Yet he is married to an African-american gorilla.

** only if she indeed posted that if not still irresponsible of her for posting nude**

Hmmm, as a lady it can be for so many reasons;

(1) You don't have to look like Dwayne Johnson before you are attracted to ladies, its just sometimes being slender & looking sweet could be

(2) For those that believe in the word beauty lies in the eyes of a beholder, that's another one.

(3) Lastly, maybe you have something some people call voodoo or something that you knowingly or unknowingly have on you.

My advice is to be very careful too because we ladies are always looked at whether fine or too fine, so if its happening to you, no prob. I believe same goes to men too.

My advise to people beginning a relationship is to first "let the cat out of the bag" like the 2 exes failed to do and unfortunately, couldn't deal with their differences. Instead of putting it in writing why not talk about it on phone and if no one wants to talk about it, its better to calm down and move on.

Its unfortunate how people are quick to use the social media to broadcast one's (secret) message, that's absolutely rude!

Be careful of what you do out there because it could be your turn.

Perhaps the man whose break-up text is now going viral should have stuck with “it’s not you; it’s me.”

Instead, the unnamed, disgruntled guy texted his now ex a list of six reasons he was dumping her, after dating for less than two months. This list was posted on Twitter by the dumpee’s friend, Amy Nelmes, from Sydney, Australia.

“My friend just sent me this break-up message she received after 7 weeks of dating. My fav reason for split is #3,” she tweeted.

That would be, “You are rude to my cat and that makes me feel uncomfortable.”

As of this afternoon, her tweet has been retweeted over 15,000 times.

The number one reason on the list is, “You refuse to update your relationship status on Facebook.”

Number six, however, is the most narrow-minded: “You won’t disclose how many sexual partners you have had which makes me think it is upwards of 3 and anything more than that is unacceptable.”

Both of the no-longer-lovers are unknown, but the women spoke to an Australian news website, ninemsn, about her ex. “He was 30, had a job, a car and a house. Certainly not what I normally manage to attract, so I thought I was onto something,” she said. ”He was a bit of a nerd, perhaps a bit quiet, but a genuinely nice guy all the same.”

She explained to the website that’s allergic to cats, hence her “rudeness” to the guy’s. She also says she didn’t write back—and that she’ll never date another man with a cat.

https://www.yahoo.com/style/guys-6-reasons-for-breaking-up-with-his-girlfriend-102902248168.html

Written by Adriana Velez on CafeMom’s blog, The Stir.

Once you've been cheated on, it's hard to learn to trust someone again. If you're brave enough to give love another chance after a breakup or divorce because of infidelity, how do you put your heart in someone else's hands? How much should your past experience color your new relationship? How can you let go and feel safe again with the memory of betrayal fresh in your heart and mind?

I talked with family counselor Dr. Laurie Moore for advice on navigating a new relationship after infidelity. There are some surprisingly simple ideas that can help you work through all your complicated feelings. Moore offered six tips for how to love again after cheating.

1. Learn from your past experience. It's never your fault if someone cheats on you. But you can use that experience to be more cautious in the future. Maybe we've been too open and trusting and we need to get wiser. Now maybe you'll see things and say, "Oh, I know what that is, and I can stop it now." Dr. Moore says people who heal from infidelity will say to themselves, "What can I learn from this so I'm not carrying it around as something that hurts me forever?"

2. If you have feelings of suspicion or distrust, find out their source. Do you really have a reason to doubt your new partner's fidelity, or are you just dragging baggage from your past into your new relationship?

3. Make sure you fully get over your previous relationship. Dr. Moore says if your cheating hunch comes from "deep in your body" and "has the same flavor as that from your previous relationship," it's most likely residual emotions from your past -- not some sort of intuition that he's cheating. (OMG, light-bulb moment!) If that's the case, get some counseling or other help. And be honest with your new partner about the healing you're still doing.

4. Ask questions. On the other hand, if your qualms feel fresh and seem to come from a legitimate place, they might be related to your new relationship, Dr. Moore says. In that case, you should follow up and ask your partner some questions. Notice if you have a tendency to fill in the blanks for your partner. Find out if you're in a relationship with someone you can really trust or if you've picked another person you can't trust.

5. Look at yourself and make sure you're being truly trustworthy. Preemptive cheating is never a good idea! "People who aren't completely trustworthy tend to attract others who will synchronize with that energy," Dr. Moore says.

6. Think about how your childhood could be influencing things. Dr. Moore says that if you find you keep falling for guys who cheat on you, it could be because of how you were "wired" growing up. "Sometimes people pick up on things from their family environment that feel familiar. They have a magnetism to that familiarity." It seems counter-intuitive. No one goes looking for a relationship that will hurt them. But sometimes we're drawn to certain feelings even if they hurt just because they feel like something we belong to. But you don't belong to hurt.

If you're starting over with someone new, they deserve a clean slate. And you owe it to yourself to use your past experience to be more observant and wiser this time. It's a balance. But the key to making it all work (or not work, if he's a bad apple) is making sure you've healed from your past hurts. After all, if you're with someone who's true, you both deserve the best of you.

Do you feel like you keep getting stuck with cheaters, or have you found happiness after a marriage ruined by infidelity?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/30/cheating-recovery_n_5545590.html