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but right now she's asking me if I would continue the relationship if she's giving admission. cos she applied in same school I'm studying. so what would be my reply to this kinda question and what does it suggest.
and again I tink long distance relationship is shitty in a way tho. so quite the relationship or continue or probably act nonchalant about it, which should I do or any better suggestion

DavidTheGeek:
Ever heard of the saying "out of sight, out of mind"?

Two months is more than enough time for her to meet new guys and forget she ever loved you.

Long distance relationships is a big NO. Unless: 1. Your communication skills is really good. Meaning you can bring all the fun, romance, dramas (including fights), etc to your calls and chats.
2. The separation is temporary. Meaning you guys are going to reunite sometime soon. The sooner the better.

Your case is a clear case of the problem associated with long distance relationships... the love fades.

DON'T ask her whether she's still serious with the relationship or not. We all know the answer, it's obvious from her behavior.

...AND DON'T EVEN DARE issue her a warning not to post "those shits on her WhatsApp status anymore". Who are you (to her) to do that?

Quit wasting your time, save yourself from embarrassment and further heart breaks by letting her be.

Read a new book, pick up a new activity, start a new business... find something that will improve your life to do.

but right now she's asking me if I would continue the relationship if she's giving admission. cos she applied in same school I'm studying. so what would be my reply to this kinda question and what does it suggest.
and again I tink long distance relationship is shitty in a way tho. so quite the relationship or continue or probably act nonchalant about it, which should I do or any better suggestion

hi admin
my girlfriend and I ve been dating for close to 3months now. we were together in the first one month. the love was okay then. but we are on long distance relationship now for the last two months. just recently, she has changed a bit. she no longer call like b4. I don't seem to feel the love any more. thou I sent her a love text recently telling her how I love and missed her. but she replied telling me she loves me too and even more. but right now she keeps uploading guys pics and saying all those kinda loves shit and attachment of love emojis on them. she has been doing this for the past 3weeks now. always posting guys pics. I don't know if she's trying to make me jealous or something. am saying these cos there are times she do complain I ignore her chats on WhatsApp( like taking time to reply her). but I don't tink that's wat is making her behave this way. cos right now I can conclude she's not investing much in the relationship as she use to.
am thinking of dropping her or I should probably call her and ask her if she's still serious with the rlstp or not whether she wants to roll with me or not.(if she says yes then I would warn her not to post those shits on her WhatsApp status anymore. if anyone should be doing that, then I should be the one, am the man. and I ve to decide and control what happens in the relationship) but my guys are telling me not to break. that I should just leave it at there and move on with my life


what can you say about this.
leave her hanging or break up with her or try to define the relationship again and know my stand. cos I don't wanna waste my time

So how can I get started