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A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 10:43pm On Jan 10
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by delugajackson: 10:47pm On Jan 10
You need to establish some rules in your relationship. I see she's the type that disrespects you and I wonder how you both will cope during marriage, cause what you allow is what will continue. But it's up to you, if you keep acting like a sissy, you will get treated like one. Respect is earned.

You need to make her understand that she's no longer available to other men by virtue of the engagement ring. If she finds that too difficult to understand then she's free to walk away. Life is too short to make mistakes. And stop with the "I love her" crap line. You can't sacrifice your sanity and peace of mind on the alter of love.
she was answering a call and the food was getting cold I called her baby this food will get cold, lets eat. She said I should eat that she will join later. Now she reply the person on phone that "it was nothing just a minor distraction."
My brother, open that wedding wine, drink it and call it quits with her. What insolence!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by MariaLavina(f): 10:48pm On Jan 10
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:48pm On Jan 10
gringrin

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Florblu(f): 10:49pm On Jan 10
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.
Deal with your insecurity

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Florblu(f): 10:49pm On Jan 10
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.
Deal with your insecurity

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by MariaLavina(f): 10:50pm On Jan 10
DanDeeBoss:
gringrin
Why are you laughing? angry

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:53pm On Jan 10
MariaLavina:
Why are you laughing? angry
Because of your comment angryangry Are you supporting that the Op's girlfriend should keep giving her number to "random" guys??

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by BatmanIsWatching(m): 10:55pm On Jan 10
So she should continue to give her number to random men?
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Larryfest(m): 10:55pm On Jan 10
She doesn't seem like someone who will give you rest of mind when you both wed, it's like you are the one in love..

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by frbona: 10:56pm On Jan 10
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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:59pm On Jan 10
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..
But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers(men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying.

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she but just won't stop
Hmmmm what kind of stuffs do you hear them discuss and her reaction ....@the bolded .. It seems you're fed up already .....

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by DMerciful(m): 10:59pm On Jan 10
I don't know why girls support themselves in foolishness! Look at the preposterous comments above!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by marvin906(m): 11:02pm On Jan 10
giving her number out to random men means one thing she's open-minded and that's a red flag dude..

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 11:03pm On Jan 10
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity

it's not insecurity my Dear... I have gotten list from their family... against my Coming by Easter with my family... or do you think I don't see beautiful girls out side that I will flirt with or give my number to....

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by marvin906(m): 11:04pm On Jan 10
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.
Deal with your insecurity



can you get anymore stupid..

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Halo22: 11:06pm On Jan 10
Well am equally undergoing such situation, though I have not proposed to mine. But if I would advise, free her for now and concentrate on ur wine carrying, if she continues subsequently just tell her you cannot bear it any longer. Threaten to quit the whole engagement, am sure she will be serious by then.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by SillyeRabbit: 11:09pm On Jan 10
Not all girls. Unfortunately, most. That's why it is good to let her know who you are from the onset. Don't ever tolerate rubbish from any girl. If you are not comfortable with my policies, please just fck off.
DMerciful:
I don't know why girls support themselves in foolishness! Look at the preposterous comments above!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by PUSSYHOE: 11:11pm On Jan 10
Man you see how other girls are supporting her? all these girls prostitution is in their DNA, even after marriage she won't stop.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by osemoses1234(m): 11:13pm On Jan 10
Bros give me her number make I talk sense into her head

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 11:13pm On Jan 10
DanDeeBoss:
Hmmmm what kind of stuffs do you hear them discuss and her reaction ....@the bolded .. It seems you're fed up already .....


the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by PUSSYHOE: 11:14pm On Jan 10
DMerciful:
I don't know why girls support themselves in foolishness! Look at the preposterous comments above!
All girls are different, in reasoning, looks, character etc but when it comes to men all girls are the same.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by bamvik(m): 11:14pm On Jan 10
There is nothing wrong in giving out her number to males but there is something wrong calling her at odd hours, maybe she is into business and her customers do call her for booking grin . Jus try to enquire reasons for those calls or this might be a case of insecurity

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by SillyeRabbit: 11:14pm On Jan 10
Those supporting her are most likely hungry girls. The ones that still believe in getting gifts and cash from other men without second thoughts regardless being in relationship or not.
PUSSYHOE:
Man you see how other girls are supporting her? all these girls prostitution is in their DNA, even after marriage she won't stop.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by pyyxxaro: 11:21pm On Jan 10
osemoses1234:
Bros give me her number make I talk sense into her head




You won lash tooo abi



Incase give me the number toooo cool

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:23pm On Jan 10
Op be firm and let her know you don't like it.What you can't stop now,you can't stop it after marriage. Stop complaining, be a man and take control of the affairs or is she the one doing you a favour by marrying you?

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 11:32pm On Jan 10
JONNYSPUTE:
Op be firm and let her know you don't like it.What you can't stop now,you can't stop it after marriage. Stop complaining, be a man and take control of the affairs or is she the one doing you a favour by marrying you?


I'm just playing nice guy honestly..

no body has the monopoly of misbehaving, me I can too just that that not part of my agenda now

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 11:35pm On Jan 10
delugajackson:

You need to make her understand that she's no longer available to other men by virtue of the engagement ring.


that's what I have been shouting and complaining since

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by carter009(m): 11:38pm On Jan 10
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by lilmax(m): 11:39pm On Jan 10
this is why in a relationship, you spell out what you can't tolerate

if you had talked about this the first time you encountered it, she would have changed

tbh with you, baba that girl will never change and I can tell she's still a kid that doesn't know right and left

the ball is in your court, if you go ahead, you're going to regret it....this is just facts

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:50pm On Jan 10
Lordbellish:



I'm just playing nice guy honestly..

no body has the monopoly of misbehaving, me I can too just that that not part of my agenda now
....Most ladies don't respect nice guys.So you better man up before its too late.It is not all about playing the same game with her rather its about you taking charge of the affairs. Why marry a lady that can't respect your feelings? Do you want to die young?.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Ranchhoddas(m): 11:58pm On Jan 10
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
Predictable. Thinking is so hard for some people.
Gosh.

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