as i understand the cultural connotations of female circumcision it is to stop the wives from being unfaithful, basically to degrade sex to a mere act of reproduction. if we are to say that we want this to be carried out while the woman is yet a child i think it defeats the purpose for which is currently stands because the time this woman begins here sexplorations in life she will not ever know what the pleasure or evolution will create a new eipcentre of pleasure in that area. i really dont see the use of this barbaric practice that seems only to inflate mens egos, making them once again feel and know that they have the power.

remember she has just been hurt, she really does not need to hear much u have to say now what she needs is for u to be by her side. listen if she wants to talk, be quiet if she has nothing to say. give her a shoulder to cry on, she has enough going on in her head to add whatever u have to say. bottomline just be there for her and make sure she gets all the medical stuff done she doesnt need to shockers in so lil time, there is stuff that can be done to take care of wateva has been left behind. (speaking from experience but i was not necessarily waiting to get hitched)

remember she has just been hurt, she really does not need to hear much u have to say now what she needs is for u to be by her side. listen if she wants to talk, be quiet if she has nothing to say. give her a shoulder to cry on, she has enough going on in her head to add whatever u have to say. bottomline just be there for her and make sure she gets all the medical stuff done she doesnt need to shockers in so lil time, there is stuff that can be done to take care of wateva has been left behind. (speaking from experience but i was not necessarily waiting to get hitched)

it is more than just cutting off the clit or worse altering the formation of some of the other organs down there, just for a mans peace of mind. female circumcision can cause problems during childbirth mostly for the mother meaning that a woman will carry a child for 9months and never get to hold it because she is dead. f.c. is a violation of human rights, the only reason men still condon this practice is because it give their trifling asses yet another scape goat when they're out creeping!! this is a very barbaric 'tradition' if it can even be called that.