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Prechbills:
I have had discussions with several of my fellow female folks and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of;



-paying for their new hair-do



-buying new phones for them



-sending them airtime regularly



-giving them monetry allowances 



-buying them clothes and shoes....etc



The list is endless.



Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend.



In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty? 



The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families.



Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need. 



The scenario got me thinking...


Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy?

juliebrown:
ofcourse if u are determined