LocalFARMERS: In my place we have different methods of fishing. This is one of the methods we use to to fish. Yesterday I and some Boys went fishing and we came back good result.
DyshApp: A Nigerian man, Quadri Yakubu, has disclosed how he became a happier man and husband after he quit his banking job.
Taking to his Twitter page, the young man stated that the distance from his house and his workplace was very far which put some pressure on him at work.
He disclosed that he had marital issues when he used to work at the bank but he became more happier when he stopped his banking job.
He wrote,
“Immediately I left my banking Job, I noticed that I became happier and more loving to my wife and kid,” he wrote in a Facebook post.
Imagine living in Mararaba and working in Jabi, as if the pressure from Madam ND and Co is not enough, the Mararaba -AYA traffic will add to your troubles! The work pressure almost made me run mad.
Whenever I get home, the greeting from my wife seems like a disturbance, but all that changed the very day I dropped their ID card for them.
The kind of work you do has a way of affecting your mental health. I have suffered too much in this life, I deserve some enjoyment! It’s not easy anywhere, please don’t allow anyone to mess with your mental health.
GistMedia0: In a heartbreaking tale of shattered dreams, several young Nigerians who sold everything they owned to relocate to Canada are now left destitute, struggling to survive on the streets. With no money, no food, no shelter, and no family to turn to, these individuals face harsh realities far removed from the bright future they envisioned.
Many of them had high hopes of pursuing education and better opportunities in Canada. However, the financial pressures of living abroad, coupled with unforeseen circumstances, have left them stranded. Some claim their sponsors back home died, cutting off the funds needed to continue their education, forcing them to drop out of school. Others admit they underestimated the cost of living and the difficulty of securing stable jobs.
The streets of Canada have now become a grim reality for these Nigerians, who are wasting away their time and potential.
emperor4love: oga the only way to get cleanse is do away with those wealth mostly if strong juju de involve,and to clear u this are blood money and to say that woman pays such with clear eyes is big liar, there must be balance for every consequence for manipulating nature and God's plan, law of causation must take place, you reap what you sow,even David did same,God don't accept or involve one with such affair mostly I'll gotten, even when in white garment or most church delivers you from bandage,mostly blood money, first assignment to free from spirit both of guilt or some astral plane residing jinns,u must give back what belongs to him in that way u got nothing with him,some don't even got such opportunity, y u see death of such ppl or madness, u can't reap devil no matter how u try, that man has been here before u com and was born on earth, if Jesus was not wise he would have fall into temptation wen devil took him to the mountain, and I still put it to you,u see that 700k that woman pay, no be clear eyes, u can doubt if u hv not been there anyway,nd I don't want to argue u cos u might not been there so can say from mere say than having first hand experience or having one close to you,who have been into this shit of a tin naija guys the pull, this is just a tip, most niggaz de pull million dolls yet to be caught,not hacking,spamming, loading, wirecheck,ach,benefit,refund,heloc or coin base shit but billing through dating
This is quite true though.
I have known about this Yahoo Stuff since early 2000s during the time of Cyber Cafe but i never bothered to go deep into it because the road is too Dark.
Reason why i always say the "Last People" i will ever envy on earth are "Most" Nigerians with wealth and material things. I can never envy any Nigerian, Both Local and Diaspora.
It's not hatred, It's just reality because i know better.
Rexymania: Him own duh finish lol he will vomit all the money. Idiot. They are never satisfied... €700k and you never start up a business that will be fetching you that amount, at least in 2 years.
This is the exact problem with all these small boys, the adults and their matrons in nigerian government.
Bobodee09: This advise goes especially to married men and men in general.
Don't put yourself under unnecessary pressure or take up loans to maintain a certain lifestyle.
I just lost an area senior bros this morning, the news didn't come as shock cos he has been in the hospital for a while and his BP refused to come down.
He is man in his late 40's married with 4 kids. This man was under alot of pressure to meet end means, he took up too many loans just to maintain his living standards to please his family.
The last time I visited him in general I also checked my BP and it was very high, I was also under pressure myself to meet target. When I got home I promised myself I wont die young to please anyone. I will do my best and leave the rest cos at the end no one really care all they want to do is take from you as a man.
Married men enjoy yourself, take care of yourself, buy what you want. You can't be working everyday and be suffering to please your wife and kids.
The men who die young are the ones who always labour and don't take care of themselves, you see men who only provide what they have and take care of themselves they live longer.
We are in this mess together trust me....those people you think are doing better have alot of loans on their neck. So don't let anyone push you by comparing you to them.
If what you provide isnt enough or appreciated tell your wife to also provide or take her leave.
PopQueenAgency: Correct. Na who pressure epp? Ishil..ove old pass Se..un sef. Person wey write waec when dem dey call am west africa agency exam council. Dat wan na pikin?
Lol you are one funny person.
Sincerely, I wasn't even out to mock them or something like the way you portrayed them in your initial post. I believe it's not a sin and doesn't concern anyone how people wants to live their lives.
BTW, I thought when people start to get older and get to some certain Age, A lot of Things do change positively ranging from Atitude, Emotional Intelligence et all. But I just realized, Unfortunately not for everyone.
Chief, My Advice for you will be to please "Keep Off" these set of People entirely. I can't even remember the last time I "Cursed/Got Angry, Talking Manarlessly" with anyone both online/offline. I admit my mistake was bringing these people into the conversation.
My Life have been filled with Positivity and Greatness in recent times. These days, I always do everything to avoid Negative Energies.
Please take my Advice serious. Best of luck always. Ire Ooooo.
Zeebuy: When a coup will happen, it'll happen. Coups aren't carried out by the big ogas, it's actually the restive subordinates who execute coups. With the way things are going in Nigeria, it's only a matter of time.
Someone told me tinubu won't complete his first tenure, let's see how it goes.
Go check Nigerian History well.
No "PURE Civilian President" has ever completed his Tenure. Fingers are crossed at the moment.
Some gullibles might want to mention Obasanjo. Obj and Buhari aren't Civilian per se. They were Packaged Military Presidents.
pocohantas: You are older than the deceased, a man well into his 40s and somehow you believe we are both older than you?
I always knew the bile ÿou and your kind display is from a place of emptiness. Continue believing. Hopefully it gives you the needed succour to hang in there. 🤍
Lol Read Well
There was no where i said i was "Older Than The Deceased"
I literally mean i'm a Matured Man too.
BTW i'm in my 30's if that's what you want to know and I think i'm old enough to Wife you
Ashawoman82: Oga u are an adult so If u have a very healthy self esteem no one can pressure u even ur family members... Personally anyone that tries it in my family and it becomes much and I'll temporarily block the person both for calls and WhatsApp, that's my mentality... Even my own parent knows.. As a man u need to be very decisive, if babe try pressure u, dump her and move on, ur sanity is more important than any relationship wether blood or romantic.
PopQueenAgency: Chei! Na im make we dey tell pipol like Ishilove wey neva marry since 19 gbogboro make dem mind as dem dey waka for nairaland. Person go curse am na, call am opo, agan, she go come enter thread for Agriculture go dey find who go sellam ddt. Tufiakwa!
Hehehe
She and Poco came to my mind as i saw this Thread. I believe both of them would be older than me.
The Pressure no be here but i dey on my Second Ph.D now in Wereey Studies so i go fit Face these Weereey Nigerians😂
I will do my things on my terms and at the right time that suits me.
Truvelisback: He could have stayed away from his family pressuring him. The life self no balance. Those who are married with children around him behaving like a god before him could be the reason for his death. When an average low iq Nigerian is married with children, he/she tends to feel like they have made it in life and use that to oppress and intimidate those who aren't married with children. They would begin to show off and make you feel like you are worthless before them. This is where the competition comes. This attitude is more common in women than in men.
Only "Weak Minded People" which i'm aware most Nigerians falls into, Can be intimidated with Societal Norms. Most Nigerians likes to do what their peers are doing.
It's not easy but one has to be Confirm Corporate Weereey and grow Very Thick Skin if you want to triumph over most Nigerians because most of them na Weereeys
Zico5: What is he doing when his mates are marrying? Everything is not about money. You get to a stage in life that u do what's necessary irrespective of ur situation. If you want to wait till when u get money before getting married, u will wait tire cos money may not come on time. Get a girl, impregnate her and start ur life. I have never seen anyone dying of hunger unless you are a lazy brat.
Lalami3232: Imagine what he will tell God when he gets to heaven. Angel: what took your life? Man: my family was pressuring me to get married to a non-virgin aka borehole. Angel: **spits**
Dear fellow nairalanders, don't let anyone pressure you atall. There's always a time/season for everything to manifest, it will surely come to pass when the time is right. No be me promise to give una an app wey go help in DNA test since last year? I'm getting really frustrated because I never fit accomplish my promise but I'm still holding on, someday E go show. So my people, no accept pressure from people wey no know how things dey go for your side. What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news.
Oga before my DNA app come out, oga try to go for DNA test for hospital to check if that pikin wey dey call you daddy should continue or he should start calling you uncle
In as much as i'm older too and i wouldn't want to make mockery of the dead. But somehow he efffed up.
My people are on my Neck too but na Whining we dey end up dey Whine ourselves last last as Machiavellian wey i be. There is no need to be defensive, aggressive or angry. They are all Learners to me😂
I'm not someone anyone can Influence or Shame on Trivial Issues such as Marriage
Me wey i don see Orishirishi Shege with better Aroma for this Life and i no die nor kill myself plus i don read Books tire and i have access to classified informations about life