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Family / Re: Should I Give My Husband Another Chance After All These? by Loveprotocol: 2:16pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
Becqueen:Op, listen to this advice. This person is talking from experience. A first hand one at that. You can forgive your husband and let him have access to his kids through calls and al but NEVER you consider taking him back as a husband. An old dog can't learn new tricks except he becomes a genuine born again christian. He can be a father to your children without being your husband. Don't forget the love you had for him is no more. So move on, if you find a man that can love you and be good husband and father to your kids, so be it. If not, count your blessings one by one and accept your losses. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 12:51am On Nov 04, 2016 |
confun: You're funny bro. Thanks for your advice 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 3:39pm On Nov 02, 2016 |
haggai247: There's nothing wrong in seeking others opinions or what do you think? I have handed everything over to God anyway, I know He is a God that does everything perfect in His own time. Thanks all the same 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 10:07am On Nov 02, 2016 |
jabojafa:Thanks bro, that's what I'm doing now. I've stopped chasing, calling and texting. I have handed everything over to God cos I hold on to the promise of God and His word which says the heart of the King is in the hands of God and he turneth and twisteth it as He pleases. So if she is the one, she will not rest until she comes around and accept me as her man even if I am not what she envisaged her husband to be. Trust me, no woman can marry me and regret it, even though I am not perfect |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:52am On Nov 02, 2016 |
yetseyi:God bless you my sister, I appreciate you. I have actually surprisingly showed up at her church one Sunday morning and I make bold to say that was one of the turning point in our 'relationship' so far. She was surprised to see me and because she was the Head of the Hospitality unit, she was the one that attended to first timers. She just smiled and asked me who invited me in a sarcastic manner and I said she's the one. That was the day I broke the ice cos she became more free with me, tried to give me her IV to enter a state function later in the evening when we met there (cos my IV was with someone coming late) and she surrendered her BlackBerry PIN to me that evening. As for dates, she is begging me to be patient with her on that. Maybe she's scared of what might happen when people must have seen us a couple of times on a date and then we are no longer an item. Just my thought. I am no longer rushing her, in fact I've stopped calling and texting, she is the one doing that now even if it's not everyday. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:40am On Nov 02, 2016 |
kayzat: She's not in any relationship. She told me that categorically and I found out about that too myself. She has called me twice after I told her I am sick and she was mad at me I didn't tell her much earlier as she would have called me often, she asked what's the cause of the sickness, what I've used and who's taking care of me. Unfortunately I can't ignore my gifts, which are seeing visions, dreams and their interpretations and hearing of God's voice. It is because of my spiritual assignment on earth that I can't afford to marry anyhow lady out of flesh and sentiments. Who I marry is very crucial to whether I fulfil my God given purpose in life. Hence my going all spiritual about this. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:33am On Nov 02, 2016 |
Amelian: Can't you see you're devoid of meaningful and wise contributions to the issue at hand? Must you comment and thereby display your lack of morals and intelligence? Instead of you to learn as a child that you are, you're busy calling people names. What a pity! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 9:30am On Nov 02, 2016 |
truthsayer007: You're the mumu one here. Since you can't comprehend issues and respond to same with decorum and wisdom. I pity your ignorance 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 6:38pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Terryindeed:Thanks bro I appreciate you. She has called me this evening again o. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 6:34pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
elektra:Well I get your point but I am not being deceitful here with her, I also don't call her more than twice at once and I send her messages once or twice a day. I'm a very busy person while she is also a very busy person too, that's why going out together on a date or doing some humanitarian or charity work may be difficult to schedule for now till she is fully into me, I pray. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 6:30pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
CoCoLav:I am not playing mind games with her actually, I just wanted to know if she has been pretending since that's why I create the scarcity once in a while and when I do, she reaches out to me. I have asked her to make up her mind so that I can either include her in my long term plans or shut her out. She also made it very clear that she is not into any relationship with anybody and I've never seen her receive any call from a man whenever I'm around her. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 6:20pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Thanks everyone for your frank and honest opinions and advices, I really appreciate you all. Now, here's a new development, she just called me now again, saying she didn't hear me on air today (cos I anchor one of the most popular political and current affairs breakfast programme on radio in a station in the South West). I reminded her I was not feeling fine and she said she never knew or heard the other time she called which was last week, that I was sick. So she sounded concerned and was asking me the nature of my sickness and all. She promised to call regularly to check on me. Now what do you all think? |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 6:13pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Terryindeed:Thanks man. I guess that's what I did the last time I visited her. I told her in clear terms that she needs to make up her mind cos I don't have the luxury of time. She just said "Okay I've heard, we will continue from here tomorrow", I said "so that's all you had to say" and she said Yes, so I bid her goodbye, handed over the gifts I brought for her and she came down from my car and I drove off. That was the last time I spoke to her, I only sent a text to her the following day and it was a deep and lengthy one. Truth be told, i'm not lusting over her, I have always known that when I meet my wife I would know but if she proves too difficult I would consider there ladies and pray about them as there are many other ladies waiting in the wings. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 2:32pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
mastermaestro:Thanks so much, I appreciate this. I will never force anyone to marry me, besides with all sense of modesty, i'm someone that is chased by ladies not only cos of my good looks and dress sense, but my intelligence. She is the 2nd woman in my entire life that I've ever tried to toast. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:58pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
keepingmum:Why does she call me when I don't call her for a while? Why does she respect me and behave like a wife whenever I'm around her? Why does she keep asking about me and trying to know about my past? Why did she say "there's something about me I want you to know, I always take my time before making a decision, I like to consider all the pros and the cons before I choose so that whenever anything goes wrong, I'd accept responsibility"? Why is she asking her colleagues around to dig up my past which is rough but I never hid anything from her? Can you help provide answers to these questions? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:34pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
seizethaBae:Have you ever been heartbroken by a man that professed love, promised heaven and earth to you and then you trust him with your life and money, only for him to ditch you at the last minute when wedding plans were in slow gear? How fast will you heal? Will the next man that comes calling not suffer in your hands? |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:32pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
kinibigdeal:I can never have sex before marriage again. Trust me, I've had enough sex to last me till age 60. That's even if I have sex 3 times a week. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:29pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
njiasi30:Unfortunately this lady is not one who likes chatting or talking on the phone. I've seen her ignore calls even from her parents and she may not call back just because she doesn't feel like it at that moment. As for asking her about her life and past, she just said she would tell me later. She makes it look like she's interviewing me and carrying out a research about me to evaluate her options. Her colleague once told me she likes me but she's just scared though 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:24pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Bmanchi:Yes I agree I shouldn't have started with marriage issue. But I stopped talking about it afterwards until I wanted to draw a commitment from her before giving her the silent treatment ongoing. Would it be wise to go ahead with the silent treatment? |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:21pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
keepingmum:Hold it there please, no insults based on wrong assumptions. Maybe you're a novice when it comes to matters of the Prophets. I am not talking about false prophets or white garment ones. Maybe you don't know that there's always a spiritual father to every Prophet/Pastor? Even the likes of Baba Adeboye and Oyedepo submit to a higher anointing and pay tithe to another ministry. Who told you I am hungry? Who told you she is better than me financially? As young as I am, I've used not less than 8 cars, all gotten from legitimate sources. At some point I was into farming business before I closed my farm to pursue a career in Broadcast Journalism where I've met and interviewed the who is who in this country. In fact I feel she is scared of my popularity and public exposure at first. I can't just reveal my real identity because of trying to prove a point to you. All the same, thanks for dropping in but never jump into conclusions next time 1 Like |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 1:12pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
mastermaestro: Well I am not contemplating marriage because others are telling me to, I know I am ripe for it. As for my emotions spilling over to my dream life, I disagree, cos one of the greatest gifts I have is seeing visions, dreams and their interpretation. But I agree I have shown too much affection. I am hanging on because I am in love with her and can't stop thinking about her, it's weird when you just can't describe how you feel about someone when you barely even know them but it's as if you've known them all your life. |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 12:30pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Raina80: Thanks for this, I appreciate you. Exactly my thoughts. I don't want to come across as desperate or obsessed man. I guess the attention at first got into her head and she felt "well, he is convinced I'm the one, so let me just enjoy the chase since he has nowhere else to go". Unfortunately, I'm deeply in love with her. I've not contacted her sine October 18 now but even that is tough for me even though I must confess, i'm also tired of the care free attitude she's putting up. Maybe I said too much ab initio 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 12:22pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Amelian: Well, If you're saying I should relax then you're simply saying while I concentrate on other things, I should still wait for her to come around instead of looking or praying for another lady to marry? |
Family / Re: Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 12:07pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
@kinibigdeal, Yes I am sure. More than 6 Prophets have also prayed about her as I didn't just want to rely on what I heard or saw or even feel alone. In fact, our meeting was prophesied and I was warned about how tough she would be because of her past experiences with men. She even told me she doesn't trust anyone. Recently when I fast and prayed about her again, I saw her in my dreams for the first time asking me why I have stopped calling her and that she is ready and we should go see her parents. In the dream she came with her best friend and the friend was begging me not to break her heart cos that's the fear they've been nursing. I woke up and prayed again but as it is, it's a bit tiring waiting for 5 months. |
Family / Urgent Advice Needed: Should I Wait For Her? by Loveprotocol: 11:44am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Please I need urgent, but wise and matured advice from men and women whether married or not. I am a 31 year old, handsome, intelligent, hardworking highly connected and popular man, due to my profession. I am also a good Christian who has a strong personal relationship with God, in fact a Prophet of God in the making. I am due for marriage, not only am I convinced it's time for that but even people have been disturbing me it's time to get off the bachelors list and settle down to raise a God fearing and happy family. So after praying seriously about this next major step, God answered my prayers and I met a beautiful 28 year old hard working lady in the line of duty. I got her contacts (she was reluctant to give me at first but I was very persuasive, I learnt from her colleagues that she never gives her digits to men), text and call her every single day. At first She never replied my texts and she rarely picks my calls until much later after we met. I met her early May and I told her about my genuine intentions on her birthday, which was 2 weeks after we met, I gave her a modest birthday gift too. She listened to all I had to say, smiling and laughing when I said I want her to be my wife and I was led by God to her. It took more than 2 months for her to have a long conversation with me on phone as she always turns down any eat outs or dates. I understand the nature of her job though but she is an extremely private and cautious lady. I had a major breakthrough in knowing her house in September (I had to tail her official car dropping her off at a junction close to her street so I parked beside her to pick her up and she took some convincing before agreeing). Since then I've been to her house just 3 times and each time I go with fruits and gifts. She offers me water or drinks and then we basically just talk about me cos she never shares anything about herself, all she does is to ask me about my age, religious background, past, plans and all that. The last time I went there she didn't want me to come but I went anyway, she was not at home but I sent a text that I'm waiting for her, she came later that night and I took time to explain once again my intentions and plans for marriage and raising a family. She listened attentively and said she has heard all I have said then told me not to buy her gifts every time I come but instead once in a while. So I sent her a very deep text on October 18 about how much I love her and would want to have her as my wife and since then I stopped calling or texts or pinging. A week after she called me to say its been a while she heard from me and I told her I'm not feeling fine, she just said "okay we will talk later then" and she cut the call. Now to the crux, i'm convinced this woman is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with but I don't even know much about her, I love her so much, but my female friends who are now married and a Pastor told me to leave her and stop communicating with her for a while, which I have started already, their argument is that, if she wants me and has been pretending since, she will come around and show me she is ready too. Mind you this is not the first time I would stop communicating with her for like 2 or 3 weeks, I've done this thrice, and whenever I do so, she will call at least once. Should I wait for her to come around? It's been 5 months of chasing her. Should I continue to keep my distance while praying for both of us? Please I need urgent but matured advice. |
Autos / Re: Clean Reg 2003 Toyota V4 Solara, Buy N Drive #725k In Ibadan by Loveprotocol: 10:50pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
I'm a serious buyer. But I'm in Abk, i called you twice but you didn't pick up. Call back when you it or this message |
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