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i will give you my sister if you can take good care of her. I have sent you a mail!! Good luck

@ Vikin thanks for the advice, do u live there for now

the visa is sure as am going on a govt protocol paro, just wanna know if there is work in France

please i need an advice am planning to move into France with a 3 months Visa, can anybody advice me on what life is like in France, my visa will be ready in 2 weeks.

But guys, what happens when the guy wants to get married? He doesnt even know his fathers home town, only his mother? The guy is worried and still insist he is not changing his surname and place of origin.

@toyo c - what do u mean dat only ' bastards' do this. Mind you the father recognise the guy as his son. He accepts the boy as his son, but no support from him. Even the guy visits him once in a while. The only issue is dat the father does not know dat he has a brillant son and son does not even knows what he likes. They world apart, just answering dad and son. So explain what u meant in your post

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Hello nairalanders, thank your advice on my last post. A friend of mine needs your advice.
My friend told me dat, his father abandon him and his mother when he was a year old. The mother took sole responsibility of him, till university level. He got to find out that the mother had changed his name, so he bears his mother maiden name. The father is from Imo while the mother is from Akwa ibom. This makes him from Akwa ibom, also he can only understand ibibio. According to him, when he gain admission to university he went to see his dad for support but he rendered no help now he is a graduate and all his certificate carrys his mother's maiden name. He said he does not want to change his name since his international passport carrys dis name, he asked anything wrong as he is about to get married. Fathers and mothers your adice is needed!

Some Ladies are funny, dont marry a broke man!!! Only women dat have foresight can identify a potential husband. Some guys have dis money and will never respect thier lady even t the extent of dating severals ladies including her friends. Is relationship all about money? Finance is needed, fine, but ladies must understand that life is all about season, a man dat does not have today will surely have tomoro. My advise to the ladies, please follow a man that have the fear of God, respect you and have a vision, ask him what do u want to achieve in live, the u can take a good decision. Hence if u r waiting for the rich guy b4 u marry, you fit wait till menopuse oh, so wise up after all the bible says two r better than one. If you love him seek opportunity for him and both of you will enjoy the reward!

A friend of mind is in this situation. The father is an ibo man and the mother from akwa ibom. According to him, the father abandon him and the mother when he was a yr old. The mother took sole resposibility of the boy till he graduated from university, unknown to the boy, the mother had change his name and gave him a new name bearing her surname up till this moment although the boy now knows his father. He asked me does it have any effect on him cos all his documents bears the mother surname making him from Akwa ibom instead of Imo state. Pls what advice would u give him!

It is possible, but in the long run, if these dont change fast enough for the lady, sorry oh ... You the ladyu say, na LOVE i go chop? Am facing one now, and am about to give up cos no be me be baba God, some ladies cant just wait for God's timing, they want u to work with there time!

@kitty kat, i like your sense of reasoning. Well i wanna say a big thank you to all who took time to comment on this thread. I am more enligthen now and i have taken a personal decision. Thanks all!

@idowuogba- heard ya
@gabriel - nice suggestion
@kitty kat- i have not accepted the offer znd earning some cash is better than none, am into biz what i want to get an office and earn experience also.
@atm - have not accepted yet ..
I just cant tell my GF cos Am still thinking!

@sucez TP - i have not taken a decision. You said i should start a biz, have been doing biz to finance my education. The environment is not condusive, more over i want to start a family which needs steady streams of income. At my age still in my parents house, baby if i tell you what am facing you go feel for me. I have hope cos i believe in God and timing. The truth is that i need this job, the exposure, experience, indepence and a time to save for a biz. Yet am still thinking about it!

Guys pls lets slow down, all i need is for you guys to put yourself in my shoes and say what u will done. Pls lets not attack each others. Am reasoning with all these post. Thanks nairalanders!

@bennyraz- on point der, man no dey help man oh, i wonder why?

@southprince - thanks for commenting, still thinking about it!

@sexkillz- this is another dimension. Heard u brother!

@malaria & cog1, i hear u guys!

@princepari- na so life bi, espcially for naija, even when u r good, u have to sacrifice one thing sha or you hold on to God!!

@Ronoscky- amazingly she is young i guess at most 28yrs

@bigl- i really want to marry my GF cos after years of dating, i am comfortable with her, she has all i need in a lady. Am scared dat if i start this relationship with d HR lady, i might get carried away cos i doubt if i can mange two ladies with this new job which will be demanding.

@slimyem- wow at last from a lady. Thanks for the advice. But still thinking about it. This is a life time decision.

Am just wondering how i will tell her my GF, but i doubt if she will give me a pass. The job i need it, i will be meeting with d lady 2mor in church. Have not made up my mind yet. Will a lady ever like her guy to play along!

@bennyraz- bros abeg now, e no va reach dat level, pls dont send guys to be me up. Its not easy leaving a relationship like dat. Well thanks for d advise!

@john311- am scared cos she is not only taking about dating but a lifetime commitment. She says , i want you to myself alone & must agree b4 she makes her recommendation.
@mynd 44- i have been thinking about dat, but situation is pretty bad, i need to earn income, i have dreams to fulfil which needs money.
@benmyra- nice one, but am not good at deceiving pple, i have never double date all my life, to act all these will be hard for me.

Hi house, please am losing my mind, i need advice. I am a man of 32yrs a graduate with a 2:1. I have been in a relationship with a lady for more than 3yrs and we are suppose to be talking about marriage. The problem is dat i dont have a job and am still living with my family. Recently i met a lady in my church and we are friends, i told her am looking for a job and she asked me to give her my CV, which i did. Later i got a mail from a multinational company asking me to write an online test, which i wrote and passed, i was called for face to face interview, i went. I was suprised to find out that she was the HR. She told me dat i did well at the test and will be offered a letter of appointment but one the condition dat i will have to marry her dat she really admire me and my intelligence. The issue is dat i need the job desperately cos am not happy with my state, also i can not just forgo my relationship of 3yrs though my GF has been complaining dat i dont take care of her and i love her. What can you advice me, take the job and date the Hr or forget the job and stay with my GF!

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