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@ op stop worrying ur pretty self about having a bf,all my friends have got a bf and i dont and i am still alive
boyfriends usually come when you least expect them and dont settle for less
@ Mrs chima,i like your offer

A friend of mine was dating a guy for more than two years,he has being playing her,has a serious girlfriend and just kept her as side track.she later found out and she broke up wit him and now she is dating his friend(they are not close friends) who just got out of a ten year off and on relationship (they obviously used each other as rebound).
His gf broke up with him cause her dad sees no reason in his daugther who is a graduate dating a guy who is still in school and he already has plans to send her abroad to study for her masters.
The ex gf came back wanting the bf she dumped and he was already in a relationship with my friend and the guy told his ex that he is already in a relationship with my friend and that her dad doesnt accept him so its better they stay as friends.@ first the girl kept on making statement like what will be will be,always paying the boy visits in school and being cold towards my friend but now she advices my friend when she is having problems with the guy and they are good friends(d friendship scares my friend bt she has to kip her enemies closer)
the guy treats my friend nice and is even allowing her keep her virginity unlike her ex.my friends ex makes sexual advances towards my friend till tomorrow even when he knows she is dating his friend.she fears what if the guy graduates and gets a good job that his ex gf dad might accept him.should she continue dating her new guy and hould she remain friends with her ex

ps:her ex stays in the same town with her but goes to school in a diff place but she and her new guy go to the same school.

@ op focus on your studies dear,girlfriends come and go but your certificate is going no where.she might be going through a lot of stress,give her time and lots of space,she might come around

@ op advice her to change her sim and delete everything that reminds her of him and she should make a convenant with God that she would never call or send him money or receive his calls,so whenever she feels like doing all these would remember her convenant and wouldnt want to go against her God.advice her not to see those four years as time wasted but as experience gained,if she feels bored and feels like talking to him,she should read her bible or any book or call and hang out with friends.she should package herself well and she would meet a man that loves and deserves her.

thanks,guess i would just have to take it one day at a time

funny,i usually easily lose interest in relationship,so this last one i tried to put in effort and now i cant let go,each time i speak to my ex its ack to square one and somehow i cant stay without talking to him

if i was feeling ok,i wouldnt b asking for help,

i have being with this guy for almost Three years now,i am so addicted to him that i am finding it so hard to let go.all my friends have begged me to break up with him that they don't know what i am doing with him.recently he broke up with me,cos he hooked up with his ex and i am still finding it so hard to let go.my friends and family are tired of hearing my story and i am tired of it myself cos i really want to move on and not let the guy take advantage of me cos of this, the day he broke up with me i was virtually telling him not to go and kept on saying in my mind dat he shouldnt accept me back

i dont know,all i know is dat i am madly in love with him and i dont need a reason to feel d way i feel for him

of course

i think the ryt time to get married is when u are emotionally matured,financially stable as a man