have to show her
confidence. The key is to show her signals that you’re decisive and certain. That’s what confidence and
self-assurance look like to women. If she sees indications that you’re second-guessing yourself, you’re
going to turn her off. If you avoid showing her those signals, you’ve already won half the battle...

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By Jovia D'Souza

Every woman deserves the best man out there. When you are in the dating scene, you need to avoid men that might waste your time and in the process hurt you. Here are some of these men:

Narcissist

A narcissistic man is a man who thinks that he is better than everyone else. He feels that he is the best creation ever made by God. While dating experts will tell you that you shouldn't date a man that isn't confident of himself, you shouldn't touch a narcissistic man. While he will project confidence, he isn't the right one for you. Such a man always talks about himself. He will say how attractive, intelligent, and a host of other self-appraisal things. In some cases, he will try to belittle you.



To tell that you are dating a narcissist you need to listen to him talk. You should also take a look at his social media accounts. If the accounts are a collection of selfies with celebrities and people that are deemed high in society, you should run for the hills. It's only a matter of time before he starts feeling that he can do better than you and start looking for your replacement.

Married man

If you have been in the dating scene for some time, you must have come across plenty of men posing as single while they aren't. These men are just trying to take advantage of you and waste your time in the process. The most obvious giveaway sign that a man is married is if he has two cell phones. Another sign is if he is available only when he wants to or only available at odd times of the day. A married man also will never want you to visit his place. If you come across such a person, don't waste your time with him-unless you are looking for a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

A player

Players are usually hard to pick as most of them are able to hide too well. While this is the case, you can be able to identify one if you are keen enough. A clear sign is if he flirts with every woman that he comes across. Another sign is if he makes plans the last minute. The reason for this is because he was waiting for another woman to confirm. If the other woman doesn't confirm, he comes to you. Such a man is a pure waste of time and you shouldn't touch him with a 10-foot pole.



Conclusion

These are the main types of men that you shouldn't waste your time with. It's often said that you kiss 1000 frogs before you get to your prince. Even when you meet one undesirable man after another, you shouldn't give up on it. There are plenty of them out there. You only need to keep on meeting them and you will definitely meet the prince of your heart.

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by Rob Judge
Co-creator of: Magnetic Messaging: The Key Lock Sequence

Before we get into the texts, I have to explain something…

I’ve used all these text TODAY!

These are the freshest, most up-to-date texts I’m using at the moment, and so I don’t want the girls I used them on to find
them posted somewhere on the interwebz. So, this page is hidden. And will most likely not be up for long.

(I’m revealing serious classified information!)

Now…onto the texts!

1. Perfect Transition into the Date Text

A MAJOR problem most guys have over text is this: NOT knowing how to transition from flirting/talking on text into setting up a date! Proposing a date is one of the 3 KEY INGREDIENTS to effective text game (per Magnetic Messaging).

Also, most guys tell a woman TOO MUCH over text, destroying any mystery or intrigue that gets women excited about meeting up for a date. I always tell guys to think of texting as a “movie preview.” You want to give her JUST ENOUGH so that she’s CURIOUS and EXCITED for the date. (You do not, however, want to give her the whole movie on text!)

To accomplish this, I devised the perfect text:

“Sounds like a good _________ (discussion /debate /conversation) over a glass of wine”

In context, you’d use this text WHENEVER a woman asks for more information about something that interests her or even challenges you.

For example:

Girl: “Whatcha workin’ on?”

Rob: “Doing some writing ATM”

Girl: “Really? About what?”

Rob: “About something I can only tell you about over a glass of wine.”

Rob: “Let’s meet up later, around 8, at Blue Martini. Te gusta?”

2. Perfect “Radar Text” to Get Investment

If you don’t know what a radar text is, then you need to get Magnetic Messaging. In addition to eliciting a radar text, sometimes you also want a girl to “invest” some time/ thought/ emotions into the exchange (especially if she’s gotten a bit distant or cold).

One of the BEST ways I’ve found to do this is through pop culture. Feel free to steal these back-to-back texts to get some positive momentum and investment from girls who are slipping away:

Text 1: “Just made a Spotify playlist titled, “Cool guy music””
Text 2: “Give me some song recs!”

3. Look Important while Giving a Compliment

Readers of Magnetic Messaging know that I love blurring the line between cockiness and sweetness. The section in Magnetic on the “couple compliment” breaks down EXACTLY how to simultaneously give a compliment while also making yourself look cool in the process.

Likewise, a text I recently created that accomplishes a similar effect is the old “work break” idea:

“Need a work break, looking for a cute girl to distract me”

4. Get Some “Yes Momentum”

One thing I’ve found VERY effective in interacting with women is the idea of “yes momentum.” Once a girl is invested emotionally, often she doesn’t want to ruin the vibe by saying no (especially to things you like or enjoy).

As guys, it’s often us who get sucked into A GIRL’s “yes momentum.” (If you’ve ever said you liked a movie or song just because a girl said she liked it, raise your hand…)

***Sheepishly raises hand****

For those of us who know what it feels like to get swept away by “yes momentum,” you can imagine how powerful it can be if YOU were able to turn the tables and get a girl to agree with all your likes and interests…

…especially if you could parlay that “yes momentum” into a romantic date! (Insert Dr. Evil laugh)

Here’s a great text that suggests a date activity while creating some “yes momentum”:

“Do you smoke hookah*? (Please say yes)”

*Obviously substitute YOUR preferred romantic activity.



5. The Shameless Compliment

If you’ve been on this newsletter for any time, you probably know I’m all about expressing my masculine drive in an honest and transparent way. In less pretentious terms, I’m about acting…

SHAMELESS!

Once you and a girl are vibing, and especially if you’ve initiated the “turn sequence” from the keylock, then throwing out an over-the-top compliment can dramatically HELP your chances of meeting up with her.

This text is also GREAT for girls you’ve already been out on a date with or even a girlfriend:

Text 1: “Why are you hot and ____________*?”

Text 2: “It’s really not fair”

*Fill in something (non-physical) about her that you like, for example: “Why are you hot and creative” or “Why are you hot and such an expert of wine”

Well, there you have it!

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Guess what? Shedding a few pounds isn’t going to hurt (it’s actually quite beneficial) but weight loss by itself is no cure! Scientists discovered that it's actually the food you eat than can make or break diabetes. A large study done at the University of California, Los Angeles discovered that "contrary to common belief, Type 2 diabetes and metabolic syndrome can be reversed solely through lifestyle changes." And these people didn't have to lose tons of weight: "the changes occurred in the absence of major weight loss".

2. Type 2 Diabetes Is Not a Life Sentence: Most doctors only talk about diabetes treatment, diabetes management and diabetic control using drugs, pills, injections and surgery. When powerful, drug-free treatment methods exist!

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