Don't look for wifey material if you can't offer one of the most important husband requirements (financial stability) women look for.


Nobody came into this world to become sufferhead.

The words of a lazy azz gal who is lazy 2 de extent of depending on a man 2 buy even pad. Its ur type dat give hard working independent naija gals bad name, na ur mates de earn millions u are here talking rubbish. Go get a life or beta still get a job cus u are jobless

^^@Uche, she's marrried though(or so she claims), but I'm trying to figure out her end game. @OP, it's not out of place for a (broke) man to expect to receive love irrespective of his bank balance.

Am I in support of this?.....the answer is NO.

I tink dat girl is a big fool and a lazy type don't u no in relationship u both need to help each orda pls don't come hear and talk rubbish,by d way u talk it seem u are jobless and u are d type always waiting for a man to wash ur pant idiot oloriburuku kai make I catch u I go flog ur nash ole!

The fact remains that all of us will not be rich or at least to the same extent. If now that i don't have and a lady will not give me love,if i have tomorrow i will not accept love from her. Any time i could discern from my girls that the love is proportional to the funds i am willing to spend ,i always zero my mind on those relationship. Do i expect to meet a lady who will love irrespective of my pocket size ? The answer is YES.if i discover that the present one just like what she 's getting from me, That day that r/ship gets k-leg and i start looking for another. If i don't see and time is running out them i will get money and buy one but then its no longer about love.

fresh_dude: ^^@Uche, she's marrried though(or so she claims), but I'm trying to figure out her end game. @OP, it's not out of place for a (broke) man to expect to receive love irrespective of his bank balance.

This is nt de way a married woman reason. I de pity de husband if na true say she don marry

Pls, sexkillz shld try and control flooding or spamming of the thread entrusted in his hands. This kinda dull topic is jes reoccuring and reappearing like the whole thing aint enough shitz on it's own.@OP, i hope u also knw you're an idiott? Seriously.

Ego akokwanam,mmadu anaralam love mu, Ego akokwanam mmadu anaralam love mu. Ego akokwanam mmadu anaralam love mu. Ego m genyenu love mu ya akonamu oh. (may i not lack money ,so that another man will not take mylove away from me) that a popular igbo song . What type of love is that full of insecurities.

Sijo01: Am I in support of this?.....the answer is NO.

cheers

I did not intent to insult all the broke, but respectable men on NL. Your own wealth will come.

Sorry my brothers.

IZUKWU: Ego akokwanam,mmadu anaralam love mu, Ego akokwanam mmadu anaralam love mu. Ego akokwanam mmadu anaralam love mu. Ego m genyenu love mu ya akonamu oh. (may i not lack money ,so that another man will take mylove away from me) that a popular igbo song . What type of love is that full of insecurities.

Amen. My Igbo brothers know wazzup.

I don't know oh,
Help me ask dem again.

Ie

I understand that women need a financially stable man...Trust me I perfectly do...A man should be a man and take care of his family....But a woman should also support her man...even financially by encouragement and otherwise...when things are not so rosy...Nobody wants to be broke forever...What u shud be more concerned is in the future whether the man is hardworkin and cn meet up eventually....Remember not all couples started out rich but some men thru the help of their spouses today av become very wealth...No man will forget such a woman...I repeat...NO MAN WILL LEAVE SUCH A WOMAN...even if he plays "away matches" And women get easily attracted to SUCCESS.....U cnt blame a man that thinks u're with him becos of his money....Afterall it is women like the OP that will refuse such a man in his hustling days...NEVER DESPISE THE DAY OF LITTLE BEGINNINGS...The wisest man that ever lived said so.

12 inches!:
I understand that women need a financially stable man...Trust me I perfectly do...A man should be a man and take care of his family....But a woman should also support her man...even financially by encouragement and otherwise...when things are not so rosy...Nobody wants to be broke forever...What u shud be more concerned is in the future whether the man is hardworkin and cn meet up eventually....Remember not all couples started out rich but some men thru the help of their spouses today av become very wealth...No man will forget such a woman...I repeat...NO MAN WILL LEAVE SUCH A WOMAN...even if he plays "away matches" And women get easily attracted to SUCCESS.....U cnt blame a man that thinks u're with him becos of his money....Afterall it is women like the OP that will refuse such a man in his hustling days...NEVER DESPISE THE DAY OF LITTLE BEGINNINGS...The wisest man that ever lived said so.

100% real

I'll support a man who can support himself.

If he's not financially stable (i.e husband material), why should he be looking for romance?

Men look for wifey materials, why shouldn't women do the same?

Well not all men will be rich. And of those who will be, many will become wealthy later than they would have liked and hoped. Now, some women will marry poor men because no rich fella proposed to them and they will despise these poor men they married because of their financial stature. When a man is disrespected because of his 'poverty' you better pray he doesnt become rich so that that disrespect can continue unfettered(we all know how somewomen complain when their husbands come into money). So ladies, please remain single until you find a man rich enough to afford you no matter how long it takes.

Ileke-IdI:
Don't look for wifey material if you can't offer one of the most important husband requirements (financial stability) women look for.


Nobody came into this world to become sufferhead.

[size=14pt][b]If my mother followed financial stability in picking a husband, I would have had a useless man for a father and had several step mums..

Thank God she had the patience and the foresight to see the potentials my father had.. Thats how she entered a marriage against the wishes of friends and family.

They called my father names.. Today every muthafucker who talked shit now adds the 'Sir' 'Oga' & 'Uncle' title to his name..

From no house, being kicked out in the middle of the night by a landlord from the 1 bedroom face-me-I-face-You to being owner of prime houses in top locations in Rivers State & Abuja and even being a Landlady of White men in Canada.

From foot patrol to being chauffeur driven with Mobile police escorts.

From using her wrapper for baby nappy to being an importer of Huggies and Pampers.

From no money to even afford public transport to flying First Class around the world.

From bend-down select to shopping to popping tags from High end designer labels.

From being just another Nigerian to being a dual citizen of both Nigeria and Canada.

From 'you will regret this and come back begging' to more than 25years with 5 kids and growing stronger by the day..

Guess what!! If my father had to pick between his wealth, his children and his wife.... GUESS WHO HE WOULD PICK?!!!! HIS WIFE!!



If a girl dont love me because I am broke now, I say FHUCK YOU VERY MUCH... When I get my money, come back, but dont try to act like my money is our money because it aint. I'll treat you the same way I treat my 50' flat screen T.V a commodity I bought with my money for my pleasure..



CHIKINA!

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You biitches had better ask for foresight so you can see ahead. A man would cherish a woman who stuck by him through thivk and thin than he would a woman who came in when he was already a boss!

They coming out with them fangs! LMAO!!!

First of all I totally get where the poster is coming from. A dude doesn't have to be Bill Gates but he has to be doing something for himself, he has to have that foundation, drive and ambition to wanna succeed!

Some dudes sit on their butt doing nothing for themselves and expect a woman to put up with it. Like seriously? If you haven't taken care of yourself, you have no business getting married! How you gonna feed an extra mouth and take care of kids when they start coming? I think its very unfair to bring any child into this world to suffer! This also applies to lazy butt women who are doing nothing to improve themselves. . .their sole aim in life is to get a man to take care of them!

Finance is a big part of marriage and that's reality! Its broken so many homes and that's because people don't plan before they get married. . .they live in fantasy and when reality finally hits in (Bills). . .then they start to crumble. . .So get yourself together first before you take on that responsibility!

You know there's a new lie being bandied about. That every person who works hard will become rich. I don't know where this lie stemmed from exactly but just so there are others out there who do, be told, not all hard workers will be rich.

Having said that, if you know that you cannot live with a poor/broke man pleae make the right choice for the sake of the future. There is no guarantee that, inspite of his best efforts, he will be rich in the future. #Just saying.

Okija_juju:

[size=14pt][b]If my mother followed financial stability in picking a husband, I would have had a useless man for a father and had several step mums..

Thank God she had the patience and the foresight to see the potentials my father had.. Thats how she entered a marriage against the wishes of friends and family.

They called my father names.. Today every muthafucker who talked shit now adds the 'Sir' 'Oga' & 'Uncle' title to his name..

From no house, being kicked out in the middle of the night by a landlord from the 1 bedroom face-me-I-face-You to being owner of prime houses in top locations in Rivers State & Abuja and even being a Landlady of White men in Canada.

From foot patrol to being chauffeur driven with Mobile police escorts.

From using her wrapper for baby nappy to being an importer of Huggies and Pampers.

From no money to even afford public transport to flying First Class around the world.

From bend-down select to shopping to popping tags from High end designer labels.

From being just another Nigerian to being a dual citizen of both Nigeria and Canada.

From 'you will regret this and come back begging' to more than 25years with 5 kids and growing stronger by the day..

Guess what!! If my father had to pick between his wealth, his children and his wife.... GUESS WHO HE WOULD PICK?!!!! HIS WIFE!!



If a girl dont love me because I am broke now, I say FHUCK YOU VERY MUCH... When I get my money, come back, but dont try to act like my money is our money because it aint. I'll treat you the same way I treat my 50' flat screen T.V a commodity I bought with my money for my pleasure..



CHIKINA!

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You biitches had better ask for foresight so you can see ahead. A man would cherish a woman who stuck by him through thivk and thin than he would a woman who came in when he was already a boss!

Dude stop advertising yourself jor.

How many times will you tell us about your money? Let us hear word, Mr. Olowo

ThoniaSlim: They coming out with them fangs! LMAO!!!

First of all I totally get where the poster is coming from. A dude doesn't have to be Bill Gates but he has to be doing something for himself, he has to have that foundation, drive and ambition to wanna succeed!

Some dudes sit on their butt doing nothing for themselves and expect a woman to put up with it. Like seriously? If you haven't taken care of yourself, you have no business getting married! How you gonna feed an extra mouth and take care of kids when they start coming? I think its very unfair to bring any child into this world to suffer! This also applies to lazy butt women who are doing nothing to improve themselves. . .their sole aim in life is to get a man to take care of them!

Finance is a big part of marriage and that's reality! Its broken so many homes and that's because people don't plan before they get married. . .they live in fantasy and when reality finally hits in (Bills). . .then they start to crumble. . .So get yourself together first before you take on that responsibility!

Thank thank thank you.

Love does not pay the bills. There's nothing stopping me from supporting a man that already has a support base.

Some guys (like okija) are misinterpreting my post. I am not a gold digger, I've never taken money from a boyfriend and I won' start anytime soon. However, if a man is not financially stable or he doesnt have any money to support himself, why is he looking to get married? Focus on building yourself. You cannot build a family if you're not financially stable.

Don't punish your potential wife or girlfriend by making her a sufferhead.

Ileke-IdI:



Dude stop advertising yourself jor.

How many times will you tell us about your money? Let us hear word, Mr. Olowo

HAhhahahaaha!!

Sadly its not my money. I may have gone overboard but I'm sure you get the message..

Money isnt everything!

Okija_juju:


HAhhahahaaha!!

Sadly its not my money. I may have gone overboard but I'm sure you get the message..

Money isnt everything!

I never implied that it was.

Ileke-IdI:


I never implied that it was.

Well your post said I shouldnt be searching for a wife if I cant offer financial stability.. Last time I checked, finance was french for money..

Some Ladies are funny, dont marry a broke man!!! Only women dat have foresight can identify a potential husband. Some guys have dis money and will never respect thier lady even t the extent of dating severals ladies including her friends. Is relationship all about money? Finance is needed, fine, but ladies must understand that life is all about season, a man dat does not have today will surely have tomoro. My advise to the ladies, please follow a man that have the fear of God, respect you and have a vision, ask him what do u want to achieve in live, the u can take a good decision. Hence if u r waiting for the rich guy b4 u marry, you fit wait till menopuse oh, so wise up after all the bible says two r better than one. If you love him seek opportunity for him and both of you will enjoy the reward!

Okija_juju:

[size=14pt][b]If my mother followed financial stability in picking a husband, I would have had a useless man for a father and had several step mums..

Thank God she had the patience and the foresight to see the potentials my father had.. Thats how she entered a marriage against the wishes of friends and family.

They called my father names.. Today every muthafucker who talked shit now adds the 'Sir' 'Oga' & 'Uncle' title to his name..

From no house, being kicked out in the middle of the night by a landlord from the 1 bedroom face-me-I-face-You to being owner of prime houses in top locations in Rivers State & Abuja and even being a Landlady of White men in Canada.

From foot patrol to being chauffeur driven with Mobile police escorts.

From using her wrapper for baby nappy to being an importer of Huggies and Pampers.

From no money to even afford public transport to flying First Class around the world.

From bend-down select to shopping to popping tags from High end designer labels.

From being just another Nigerian to being a dual citizen of both Nigeria and Canada.

From 'you will regret this and come back begging' to more than 25years with 5 kids and growing stronger by the day..

Guess what!! If my father had to pick between his wealth, his children and his wife.... GUESS WHO HE WOULD PICK?!!!! HIS WIFE!!



If a girl dont love me because I am broke now, I say FHUCK YOU VERY MUCH... When I get my money, come back, but dont try to act like my money is our money because it aint. I'll treat you the same way I treat my 50' flat screen T.V a commodity I bought with my money for my pleasure..



CHIKINA!

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You biitches had better ask for foresight so you can see ahead. A man would cherish a woman who stuck by him through thivk and thin than he would a woman who came in when he was already a boss!

WOW,very good response,but the thing nowadays is,many men seem to forget the woman who stood by them,when they were still struggling to climb up,the ladder of wealth,they would rather go for younger and fresher looking girls,once the money starts rolling in,rather than the woman who was there for them through thick and thin.You are lucky cos ur parents are an exception,but there are many cases of such,example is an aunt of mine who stood through with her husband of 10years in his trying times,she was the breadwinner of the family for close to 9years,bearing him three kids,now the guy has hammered big time,hes now a big boy and suddenly my anty has become distasteful to him,imagine sending out a woman who stood by u for many years,out with the three children,without an excuse,and bringing in a 26year old girl home,as the new madam of the house,now what would u say about that,my point is many babes are wising up these and realising that its not worth,it sowing what u mit end up not reaping,thus why struggle with the man,when there are chances,he wouldnt reciprocate when things turn around..and one more thing,its really difficult to know the character of a man,when hes broke,many men tend to be humble when they are not rich,but once the money comes,in u begin to get a grasp,of their true nature

Okija_juju:

Well your post said I shouldnt be searching for a wife if I cant offer financial stability.. Last time I checked, finance was french for money..

Is marriage "everything"?

Gold diggers don't deserve a wealthy man, only good women do.

There are few good women left out there, but if you look hard you will find them.

Ileke-IdI:


100% real

I'll support a man who can support himself.

If he's not financially stable (i.e husband material), why should he be looking for romance?

Men look for wifey materials, why shouldn't women do the same?

I think you are just trynna tease men here...i was gonna say sumfn but lemme catch u anoda day.

Okija_juju:

[size=14pt][b]If my mother followed financial stability in picking a husband, I would have had a useless man for a father and had several step mums..

Thank God she had the patience and the foresight to see the potentials my father had.. Thats how she entered a marriage against the wishes of friends and family.

They called my father names.. Today every muthafucker who talked shit now adds the 'Sir' 'Oga' & 'Uncle' title to his name..

From no house, being kicked out in the middle of the night by a landlord from the 1 bedroom face-me-I-face-You to being owner of prime houses in top locations in Rivers State & Abuja and even being a Landlady of White men in Canada.

From foot patrol to being chauffeur driven with Mobile police escorts.

From using her wrapper for baby nappy to being an importer of Huggies and Pampers.

From no money to even afford public transport to flying First Class around the world.

From bend-down select to shopping to popping tags from High end designer labels.

From being just another Nigerian to being a dual citizen of both Nigeria and Canada.

From 'you will regret this and come back begging' to more than 25years with 5 kids and growing stronger by the day..

Guess what!! If my father had to pick between his wealth, his children and his wife.... GUESS WHO HE WOULD PICK?!!!! HIS WIFE!!



If a girl dont love me because I am broke now, I say FHUCK YOU VERY MUCH... When I get my money, come back, but dont try to act like my money is our money because it aint. I'll treat you the same way I treat my 50' flat screen T.V a commodity I bought with my money for my pleasure..



CHIKINA!

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Guy thats it o. I feel you 3 much. I wonder who this Ileke-idi is. So you mean because a guy is broke at the moment he should not go for love.
You must be untreatable cos you're a low life murrafacker

Only a foolish man will go fr love without cash.

If the girl says she wants you as a broke guy fine. Usually such girls already have a fathee, brother, aunty or someone that can set the dude up. So, money would be her least worries.

However, things have changed and finances and the economy are'nt what they used to be. So, when that case of marrying a broke guy - because someday he might make it.... Is an old wives tale.

If Women should educated, well trained and nt promiscous, men should be rich, generous, handsome and strong.

I met a few girls.... Nd frm my observations... They dnt want a rich guy... they want a generous guy.

Look at it this way - a girl can have a rich boyfriend bt he could be greedy and her friend may have a regular guy (who"s hustling) bt spoils this girl whenever he can.

Which girl would be happier. Correct me if am wrong.