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VeteranOG:
Are you ok boss, or you need us to send some no delegation to check on you

truth be told bro,I am not ok.
I am downcasted!!feeling rejected,sad,bitter,angry...
I have learnt a bitter lesson.
There is just that one thing that can't be bought!LOVE.
No matter who you are,what you do,how kind you are or handsome,it just doesn't matter!
I think there is a force that controls these things and so far,I haven't been myself.
I've tried all I could to be happy but it just doesn't work and eats deep into my soul and pocket.
Happiness can't be bought. I now know better.Fùck this life mehn,I am tired.
Thinking of doing something really stupid tonight.
I went to a supermarket today to buy some alcohol,I was just there sitting in my car in their lot with uncontrollable tears rolling down my cheeks.
What did I do?who did I offend?why am I living like this?
It dawned on me that one can't have everything he desires.
I went to the places that use to make me happy but seriously,it doesn't make me anymore.
It's today I finally give up!!
Fùck the world,I don't care anymore.
Bye people,my 27 years on earth ends today!

I am sorry this happened but if you want to speed,please use a Mercedes Benz.
Speaking from experience.That car lost balance after the tire burst because it's a front wheel drive car,damn!
I too drive very fast but I can't try it with any vehicle.
I almost got killed a while back on my way to uyo while doing 195kph and a mad driver ran into the road without looking properly,just a little twist of the steering wheel and I found myself in a ditch.
It was a fucking Lexus!08 ES350.that's not a car but a big boat
Be safe people

cococandy:
I’ll find it don’t worry. No friends in California.
Found some online but they don’t ship to me.

I did find the rosé in wine store near me and they say they’ll notify me when the brut comes in.

So I’m waiting on them. The rosé looks like my jams though. If they don’t get brut, maybe I’ll just buy the Rosé. Looks yummy.

who said anything about brut?
What I posted was "blanc de blancs" not brut.they are very different.
The brut comes in green bottles while the blanc de blancs or white of whites in English comes in transparent ones.
Your hand sweet sha
The rosé tastes nice too and a little bit too feminine but the blanc is just pure perfection.
Fine champagne for a fine woman

cococandy:
Yes I did.
It wasn’t that hard.

I’m still looking for that one

Ah Ruinart blanc de blancs.
Very hard stuff to find.Do you have friends in California?
I think it will be easier to get there you know.
Showbiz,glam life,champagne...you know the drill na.
But shipping will add to the cost

sassysure:
If u want to quote me so we will engage in a discuss, u have to be civil.

I wonder the kind of response you were expecting,probably a bidding contract kind of write up since what you wrote was so polite.
Emotional Blackmail as usual,not surprised at all

ornicus:
do you want to watch endgame, or do you want to get hammered? you cant do both

lol that was very observant of you haha.
I am not really a TV person,that display is just what canal+ was showing at the time lol..
I just love my high

sassysure:
U are absolutely right.
But, some of the mothers, despite having their husband's unconditional love are still extremely possessive of their sons especially the rich ones.
The answer is control.

If u are a control freak, no amount of love will do.

U see manipulative and competitive young girls? ( competitive in the sense that they will want to have what their friend has, they metamorphosis into young women who will want their boyfriend to buy that latest iPhone for them not because they need it or the guy has the money but because the hottest babe in town or class has that), they are the type that cling to their sons.
They emotionally blackmail their sons with sob stories that their wives will be a nobody before them.
They don't actually love their sons. [b]They did what they should do as mothers( it's ur obligation to train ur child as long as u have birth to him or her. U don't do ur child any favour at all.its ur job.[/b]They The 3motional manipulation don't work) but they Use that to hold and control their sons as long as they are alive.

When you get to oshodi ehn,repeat this same line to all those hungry,homeless kids you see under those bridges you hear?
Nonsense!!
Did the mothers of those children do what they were suppose to do?
Now some of us did not pass through all of that horror because heroes gave birth to us and we will worship them till we die.
I repeat,no woman is worthy enough to get the same kind of love a son should give her mother who sacrificed her all to give their kids a better life.
Only an idiotic man does that.

Wow cococandy you finally pilot this.
I'm impressed.
Anyways,seem we can talk wine here without getting banned right?
Let's talk wine then.who wants to know?
Luc belaire Gold
Location;bonamousadi,Douala a while back.

jenifer007:
O Ku orire....For the fact your mother sacrificed all for you, you can only show your appreciation by being there for her but she can never be your first wife. My prayer for you is to marry a wonderful woman,even your mother will have confidence in her and they both will love each other dearly.That will make you a happier man.

exactly my thoughts.thank you.
I will love to marry a woman who would see my mom as hers and I will see her and her family as mine too.
We become one big happy family that shares success and weaknesses together.
Let love lead rather than rivalry from both parties.

cococandy:
Your father’s priority. Simples

Do you have male children?

jenifer007:
I insist that babies don't marry young man.I am just seeing your post.When it comes to marriage, I am not a jjc.I am blessed with four children and they are all boys.My last born just finished secondary school.My first born is 24 years and in few years time he will be planning to settle down.I will never be a rival to my son's wife.You have a lot of growing up to do. Don't make your mother your wife's rival. No matter how sweet your mum is,you can never be her crown.

who said anything about making my mom and wife rivals?
I only said I won't allow my wife counter my mom for no reason,whether she is wrong or right!
And also,the love I have for my mom cannot be shared with anybody and I love it like that.whether wife or whoever...
Maybe when you sacrifice for those boys like you shouldn't without any support and give them a golden spoon in their mouths at the detriment of your own relaxation and health,then I would believe you.

When I said it some dimwits here were saying some friends are better than family bla bla...
I learnt this lesson a long time ago and I no longer give anybody money for no reason!
If it's not family or girlfriend,I am not doing it!
Unless of course,it's a valuable relationship I have with the said friend or someone I know has got my back for real too.

Rubbiish:
@bold u make laugh
The wife and mother have different place in the life of man, every man got only one mother, but number of wife is unlimited.
U will naturally sound like this, till your son grow up, only then u will understand the pain of having an ungrateful son. The sacrifice a mother will make for her son, very few wives, if any sef can ever make it. U think it is easy to mould a man? Wait till u your son grow up

Freecocoa is a lesbian and knows nothing about raising a child, dont allow her mislead u

bunch of jokers.
I asked her how old her son is,she no respond
They think moulding a man is easy.

blissgregory:
For ur mind??seeking ur attention??over my dead body.Old pot belly thing.My last mention.

pot belly @27
One of the dumbasses who think a man must grow old before he can be useful/enterprising/successful in life.
Such Gutter mentality
Kindly go back to your ajegunle to meet/converse with your ilk,you aren't worthy enough for me to talk to you to begin with.

blissgregory:
Noticed

someone that looks as you won't ever get any attention from me,so stop flattering yourself.

blissgregory:
It could be dat Op has low self esteem.Probably he is nt hansome

stick to the things your airhead can carry
Real life situations is not for every asshole around the block.
Self esteem?lol...anyways any frog to her own opinion.

jenifer007:
Think before talking. I am a mother and I love my son so much and I will never allow my son use me to intimidate his wife.He has to love his wife more than me because i am not a rival to his wife.it is men like you that make your mothers rivals to your wives.

How old is your son?

Rubbiish:
He is not a baby
He stated the fact & a thousand of your kind can't change it

I'm with you on this bro.

Jacinthe:
You met a girl on the 26th of last month (last week Friday), and before a full week runs out, you've promised to place her on a salary.


No, you didn't tell her to visit nairaland job section or hotnigerianjobs when she complained about money, you straightaway went on to promise a salary. Even employers would usually take it slower.

My point is, till you guys stop putting money at the forefront when dealing with women -especially those you just met-, you will continue having to deal with gold-diggers whom you created with your own hands.

And please guys, work on your self esteem and ego, such that you don't always have to spend money -even on a lady you already resent- just to feel good about yourself.

Sorry about your experience anyway, @logobenz

I never in anyway put money first,wasn't me at all but she!
The only time I did so on my own was on the first date.
After that,it was all let's go here,let's go there.
I was sick of it trust me.
Now about the car issue,she works for her dad whom is having money problems so I gave her one of mine just to run around for that day,who wouldn't?it's very normal for someone who cares.
Now later when I eventually wanted to officiate things between us,that was when she told me what she was going through.I just offered to help her out with the allowance for the time being till her dad fixes their money problems.
See the thing is she put herself on a lifestyle which her current finances couldn't support and was even beyond the things I offered,that was why I withdrew.
If she didn't want more than I wanted to give,then we wouldn't have any issue.
I am not a fool,maybe I just cared too much anyway.
Lesson learnt,I won't be that compassionate ever again!
I honestly wish her well.
Btw,I am still waiting for you on the banter thread

peacefulhome:
It a general thing. They are just trying to protect their family . We as a lady will not be happy if our husband should keep complaining of any bad attitude that any of our family members has. No sane man will want his wife to get the bad image of his family,

one chilled bottle of champagne for you my lady

Gadex:
Can u at least allow us see the face of the scammer.better luck next time.

I just respect people's privacies.
And exposing her does so to me as well,but she is indeed beautiful trust me.

ImaIma1:
You'll figure that out when the time comes

Sorry,I have already figured it out

ImaIma1:
That's not a way to go about marriage. A wife is not a girlfriend. You are meant to protect your wife and make her comfortable. Some families see a wife as an intruder that just came in to cut short their enjoyment and benefits from their son and brother.

A wise man will make sure that both wife and mother are ok. Though, when you get married, your wife becomes your priority.

and my mom becomes whose priority?

Low income earners zone should be your target market since you said you don't have enough capital to set it up.
A campus will be Good,a market(a very rowdy and local one),etc...
I don't know Abuja well lest I would have pinpointed some areas to concentrate on.
There is money in flour business if you've got enough market share and quality.
Goodluck sis.

nwachukwu9:
I wonder how the OP would give a lady he bearly know his car to be driving, it is a sign of weakness, you are telling her indirectly that you love her so much and you are foolish, with time she would activate your Mumu bottom, and take advantage of it

she has already which is why I called off the whole damn thing.
It was all a charade.the girl is a gold digger.
She succeeded to fool me but I caught her and her lies midway.
Sorry guys,it didn't work out.I'm so disappointed.
I'm still in the market searching and working on myself to get a better person.

The real question is who would pay you 1 billion naira for just slapping your mom?
All these people hacking their mother's organs for money,how.much do they Make?
Unrealistic bunch.

freecocoa:
Hmmm, how can one ignore all of that? I mean, your wife has to deal with your mum, she just has to, expecting her to constantly ignore unfairness is not a very loving thing to do, and then threatening to get angry if her human side eventually shows, is just heartbreaking to say the least.

I know it's heart breaking but it's the truth.
How does someone that doesn't live nor provide for us be unfair to us or the wife?
She stays somewhere else to start with,so how hard can it be to ignore a person that is unfair whom you don't see everyday?
Or will you be ok if your mom treats me UNFAIR and I begin to banter or drag with her?
Like I said,there is no point arguing this because no real man will side you to castigate his mom,whether she is right or not!harsh reality.
Some will come here and start typing feminine epistles but dare retaliate or counter their mothers and deal with the consequences.
Once more,ignore for peace to reign in your home or better still,pretend

freecocoa:
How exactly shouldn’t it be up for debate? So if your mum is being mean to your wife, it’s not debatable to side with her(your mum)?

I don’t understand all these Nigerian men.

well,I will advise my wife to ignore her since she doesn't provide nor cater for our family but using it as an excuse to be rude or violent to her?nah!
If she does,she just earned herself a reason for me to be very very aggressive around the house.
Once more,ignore.

Yes we love to side with our families,like you females do so it's nothing new.
If say you are my wife and your brother comes to our house to steal stuff without my knowledge and you find out,will you tell me?
Or should I leave my mum and support yours?
There are some topics that shouldn't be up for debate in the first place.

funmisticqueen:
what exactly did i do? i am tired of your nonsense and not in the mood to give you an ego boost.

You are the one who threatened me. i have a face, so what! i have intense big eyes, so what! i have other details, so what. Check yourself and stop all these shenanigans. i hate it when people speak circumferentially.

Just seeing what you posted. hahahahaha, i really overestimated you.Infact, please expose the full picture or should I do it for you? You are a confirmed stalker, period.

Taking pics from my WhatsApp profile. The buffoonery. NEXT!!

k.

CaptainMitch:
I did that already

and you had to put Tom's picture lool...
Lwkmd