JONNYSPUTE:
. Sorry my bro but you are a weakling.

srclark:
when did engaging a girl and marrying her become the samething it is a norm now for guys to engage a girl all in the name to tie her down you can be claiming you are serious and in the real sense you are not serious ,no right thinking girl would make herself available to other men if your intentions of marrying her are shown and known in this harsh buhari weather oga your story is incomplete my own opinion though

Now this is the full story, I'm saving up funds to further my studies by September fall abroad...

Me and my family agreed I should finalize everything about marriage so that when I by year end, I will be going down the alter by 4th January 2020 ....

So me and my patents with some elders went to her village with Palm wine 2 jars according to tradition and we collected full list and gave them Easter as our return date... check my previous post, I made mention of getting list from her family against my coming by Easter...

maybe she's misbehaving cuz I don't spend like I used to before but she should understand that I'm entering into a huge project that will better the lives of our unborn babies

ojuu4u:



I pity u and I pray you won't die of heart attack, end up with broken marriage or having kids which are not urs,
Do not force/presurise any girl into relationship, it's dangerous to marry lady who doesnt *love or regard* you. Perhaps, u may have little cash and you think you can use that to hoodwink her. With what is happening it's obvious that the lady heart, love & spirit are not for you.Am very sure she would be struggling to have sex with you

she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting

delugajackson:

You need to make her understand that she's no longer available to other men by virtue of the engagement ring.

that's what I have been shouting and complaining since

JONNYSPUTE:
Op be firm and let her know you don't like it.What you can't stop now,you can't stop it after marriage. Stop complaining, be a man and take control of the affairs or is she the one doing you a favour by marrying you?

I'm just playing nice guy honestly..

no body has the monopoly of misbehaving, me I can too just that that not part of my agenda now

DanDeeBoss:
Hmmmm what kind of stuffs do you hear them discuss and her reaction ....@the bolded .. It seems you're fed up already .....

the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity

it's not insecurity my Dear... I have gotten list from their family... against my Coming by Easter with my family... or do you think I don't see beautiful girls out side that I will flirt with or give my number to....

Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

Osasnidas:
yes an infected person that is not suffering from the virus because of medication is a carrier of the virus, as such he or she can infect none carriers in unprotected sex.

Don't say what you don't know...

if a HIV patient takes ARV and steady with good diet, the patients viral load will go down that it will be hard to infect another person via unprotected sex...

I have a living proof... family of 3 , the woman is positive while the husband is Negative and they have 3 lovely kids ...

make election finish first