DrinkLimca:
I don't think poverty is the sure cause why our Nigeria ladies are financial pest in a relationship..

Because in most developed and developing countries,, you still see ladies from poor families, struggling and doing little jobs just to take care of themselves without depending on men..

however i think the mentality of our naija ladies are set that way,, probably it's because of what they observe from their parents and grand parents..

like it's a generational thing.

though not all Nigeria ladies think that way but those that do,, see nothing wrong in depending on men because their mom and sisters depend on men too..

If Your mom or sisters are their own bosses,, you will follow in their footsteps..

Prechbills:


I have had discussions with several of my fellow female folks and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of;



-paying for their new hair-do



-buying new phones for them



-sending them airtime regularly



-giving them monetry allowances 



-buying them clothes and shoes....etc



The list is endless.



Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend.



In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty? 



The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families.



Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need. 



The scenario got me thinking...


Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy?

eezeribe:

Entitlement mentality and Laziness... But it is my fellow men that spoilt women.
My fellow men actually rent apartments and buy cars for ladies whose fathers don't own a bicycle just because of sex...
My friend took his new catch in his Venza to an eatery,while he went to queue for sharwama,his catch was sitting in the car,listening to cool music while the air conditioner was chilling...
Dear Men,the monsters you created because of lack of sexual control have come back to haunt you.

MhizzAJ:

eezeribe:

Entitlement mentality and Laziness... But it is my fellow men that spoilt women.
My fellow men actually rent apartments and buy cars for ladies whose fathers don't own a bicycle just because of sex...
My friend took his new catch in his Venza to an eatery,while he went to queue for sharwama,his catch was sitting in the car,listening to cool music while the air conditioner was chilling...
Dear Men,the monsters you created because of lack of sexual control have come back to haunt you.

UDUJ:


I will like to know what you think about this? Your comments are always interesting

lefulefu:

waiting for her comments too

GOFRONT:
Some ladies be salary earner but dem still dey Tasi their bf for money

Infact naso my galfrnd dey do

I com dey wonder wetin she dey use her own salary take do

GOFRONT:
Some ladies be salary earner but dem still dey Tasi their bf for money

Infact naso my galfrnd dey do

I com dey wonder wetin she dey use her own salary take do

Prechbills:


I have had discussions with several of my fellow female folks and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of;



-paying for their new hair-do



-buying new phones for them



-sending them airtime regularly



-giving them monetry allowances 



-buying them clothes and shoes....etc



The list is endless.



Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend.



In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty? 



The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families.



Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need. 



The scenario got me thinking...


Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy?

lefulefu:
These days sef some ladies don't even need to have a boyfriend or sleep with men before she gets money frm men. In short nigerian men even spend more on girls they haven't slept with than the ones they have already slept with. Most sharp girls out there know d code and dem sabi press the button of such mumu men.u can imagine a whole grown up man with thinking faculty sending 300k to an instagram girl cos of some illusion called love. Babe wey u never use ur eye see. Weda there is anything called social media decimal 10:10 i don't know oo but then dese men act like they are being manipulated. U dey toast a girl for street u already bragging to her dat u have a fat account and a Venza in ur garage. Some men need strong deliverance.