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Jacinthe:
I'm not judging atheists. I dont blame them for anything. As condescending as this may sound, I actually feel sorry for them. But I dont have to marry one to show I am non-judgmental.

They should go for their kind, and I mine.

Being kind, cool and all isnt antithetical with being godly or the belief in God, so I dont have to trap myself in an half-bread phenomenon.

I think we are actually derailing this thread, and may chop ban if we go further

yes we are.i thoughr of it too.
ok so can we proceed to a place where no one can ban us?say mails or WhatsApp maybe?
I like your logic and will like to learn more.
Shall we?

spongeisback:
OGA I am waiting oh. Am in the bush bar. Come I want to show you something. It's past 6.

drop phone number so I call you before coming.
It's that simple

Jacinthe:
Wasn't interested enough to ask you how you know or dont know, to start with.

So yes, where were we?
.........

If a man who doesnt go to church asks me on a date, I will ask him something back: "If a fish and a bird fell in love, where would they live?". If he can't give me a good answer, I wont start what I cant finish. The thing is, I go to church. I dont want a man who doesnt go to church to promise me that I can continue when we get married, only for him to change and start giving me problems tomorrow. I have seen similar cases of this. Or for him to say tomorrow, that my children cannot go to church. And at the end of the day, I want to be going to church with my spouse. He should go and look for a woman who doesnt go to church too.

If he can provide for me excellently well, but doesnt believe in God due to some circumstances he has faced, I would empathize with him. But say yes to him because of pity or excellent provision, no. I cannot truly connect with a man who doesnt believe in God. I'm sorry.

So, that's that.

what if the man will love You,be honest with You,wouldn't cheat on you and sacrifice for you and make you happy because he thinks he is funny?
You see ma'am don't judge people much from a pedestal because a lot of people passed through he'll to be accepted by societal standards.
Along the line,they cried for God's help but it was no where to be found!now would you blame that Sought of man for not believing in him or a supreme entity that cares for the welfare of his creation?
Some were rejected,castigated,insulted but somehow,they managed to succeed beyond people's expectations.
What if the man would sacrifice to go with you to church on Sundays just so you don't feel lonely or can't pose with your man in church but does not believe in the whole God concept but is a very,cool,kind and loving man who could sacrifice anything to make his woman happy?

Jacinthe:
A man who isn't godly can't pass the entrance exam to start with. He doesn't have to be religious, but he will be godly. They don't always mean the same thing.

Now to the first thing you raised. Why is the thinking of the average Nigerian man so restricted that he can't seem to think beyond "girls like money too much?".

I'm not wretched by God's grace, neither am I a gold-digger, but yes I don't pray to marry a man who can't buy pampers for my babies and give them a sound education. And no, I don't want to be the breadwinner of my home. Or do you pray for that for your sisters/female cousins?

And for all it's worth, what I was thinking about when I wrote the above was the safety of my future kids in my future in-laws' house. I don't want a place they will go for one week, come back and be teaching me what I didn't teach them, or other things worse.

I understand and I know for sure you aren't wretched.
Don't ask me how I know though,I am an expert in finance.
Moving on...
What I mean is how would you feel if a man that doesn't go to church or isn't religious asks you for a date?bit has the right morals.likw knows what's right and what's not but has a weird past that he has totally moved on from?
Like he stoped doing some really bad things and wants someone he could build something with?
A man that isn't wretched and from a good family that is religious but he isn't?
A man who can provide for you and your kids excellently well and provide all the basics of life for you but does not just believe in God at all due to some circumstances he faced while growing in life?

Jacinthe:
Yes.

I will not marry anyone from a home where they churn out badly raised humans as a norm.

You have to come from a godly home where a sense of decency and propriety was carefully instilled in the offsprings.

More so, I don't want my kids to have to spend holidays in an environment I don't at all appreciate.

So yes, at least to me, the background matters.

Just say you want a man from a rich family.
I won't judge you it's not a bad thing at all.
But I want to ask you though,why the emphasis on godliness?
What if the man has all of your required qualities but isn't religious or godly?

spongeisback:
OGA come to Rumuola. Wait for me at that hotel by the flyover. When you get there lemme know.

drop phone number.I go wait for you say who you be?
I go call you when I reach there.

spongeisback:
See this one oh. What family? No be you wash your pant dry outside? You can't even threaten me. You're a noisemaking low life. I am in PH do your worst. Your mother should sell one of her expired vehicle and buy you sense. Money she couldn't use to buy your lazy father's love.

let's Make a date then.
I am in phc now.Where and how do we meet?

spongeisback:
Golden spoon ko wooden spoon ni

See this fuck3r uploading a picture of a street to boast. I stay in my OWN house and I employ people to clean up before and after me. See this one listing cars still you're staying in a rented apartment. You were born with a Golden spoon but you went to Europe illegally and smuggling, you were born with a golden spoon but your father can't even fend for himself. Your mother has all the cars you listed still your father left her asssssssss.

see this one lol.
I left Africa at 19 to hustle,so yeah I will definitely make some mistakes.
Smuggling?look let me tell you,there is no business like the smuggling business.take it from me.
On a goodnight,I make more than some people's annual salaries and guess what,I still have all the time in the world to enjoy myself well well...when I see all them 9-5 people making mouth and shouting work work work ehn,I just laugh like they are crazy.ndi work
Your own house?so because I don't own a residence means to you that I don't own properties?
So all landlords are richer than their tenants according to your logic ba?mtcheew.
Also Yes,my mom is a VERY RICH WOMAN.you can go and die if it pains You,I don't care
You might think you are so anonymous but I will advise you to watch the things you say about my family!it's all fun and games until someone gets killed.
I don tell you my own!

yettymuse:
Is this the guy that brags about having Benz, well traveled, all the female in his family are made blabla....

This dude wey sub me one time like that..

Please don't say Yes!!!... Please... From the comments I'm thinking this is nwanne (not sure I spelt that correctly).

Ha! Inside life. Do you reside in Nigeria? Did you actually pack gutter? As in them gee you shovel to pack gutter? And you sold for 13k (naira or dollar)? No pun intended, I just want to be sure..

I come in peace

yes o.i actually pack sand very hard that day.
But how it ended made me smile and I learnt a lesson that day.
At times you've gotta ignore problems not because you can't fight,but it's not just worth it!
Peace out here too and Yes,I own a Merc and a lexus
Nwanneni

spongeisback:
OGA! I stay in PH too oh!
Even when I was a tenant, none of us wash our car talk less of digging sand or cleaning the compound. Sanitation day of course there's no movement but I still didn't clean the compound because we had someone doing it. We don't even on our generators.Just admit you stay in a shîthole estate and stop lying. Mr all the females in my family drive Benz.

bros No make noise.
Let's post pictures of where we live so everyone be the judge.
I am waiting.
Actually,all the females in my family drive mercedes
Mom's 65th birthday is coming soon and my immediate older sister just bought her an ML 350 4matic 2016 model.
And you know what?she is topping it to her list of exotics;
2014 range rover autobiography long wheelbase.
2011 jaguar xj
2016 Mercedes Benz s class w222
2009 land rover hse.
Some people were born with GOLDEN SPOON nigga,no offense if na that one dey pain you.
So bros,use your time wisely so your kids can brag about coming from a family like mine.The affluence weh dey there dey excess.
If you need pictures,let me know.of course you've gotta show yours too.
See the Face me I face you estate according to your stupid ass

lilllly:
And he still went to carry big nyash ashawo last night��� are you sure you are ready for this love thing so?

wetin man go do na.
Madam never start gimme cookie and conji dey worry me yesterday.
So I say make I go chop small thing before men soapy em life out.

chii8:
Op,you mentioned "nwanenni", are you from Neni?

yes o.i am from there.you too?

LewsTherin:
Logobenz, you know the craziest thing that can happen right now? Make this babe dey Nairaland. Come read all this story. Ol boy, that will be frigging hillarious!!!

hahaha ABI oo.
But e go funny sha.
N.a. love cos am,make she no vex

ifyalways:
Lol.

Okay. Invitation noted.

Just send me a pm so I can show you where you will be staying when/if you eventually come
You won't be disappointed trust me.

Available

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Nice story, if true. Love is sweet. But from what I can glean from the pictures of the girl, I think you are inflating her beauty a tad too much. But beauty is in he eyes of the beholder and she might look like a Halle berry or Meghan Good to you. But she does have nice brown skin that looks soft.

she is a Halle actually

ifyalways:
I'm surprised too. Could be a PH thingy though. And then an estate sand truck drivers have easy access to happen upon waste sand. Both scenarios won't be happening in the estates I know , in lagos .

Any picture of the sand/waste @ logobenz? Cos I'm having a mental picture of a blackish kind of sand and if that, I'm wondering too how that could fetch you money seeing that it's everywhere in lagos roads no thanks to the street sweepers who pack it out and then leave it beside the gutters till the next rain pushes it back into the gutter

Then again, lagos(island) mostly do raft foundation. We learn everyday. 13K sand ;- if I were a NLDER living in PH I would have pm'ed you for your estate name and kick start a biz. Lol

here in phc,once every fsecond abi third Saturday of the month is state sanitation where movement is restricted throughout the state and occupants of every household are required by law to come out make their environment clean.
It's a state thing where people don't move that day till 10am!
So I hardly go out to do any work on these days,I go just stay indoors till 10 am then I move out when task force people have left!
And also,I don't associate with none of these people.i don't attend meetings,IVs,etc...probably that's where all the beef is from
Just holla me ify whenever you are in phc so we will have a pillow talk(after you know what ) on how you too can start making your 13k on drainage dirt removal.

Available..

Available

Trillyonaire:
Nice car. Saw at Mandela this evening.

indeed,it is i you saw.
Can you please testify at what you saw so others see from yoyr view point?
Also,what do you think of my girlfriend
I heard someone asked after it there.was it you?