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Rusty, Count me as one of your friends but no strings attached o.

Trust u gal, way to go! I just knew it! You voted for our man!

Hi Gal, this  is reallllllllllllllllllllllllly scaryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!  Not funny at all!  How did u do it?

May your wish be granted, Amen

Hmmm,

We are yet to get the real picture, I mean the larger picture.  This is a third party report.  It is a reported event or chain of events.

I'd love to comment if I am reading from the man involved.

There is more to this story than meets the eye.

Na so u hate women?

We are more beautiful than your acroynm and certainly more interesting!

For pete's sake! i want the thread to generate both negative and positive reactions but in line with the rules of the game, FAIRNESS!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

This is getting really innteresting. I never thought people can get really pissed off by others trying to live their life the way they want it. I repeat again, it is a free world. What else can I say! If at 40 u choose to live ur life in a different way, no probs! But, pls, let us all be civil in our language.

I am having a swell time here, at least, with people who share my sentiment.

I will not be swayed. I refused to be intimidated. This is what I am saying about maturity. It is a free world and I am sure, Seun too will readily agree with me. Nairaland, I know, is not for a particular set of age. If I observed that the majority of users are below the age 40 it does not translate to a restriction to that age bracket. I guess the likes of 1one should live and let others live too.

We are here to stay, my dear. Have a good time enjoying yourself on this thread.

Jennykadri, u have spoken my mind and shared my sentiment about marriage.  I too have a wonderful marriage but no matter how sweet and good any marriage is there are still times you wished you were saved the encumbrances of marriage.  Such times when you want to be yourself but 'because you remember, you are married, you have to do otherwise in deference to your spouse. 

I come back home sometimes after a tiring day, I can't go straight to bed, my marital obligation reminds me that I am a wife, therefore, I need to cook and certainly do some domestic chores even with the engagement of a househelp!

My novels are another aspect of my life that I had, to a large extent, forgo in order to take care of my home.

Mind u, I am not saying that my spouse is insensitive to my needs or does not help but it cannot be all the time.

When I was single, I could do away with night cooking or other chores, take my bath and simply hit the bed with my novel!

Now! that is luxury to me.

Goldcircle, how was the weekend now?  Hope u enjoyed yourself thoroughly?  Waiting for your interesting gist o.

This is wishing all nairalanders a wonderful week ahead.

Bomi, please dont be tired. It is solely for this reason that I decided to start this thread. It will cater for our needs so long as we also make it interesting. Like u rightly observed, most of the threads do not address issues strictly concerning our age bracket.

I am so much encouraged by people like u and some others who have shown interest in the thread. Before long, more people will notice the thread.

I am looking forward to you all sharing those precious moments with me and all here. Those special moments that come in a flash and are never forgotten! Those stolen kisses when you think nobody is watching. Those blushes, pink nose, hot flushes etc.

It is a no hold bar thread for those young at heart.

E ma ka lo!

Seun, let me join others to plea for the return of 'your Post' o. Pleasssssssssssssssssssse.

Hi Goldcircle, thanks for your contribution.  I quite appreciate your concern and probably doubt.  It takes a really bold step, like you indicated, to put up such a feeling.  I can assure you I am who I claim I am.  I am proudly 40+ and make bold to say so.  When the time comes, you will sure see my pics.

Meanwhile, you are welcome to the thread. Let us make it as lively as possible.

It is ours!

I have taken my time to go through most of the posts and topics on Nairaland and have come to the conclusion that the Forum may either be for age 30 and below or the matured members are hiding under ages that are unreal. I mean, let us face it, there are times u need to discuss maturedly without the uninformed minds of the young ones making light of issues.

As it is on Facebook, you meet people with like minds and maturity and you get to discuss at that level, going away more informed and enriched.

Therefore, it is for this sole reason that I beg my fellow members to step out and step up, be bold and bear their age. There is nothing to be ashamed of aging gracefully. We also have needs and aspirations which realistically do not correlate with that of the young ones.

This Forum should be a place where we can come and lighten and brighten up our day.

We need to unwind, one way or the other, and there can be no better forum than nairaland.

Contributions and criticisms are welcome.