₦airaland Forum

@Secretz and Moonshine,
I like your strategy, you are trying to turn the table around, but I understand, its hard to be objective in these things. But frankly, I didn't start this thread to point fingers or anything, I'm just "reporting" my observations. I have been with enough Naija women and I remember there was a time I was looking for Calabar women because people said they are "Naija's best " and truly speaking, Calabar girls try, dey sabi the thing, even other Naija girls no bad like that but when it comes to sex that will make you forget about your sorrows , please give it to the Americans. I don't know whether they teach them in high school or something
The way things are going, I'll marry a Naija babe but if I accidentally meet an American girl with the right cup size AND good culinary skills, END OF DISCUSSION

Lax75:
@ loyeruope

Well, latinas are very passionate thats for sure. They either are crazy about you, or will kill you.

Akatas vs Naija - Well I know say our naija sisters dey shakara alot, but you know, shakara better pass crazy (akata).

Oyinbos can never be trusted, watch your back cos they will sleep with everyone around you with no conscience at all.

Can't say anything about the asian chicks, never really been attracted to them.

But in terms of sexiness, the essence of a woman (that nice thick lower body), cooking REAL food, understanding your sense of humor, understanding your culture and mentality, stamina, being educated, looking hot whether in western clothing or in gele, aso oke or whatever

, its my naija sisters all the way. I make no apologies for feeling this way.

I feel you my brother! You are 100% right about the Latinos,
@acidrop
I'm from the deepest and crudest village in Nigeria, does that answer satisfy you

@190,
are you kidding by saying American babes are good in everything? I give them A+ in sex and another A+ in making you feel relaxed and comfortable (i still don't know why people think they need to "form" to impress Americans), but cooking? washing??
The best an American girl has done for me na spaghetti! Spaghetti wey I fit cook since I was 9!
@Lax75,
I have only done 2 latinos so I wouldn't talk about them yet (in statistics, we call that insufficient data ); akatas are good in terms of breast and beauty and some can cook but they also like playing hard to get like Naija babes asians are flat-chested and the ones i have been with are horrible kissers (esp with the garlic and chinese herbs in their breath) but if you want a girl that wont get tired after 8hrs, pls go for an asian, i don't know where they get their energy from I call Americans (and their european counterparts) oyinbo and i have talked about them before.
@Platinumnk,
what's your definition of being twisted?
@Posakosa,
can i know some of the variables and factors?

@all,
I am by no means an expert, again I am just another guy reporting my experiences

This article sounds like a typical Naija one, and I don't really know what's up with Naija babes and this hard-to-get thing. Here, you walk up to a lady, she already knows what she wants, she says yes or no and that's it! God bless America!

It's unfortunate that our ladies don't want Indian men and here I am snagging an Indian girl

Iice, if u r in America, whether it is east coast or west coast or gulf coast, I'll come for you!
If not let's start working on your visa now!

MRbrownJAY:
going on a date shouldnt be the reason for you to shag a man, but being attracted to him and HIM being the right guy for the task.
set yourself a standard list of what you are looking for in a guy/tomboy/FWB, let the guy applying know what your needs and desires are and fire away. also, make sure that what HE IS looking for in a FWB is not out of your league or what you are willing to go through.
the relationship coming out of it will be one where all your NEEDS and his are met without the dating wahala.
ps a man that takes you on a date, bleeps you and then call you a hoe is a hoe himself so why should you care? if you are happy then who cares what a person thinks about you? (as long as they dont put the food on your table and provides your check at the end of the month)

Good response! Totally agree!!

Hello, guys,
This thread is for those that have "tasted" both sides of the coin or those who want to!
As someone who has experienced (or should I say experiencing) both worlds, i can tell you there are appreciable differences between these two creations.
Here are some of them, I will update this list as I remember more or if any question arises
1. American babes do not have as much breasts as their Naija counterpart, this is a minus.
2. American babes knows how to enjoy sex. They will tell you exactly how they are feeling each step of the way and won't be shy about it. They say things like "Yeah, good, keep doing that, I will soon come! etc" This is a BIG plus.
3. American babes won't ask for your last name or your family history before giving you a good time, that's a good thing.
4. Naija babes are, on average, prettier than Americans.
5. Americans won't call you if you don't call them. They don't disturb and have a high respect for your privacy. They ALWAYS ask before opening my fridge or using my laptop. I particularly love this last point.

DISCLAIMER
Note that I am not saying EVERY, ALL, etc. I am just saying that on the average, based on my own experience (and trust me, I have that ), this is what I have discovered. I am also not complaining at all, I'm just observing and sharing with my fellow nairalanders what my hands have touched and my eyes have seen so far

I think Nokia has dominated Nigeria's market.
I am using an iPhone (by Apple)

I always advise my fellow men, when you have to choose between your career or a woman, please choose the former, because sooner or later, your woman would compare you with other men and if you are found wanting (ESPECIALLY financially) she would go for the better offer.
This is just another reminder to all the single guys out there to stop pursuing women and pursue success and a better financial life for themselves, women will come to you when you have those things. After all, even the Bible says where the carcass is, there the vultures gather!

Of course, we all know women are more promiscuous. Lets look at it biologically, if a man starts fucking sooner or later he will get tired and his dick will go soft but a woman can have sex forever, all she needs to do is lie down and let the guy work his tail of
and even if she goes dry, she can use a lubricant, so its all in the biology

Yes please disable my reply notification too, thank you

adros84:
No Accolades for Her

Much as I would have wanted to join the bandwagon to praise this woman, I find it difficult to do so. and I have my reasons:

1. At 74, she should not have been too afraid to die. She should have looked those pressurising her in the eye and told then to go jump in the Lagoon and then go ahead with the announcement of the true result.

2. She did not resign out of patriotism but because she did not want to do anything against her Christian Faith". standing for the truth should not be premised on religious grounds but on the fact that only the truth is good. Whether one is a Christian, a Muslim, an atheist, a traditionalist, the truth should always be upheld

3. Christianity never taught that we run away from evil. It says resist it. If she is a Christian as she claims, the she is a weak one. Did the scriptures not say God has not given us the spirit of fear?

4. I do not see any genuine christian being a Resident Electoral Commissioner because most of them lobby to get the post. No genuine Christian lobbies for such posts

5. Finally, I think above all that she owes the people of Ekiti and the two candidates who have spent so much on preparations for the election a duty to come out of hiding and declare the true results.

Nairalanders, am I saying this is an easy task. Of course no. But once a man or woman accepts a job knowing the danger inherent in it, he should do it even if he or she loses his life in the course of doing it.

I rest my case.

Best response so far. I wonder why people so much fear death. If in fact she is a Christian, she should know that 70 is an ok age to die. I am addressing the issue of death because it seems to me that a great majority of us do not live out our potential because at one point or the other in our lives/career, the fear of death stops us. How silly! (knowing that death is inescapable, after all)