saxtaiwo:
Mine was studying a course I have never enjoyed for a day , I was studying civil engineering in Lagos State polytechnic and I struggled throughout my ND, it was at the point of entering HND when I personally and purposely spoke to my self and thank God my inner self listened. I decided to write Jamb again and I gained admission to study physics in Unilag.
Of a truth I am feeling fulfilled taking that decision,about to finish my masters in physics and PhD loading. Teaching may not be paying as we thought but the greater fulfilment I have now is worth more than money.
Please stay in a profession you find joy and fulfillment in, you can be making millions and hate going to work.
When you are in a wrong profession then you must hate Monday morning.

I had similar experience with you, I studied architecture during my ND, even although I graduated top of my class, I had no passion for the course. I wrote jamb and got admission to study mechanical engineering in OAU. It was one of the best decision I made.

Since you are almost done with your masters degree, I advise you to search for PhD positions in Europe. Focus on countries like Netherlands, Norway, Sweden, and Denmark.

They have several funding depending on which area of physics you have specialized. Also, PhD is a job position in any of these countries. You will work as an early stage researcher and write your PhD dissertation around the projects you have completed.

I wish you best of luck.

you see 30M save for Europe you no happy. How many Nigerians get 1 Million naira for their account after 20 years of their life?

AImiron:
Saudi pro league is league of semi retired, and finished players, they are playing against part time footballers, I just laugh when penadogs create threads here to celebrate the desert fraud whenever he scores against AL MAKURA FC, shame no dey catch una…. Jude Bellingham go score average 5 goals per match if e ever enter that league, make I no even mention Mbappe, dem Dey even compare goals scored in Europe to the desert hahaha, one goal in Europe equals 5 in the desert….

Make shame dey catch una small small. No sane players wey still have future go play in Saudi 😂😂, except players that are satisfied with their career so far…


LM8 is almost here officially, Penadogs I’m drinking una tears in advance

Which one be part-time football

I don't understand this kind of stupid and nonsense post.

Why get married if you cannot satisfy your partner sexually except in the case of health situation.

I see no reason why a healthy woman should not be available to have sex with her husband at any time he wants, same applies to guys also.

Only a useless man will his wife be setting sex timetable for.

I reject to be that kind of man.

post=126629860:

Gbamsolutely.

Naa wen I just reach Europe I dey dash oyinbo beggars money anyhow

But now make dem too goo work.

But sincerely oyinbo people self dey hussle for their country oo

This one Naa gbe gbe schorlship naa.

Where chevening, common wealth, daad and Erasmus Mundus dey

Every body dey hussle for this world. No matter the race or country.

Even for Europe plenty oyinbo dey homeless and they beg on the street.

uuzba:

But they will never believe.
All their laws, policies and so called freedom, is just to kill others.

They know they are terrorist Country. They are battling with internal terrorism in their country and thy create terrorism in other prosperous countries to take over their resources. Only their gullible supporters believe they are a god sent country. Infact no western country is God sent they are all bunch of selfish hypocrites.

USA is a terrorist country. Both inside and outside.

make British people be careful oo make Jidahist noo use terrorism k**l them finish ooo.

But why are extremist Moooselimes so intolerant?

They behave like bunch of crazy people.

Even the soo called moderate Moooselimes they can become very violent easily, depending on the level which they have been brain washed.

MOOselime pipu and terrorism are inseparable. all of them are potential terrorist depending on their level of extremism.

Including the potential ones that won't like this comment.

werey pipu

Mossslimes and terrorism are inseparable.

Black man don suffer oo

This life naa vanity

Vinnie2000:


Struggling Guys when they Finally Make it should TARGET
FRESH, CHASTE Girls between 21,22Years for Marriage! 🤨🙂

Dat's what HE Peter Obi did when he started making money @30,31Years!. ☺️☺️

It's FOOLISH for any Guy to use his HARD EARNED MONEY
to Marry a Girl who has been FUCCKED by BigMen, Ex-Boyfriends, Politicians and Yahoo Boys! 😒😕

Nairaland feminists aka evening news papers will come for your head ooo ;DBased on the table you dey shake.

fredoooooo:

Eja tutu , sokoyokoto

You too sabi Wise man, I bow for you ooo

ejaa Osan

Yeye guy, soo they should play for poverty instead of money

Werey pipu

Awesome01:


If love, dating and marriage is transactional like you said, why are females the only gender bent on monetary values?. Are they the only ones making the relationship work?

Or are you saying only guys gains from the relationship? So they should be ones to always pay with money for ladies attention ?

But guys and ladies gain one or two things from the relationship. You have to understand the dynamics of relationship. For a guy maybe safe sex, emotional support etc depending on the type of guy. For a lady money, protection etc depending on the type of lady involved.

Life itself is a business, nobody does anything in this life without been beneficial.

If you feel you are againing nothing from a relationship you better quit unless you are stupid enough to be used by others.

Kobojunkie:
Are you also willing to admit that this equally means that your marriages are also business transactions between a man and a woman?

Everything in life is transactional. Marriage is not an exception.

AllBlack:

you think it is any different with women from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Your wisdom, knowledge and understanding is of the same magnitude with biblical Solomon.