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Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 8:22pm On Sep 19, 2016

[quote author=Mindfulness post=49504304]You call this man and kids baggage, to her it may turn out to be a blessing.

Lol! You seem to be the only person with a different view in this matter. I really like to understand how they can be a blessing. Lol

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 7:25pm On Sep 19, 2016

You mean she's old enough? At 29?

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 7:24pm On Sep 19, 2016

[quote author=Mindfulness post=49502786]She is 29 for God's sake! Let her move in for four weeks and figure out if she can handle it.
If it makes her happy, you should be happy too; for her and the kids who will have a new, hopefully warm-hearted, gentle and understanding, stepmother.

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 7:21pm On Sep 19, 2016

I mean moving in with the widower. (even tho I know it's not doable)

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 7:10pm On Sep 19, 2016

[quote author=EfemenaXY post=49502373]Supposing I agree with u, tell m, what purpose will that serve?

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 7:08pm On Sep 19, 2016

She's only 29. We haven't brought in our father yet because he has not stated clearly what his intentions are only giving hints. This sister of mine has always been attracted to mature men. She even confided in me that she even as a young gal of 29 she can't marry a guy of 35. This i think is very weird. But then am being very careful not tell her that in order not to seem judgemental. I decided to sample people's opinion bf discussing this thoroughly with her. I need to sound convincing and logical enough.thanks.

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 6:54pm On Sep 19, 2016

Why such a drastic measure and what purpose will that serve @ mindfulness.

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 6:52pm On Sep 19, 2016

Mindfulness:
Put her on birth control and let her move in with him for four weeks.

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 6:01pm On Sep 19, 2016

jagugu88li:
Your sister is has been in a relationship with him for three months and "claims" to be noticing marriage passes. Have you considered the fact that it might be your sister who wants to marry. I mean young girls have this crazy belief that dating a old guy qualities them to be matured and we all know majority of ladies think about marriage when dating. If this is the case with you sister, convincing her not to marry will get her married soon.

On the other hand there are cultures or let me say man that feel complete only when there is a wife by their side, maybe this man is one of them. Even if she marries him life wont be as bliss as it might be now. 3months, 5kids and old man should tell her that the arrangement is sick. This is equivalent to being denied happiness and your sister, by agreeing to it will be deliberately doing it to herself.

If you have to lie to protect her, go ahead. Create a stupid scenario, summarizing all these comments

Thanks jagugu88li for this. I knew I could count on u.

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Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 5:59pm On Sep 19, 2016

[quote author=Dyt post=49495835]A wack attempt at being sarcastic.u are highly ignored but make sure to not quote me again if you have nothing reasonable contribute.

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 5:55pm On Sep 19, 2016

Lol! Am fine

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 1:42pm On Sep 19, 2016

Nice! Pls jagugu88li visit a recent thread I created and give ur input. Thanks

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Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 11:22am On Sep 19, 2016

Thanks everyone that Has replied. Pls keep the replies coming. Wanna know what the problems might be going forward. She has also requested that the topic be put on front page to get more response. Mods pls do the needful. Don't want my sis making a mistake she might regret for a long time. Thanks! More replies.

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 11:12am On Sep 19, 2016

I would like to understand what difference it makes 2 or five kids. Also if it matters that they all boys.

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2016

Wow! Sir vintage. Even in marriage?

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 10:56am On Sep 19, 2016

Wow! Sir vintage. Even in marriage. Do u mean to say if there were helpers in the house, it would be okay?

Family › Re: Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 10:39am On Sep 19, 2016

Thanks Amyluv, for your quick response. And honestly this is one of the fears I explained to her. But she said she hung out with the kids twice and that they were sweet and on the shy side. Always smiling. Apart from the newly born. The rest are a bit Grown.

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 9:57am On Sep 19, 2016

[quote author=philybuck. Comment your reserve tongue

Family › Pls Advice A Her! by loveslife(op): 9:52am On Sep 19, 2016

Ok so, my sister met this guy who lost his wife two years Ago. She died giving birth to their fifth child. So he has five children already. After three months of meeting each other, she says he is hinting marriage already. But am kinda scared for her. She is so young and without any experience. I decided to start this thread here cos I was sure to get matured insights. I really would like to know all the odds in this kinda arrangements. I mean marrying a widower with five children. I want to be able to sound convincing enough to her when talking to her about it. Don't want to bore you lots with a long write up. You can ask further questions to better appreciate the issue.

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 9:02am On Sep 19, 2016

Lol! It's you I don't mind accommodating (no homo )you seem like an interesting character to me.so I don't mind meeting u someday. cool

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 4:22pm On Sep 18, 2016

[quote author=Lovelynature. sheer oversight it was.

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 3:43pm On Sep 18, 2016

Really interesting, keep the updates coming.

but you sef like quarrel sha! From one cultist's babe to another. undecided

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 3:25pm On Sep 18, 2016

So the op has updated and Noone mentioned me. Ko da oh! cry

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 3:20pm On Sep 18, 2016

Am fine and thanks for the complement.

Romance › Re: Should I Hold On Or Let Go? Help!!!! by loveslife(f): 7:48am On Sep 17, 2016

positivec:
OP, If I may ask, do you love her? If you do,you will forgive her. Situations bring the worst in people and sometimes people take advantage of vulnerable people.
If you say, she has a good character and she stayed with your ailing Father. Don't you think that she loves you , to have made such a huge sacrifice in this era.
If I may ask, what is her gain . Do you pay her?.
Fight the devil that has entered this wonderful relationship and not the girl.
GET HER AN ACCOMMODATION TOO

don't know who or what you are, but God bless the good head on your shoulder. U said it all.

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Romance › Re: How You Could Make Up To #5000naira Daily With A Small Start Up Capital Of #1000 by loveslife(f): 7:14am On Sep 17, 2016

Missymary.mm@gmail.com. Send it to me.

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Romance › Re: Ladies Have You Ever Been Turned Down By A Guy ? Share Your Experience by loveslife(f): 6:48am On Sep 17, 2016

I did once. During my days as an undergraduate. I don't regret it one bit. He was a crush and sleeping with him was the only way I could get him off my mind. So...

Romance › Re: Searching For A Toy Boy Or Sugar Boy?... Well Search No More by loveslife(f): 6:38am On Sep 17, 2016

Such bravado! Ngwa ndi sugar mom's, enjoy! cry

Romance › Re: Married Woman In Trouble After Guy She Had Sex With Posts Her Nude Online (pics) by loveslife(f): 6:17am On Sep 17, 2016

Single and wanting some fun? I wonder Wha
The fun is about spreading your legs for a total stranger. undecided

People should just be careful who they literally fvk with. See the guy face sef lipsrsealed

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 9:53pm On Sep 15, 2016

[quote author=jagugu88li post=49346062]Thebachelor, run for your life seriously bro. I'll kill you when I see you.

..."and then it happened" WHAT HAPPENED?

You annoy the hell out of me, chai grin

I give up!
Lol. I tire sef.

Romance › Re: When I Think Of Quitting Alcohol by loveslife(f): 8:48am On Sep 14, 2016

[quote author=Romancer post=49328051]what does ur friend smoke then huh

Those eyes though! Does it matter smoking generally is bad. And what's wrong with those eyes?

Romance › Re: He Married My Girl When I Was Broke. And He Got Served. by loveslife(f): 7:19pm On Sep 13, 2016

[quote author=Thebachelor post=49324438]After the call,he turned and looked at his comrades,''na my Caro be that o. Na my Caro this bastard save as 'him heart'. My Caro dey call am 'baby'''.

He turned and said to me,''wetin l go do you now?''
l was sure this was rhetorical.

''Make l just delete this bastard,Ruff'',replied the guy in charge of harassing me.

''Come,wey you'',one of the guys that had been quiet called my attention,''if you wan graduate in peace enh,make we no catch you with that punteh again. You hear me so?'',he asked me.

''That's not possible'',l replied.

That reply was a tactical error.
I didn't know when l bloated those words out.
I had let my emotion took control of me.
I was still hung-over from the fact that Raw picked my call,spoke to my girl rudely and repeatedly bounced her calls afterwards.

I was angry about how those actions would make my girl feel that l didn't think about my reply.
But l didn't care now. I was at the point where l cared less what they could do to me. My cool was lost.

The reply shocked the gathering. Even the lone girl among us choked on her smoke.

''You say wetin?'',Ruff screamed.

''I said,it's not possible'',l repeated myself with more conviction this time. Chewing my jaw and expecting their worst.

And then it happened.
Ehen?

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