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i was so so disappointed when Kate walked out one of the participant and Danfosta also followed. it was so immature of them to have hone that. prior before she walked out she threatened that if the guy sings she would walk out. the judges should be reviewed.

i want to appreciate d ff people 4 their comments: Feminine, Jennykadry, MRbrownJay, Horny4u, andromida, monkeyleg,ronkebp, ifyalways, bawss1, ajigglin.
Bawss1:Dunno why some guys find it hard to do as I do when it comes to matters like this. When a relationship ends everything about that relationship ends with it
Responds: i totally belong to d same school of thot wit u, becos dats wat i do.

however i ve dis to say to-
MRbrownJay: FIRST let me just say that i dont believe that a man should automatically stop talking to an ex simply because he is with you. if they are mature enough to find a common ground to be friends after being a couple then great, why should that be a problem to you?! stop trying to dictate what he can or cannot do. its called marriage not slavery!

Reply:well i believe in d same sch of tot wit Bawss1

SECOND has he done anything to warrant such insecurities from you? has he ever cheated? has he ever given you the reason to believe that he was cheating?

Reply:i dont trust him and he knws it although i ve not caught him red handed cheating.

THIRD so you believe that communicating with your ex is "keeping a close r/ship with her"? what would you call it if they ever met again then? CHEATING?! lol

Reply: whn d conversation bcomes frequent to d extend that his ex tells my husband any misunderstanding she has with her husband to be!

FIFTH your hubby told you what he believes in (aka there is nothing wrong with the act) but you are trying to change him into who he is not. you want him to stop being a friendly caring person because of your insecurities. lol. why dont YOU change to a better person rather than expect him to lower himself to your low self esteem level?

reply: am trying to mk him see reasons that it is not healthy to maintain aclose relationship wit an ex.

SIXTH giving your husband an ultimatum is not only wrong but immature. what are you going to do if he doesnt stop?! why do you think this girl will give a damn if you call her? she is HIS friend, and if HE sees nothing wrong in communicating with her then your business is with HIM not HER. your immaturity is clearly apparent.

Reply: i concur i shd not ve given him an ultimatum but i was hurt and was not thinkin right

recently i just discovered that my husband still communicate with his ex girlfriend to the extend that the girl tells my husband any misunderstanding she has with her husband to be. they talk on phone almost everyday.
i called my husband and told him that it was not healthy to maintain a close relationship with one's ex esp with wat transpired between them but he said dat nothin can happen between them. and there is nothing wrong with being close to one's ex.
i am worried. i ve given my husband one month ultimatum to distance himself from his ex or i call the girl and tell her to distance her self from my husband.
please i need ur advice.
thanks.

Please does any one have the idea how much NOKIA E65 cost

girl wake up and dust d wool 4m ur eyes and face d truth. its so obvious he doesnt want to marry you. d earlier d better thou it wld hurt.

i met deji in dec 2006 when i went for a wedding some how we started hanging out together,till 1st week in jan when he travelled out of the country. he kept calling and started to ask me out and in mid feb i decided to go out with him.

his call was regular and i also kept in touch. in feb i got a job with the federal govt and d rule was that havin joined them in mid feb, i wont be paid till 1st wk in april of which i was deployed to ibadan where i had no relatives and i had to survive rent a place buy things 4 myself ,being dat my father is a pensioner and mum is a teacher,so i told deji d whole thing and i asked him to render any assistance in monetary value. he kept promising me dat he wld send his bro to give me money ,he kept posting me until finally i was paid my salary. then i told him dat i didnt need his money again and dat i was no more interested in d relationship out of anger, but aft some days i called to say i was sorry i didnt mean to act irrational.

apparently when i asked him 4 money his calls reduced so when we settled our rift his call drastically dropped.each time he called me, he sounded like a friend and not a boyfriend. he cld ask when last did i kiss and when i said i had not kissed anyone since he left, he would say dats so boring.

in our relationship, when there was a cramp and he swiches off, i am always d one to always tell him how to resolve issues withladies.

in dec i decided to date a guy i meet while i was serving in 2006,he had been askin me out i know he loves so dearly thou i like,i had d intention to introduce him to my parents later this month but all of a sudden i got a call on fri from deji,thou he called me once in jan and also in feb telling me that he was to come home in march for his sis weddin,telling me dat he just got to d country last thurs. i did see him on sat,he was apologisin sayin that it was work that kept him busy he has been begging 4 a come back said he wants to marry bla bla bla. i still like him and am scared of hurtin d other guy who loves me unconditionally.but i dont know if deji is for real cos i wont want to loose at both end as husband is scarce.

i understand how u feel perfectly. d truth is bitter. he is gradually fading away from u.pls be wise and strong to pick up your pieces dear.

i can imagine exactly how u feel, but next time u shd be more tactful with restitution.

i can imagine exactly i u feel, but next time u shd be more tactful with restitution.