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meobizy:
It’s two years later. Are you 5’2 now?

i will check

kppo:
I once approached a lady for marriage. She took her time before she gave me an answer. I made it a point of duty to communicate with her everyday and she was responding. But a time came when she wasn't responding as before. Shortly after that, she told me that she is not interested in marrying me. My point is that a break in communication was a sign of what was soon to follow. If a lady is interested in you, she will communicate well. But if she is not communicating well, that may very well be a sign that she is not interested in you (anymore).

WOW this is good advise, mine break communication and the vibes was not there but i keep on forcing things until it finally happened. And I chop block

Goo0dHardDick:
Control your impulse and urge to chat 24/7

Dude get busy with your life. However, a woman who doesn't return calls nor pick up isn't into you. Enjoy the moment with her while it lasts and find someone else with the qualities you wan.

Stop all communication. Don't call her first
Don't text her first either. Do this for a week or 2 weeks, if she doesn't reach out to you, u have your answers already. Delete her number and move on

brother, how i wish i can use voice note to narrate my story for advice

Ki11YurSev:
I go like slap you o oya SiMPly narrate ham short

just give me simp d'or award brother. It was More than simping. Normal i am not a simp but I strip myself off standard, all my masculinity just to be intentional. I SIMply endure her till i got what i deserved 😂

Dtruthspeaker:
Actually, she just moved on to the next musquare wey still never learn who woman be.

because they must always abe a richer dude

Walezy2020:
good intention or no good intention ladies & money na 5&6 I heard a guy talking with his friends today that a lady left her guy after the guy had spent like 2M for her naim I reached there & said forget it there might be someone somewhere that had spent more than what the guy that spent 2M na highest bidder they will follow

you are right because she later called to narrate what they guy has gotten for her, the iPhone 16 he promised her, her rent, her this and that. That was when i realized that my spending nor near, and the highest bidder won. Person wey dey earn 120k as salary in Lagos Island dey find house of 1.5m 😂,

Diamond098454:
Hahaha hahaha hahaha
Sorry for your experience but that shouldn't stop you from loving again

i nor dey love again.

Onkoolos:
Bro narrate aam make we learn make other no fall victim 😂😂😂

it will be a long episode, you can read my last thread to get only the Genesis of it 😂

Diamond098454:
Hahaha
I can't stop laughing

it's a mix feelings, Laughing and weeping. It it was a terrible experience, that i have not experienced since I was born. I pray make my enemy nor experience am or mumu like me

Onkoolos:
Op If you follow this advice my brother you are dating yourself!!!… Person wey u won marry make uno disturb am with call or text aam. Infact some girls will not even allow you to call na dem go dey disturb you call if dem rate u. Op please move on, I hardly use 1 week with girls like this.. All this are flimsy excuse that you don’t want to be the foundation of your relationship… Any girl wey Dey act like say I Dey disturb her with call, no be me and her go continue the relationship, na disrespect of the highest order, if you don’t know

the worst is the make excuse for any girl.. I used to make excuses for my own until she finally dumped me after 11 months of showing 100% seriousness and giving her good intentions

Sonnobax15:
it hurts bro, I totally understand that. But sometimes, it's preferable to just accept the reality and of course with time,man will definitely heal and be wiser.

If I tell you wetin my own use my eyes see recently,you no go believe say na me wey dey form strong man for Nairaland Dem use shine like that 😊

i believe my own is the worst case in 21st century 😂. If I sit you down to narrate everything, you fit slap me 😂.

Sonnobax15:

Make she pick your calls or reply your chats when she dey with your co-boyfriends? . Why you wan spoil her business for her?

Bro, forget that banny. She's a gamer and as a sharp guy,you suppose code when banny no too rate you.

bro, my own played with me for 11 months, similar to this guy Case, you can read my last post. She finally blocked me everywhere and confess that she have a boyfriend that is richer, that the guy always call her, even if they have nothing to say. The phone calls must be connected. I'm still weeping as it stands 😂

Dreal1247:
Understanding the person of your partner is a vital key to a successful relationship. Also, the nature of her work should not be disregarded in this subject matter. I've equally observed that in some relationships, it appear that the women are the ones yearning for attention of the men. While it is the other way round in some other relationships.
Lastly, does she always return other people's messages and calls while with you? This will give you the right judgement.

this was how i was making excuses for her until Truth came out

Goodmarlian:
I am just tired of this my girls approach towards our relationship,this girl is good ,well behaved and has a good job shes doing at hand but the problem I have with her is that she barely picks my calls or reply chats don't get me wrong we talk so very well offline we can gist for long and all that but we are no longer together forget it she will never reply my chats or calls
I have complained a lot about this to her she will apologize but still continue now I think it either she doesn't really like me as I think or she just want to weaponise communication I just want to continue with the relationship for fun while a find someone else who is ready and prioritizes me for marriage ,I see poor communication as a huge red flag .

if you Read my last post, you fit dump her. It happens to me too, at the end, it ended in tears for me. She finally admitted that she was deceiving me that she is in relationship, she open up to tell me that she is always on call with the guy that's why she can't take my calls, she said that even if they are not talking, but the phone calls must always be connected with the guy. After 11 good months of thinking i was in relationship with her, i plan getting married to her. She finally blocked me every.

you can marry from poor family but dont marry from family that are poor yet they want to live large and those with entitlement mentality

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Goodmarlian:
Op you go hear am
You waited 33 years before having girlfriend meaning you are inexperienced with women that gender go too show you shege banza, bro trust me it will take you almost another 5 years before you develop thick skin to their shenanigans.

omor, it's actually that ly age and family pressure that cause le to simp. Ly journey with her did not end well

FortCavazosKnox:
The same way you are acting as if you don’t know, you should start acting as if she doesn’t exist

it was difficult, i will give an update how it ended

ExudeLoveToAll:
If u are my bro I for flog u, move on find another name

someone need to reset my brain. Simping is a disease

Emmy000seun:
Lol...😂😂bro you are just looking for validation...in your mind and soul you already know she is a red flag..in the first instance she is a cool girl to you because she haven't seen a platform or opportunity to show herself, now when she get to eko akete,🙄😀😂..ilu ogbon, she get all she need to strive well in her holoshoism 📌..what do you expect..🤷her later character is her real self and just ask yourself a question if you can take such a woman as a partner?..a woman that can b open to you only when she feel like.. such girl cannot be trusted 💯💯..it's better you add more value to yourself and always remember that when you put woman on d forehead because you need a woman, you will surely not get the good one, but when you are focused and serious and improving yourself I can promise you that the good woman will come by herself and not the other way round 🤏💯..ire ooo

i will write how my simping journey went. It didn't end well 😂

Pukkalolo:
“As a guy you need to be nicer to the lady you intend to keep for a serious relationship…”

I disagree with that part.

As a Man, You’ve already lost the moment you think you need to “be nicer” to secure her commitment.


Men Are The Gatekeepers of “Serious” Relationships, Not Women.

A man with real sexual options does not really care for a serious relationship. He doesn't even have that goal from his own end

So if a woman wants a “serious” thing with him, she has to earn that position by being better than the other options he has.

As a Man, when you make “serious relationship” your goal from early on, you’re telling her: “I don't have sexual options. Please choose me.”

In her mind, she thinks: “This one is easy. I don’t need to bring my best self.”

That’s why she starts billing you harder while, and keeping her options open.

Men, here's the correct mindset is:


You should be the one always scanning for a better woman: the one who is nicer, more humorous, more submissive, more sexually enthusiastic, and more willing to invest in you.

While she should be the one waking up every day trying to make sure you don’t find that better woman.

She should be the one nicer. She should be the one funnier. She should be the one dressing better, cooking better, fucking better, supporting you better… because she knows you can walk away at any moment and still be fine.

That fear keeps her on her toes. That doubt keeps her loyal. That tension keeps her wet.


Be wise brothers.

how i wish I read this 1yr ago, i wouldn't have fall into her trap/scam, i acted nicer, very genuine to her, very Pure intentions, without even talking about sëx. at the end, she tear me break-up without a single quarrel. a 23yrs Old girl used my brain for 11month, i fall for it because of first impressions, when i met her she was decent, she was not even a serious social media type, no Tiktok, ig, just Facebook which she hardly login, i fall for it. Everything got worst when she got a job and moved down to lagos. It ended in tears After 11 good months of devoted simping without applying a single sense, just pure simping, Moving on is difficult for me but i got no option, i have to do it

My mother loved me dearly. But i was deceived by the girl first impression that led me to fall for it and become a full time simp for More than 11 months.

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hmmm, God might not answer this

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BlackViper:
Yesterday, I posted that I had lost my dad in a very sudden way.

He was an elderly man, but he was hale and hearty. He fell while he was climbing the stairs to go to bed at night and hit his head.

We called an ambulance, but even after they made us pay N100,000, they did not show up after an hour had passed. We were forced to drive to the hospital at 12.00 midnight where my beloved father was pronounced dead on arrival.

I've been comforting my mom and siblings all this while.

It was when I went to see his body at the Mortuary that I almost lost my composure because he looked so alive. There was a smile on his face and he looked so calm.

I'm praying for a miracle of resurrection.

I know that with God nothing is impossible.

I remember how in the Bible Paul prayed to God and resurrected a man who died after he fell from the first floor of a building.

I also know our Lord raised Lazarus from the dead after 3 days.

All I ask my fellow believers is to pray for the resurrection of my father as you go for Church service this morning.

I still believe in miracles and I believe it was not my father's time to depart from this world.

Please mods, be merciful and put this on the front page so as many people as possible can see it.

I'm hoping for a mighty testimony.

If it doesn't happen, I'm willing to accept that this is God’s Will, but I first want to appeal to God’s mercy and loving kindness before I accept His judgement.

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your only hope is in the resurrection in the last day.

If you have money please Japa. If bandit nor harm, Fulani herdmen, Boko Haram, unknown gun, or other Islamic terrorists will, police or army fit still harm you. Please if you are rich and you are not gotten your funds through government, please Japa to save your life and that of your family

Why them dey give certificate before starting of marriage. All other things like education, skill
Acquisition, workshop. Certificate is always given after completion

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I find it hard to keep females as my friend without having dating intentions for them, and that's because it's very hard for me to spend my money on them as they believe man should be the provider . With what you stated I believe that's not an issue for you. What can I do to be just like you?

same with me, I even find it hard to date them without marriage intentions, that's why I don't still have a girlfriend till now.