99% of successful women don't want a man less successful than them. They only pretend to want one just to win the race against time them offload all their baggage on the poor male. He may never survive it. But gehgeh advice is already prolonging men's life.
Dpsychologist: This argument keeps trending because people keep missing the point.
Some say men are afraid of successful women. Others say that’s rubbish and an excuse.
The truth sits uncomfortably in the middle, and that’s why nobody wants to stay there.
Let’s clear one thing first and like the tweet in the image below says: Modern men are not strangers to capable women. We were raised by working mothers, taught by female teachers, managed by female bosses, and went to school with ambitious girls. Female success is not a shock. It is normal life.
So no, success alone is not what scares most men.
But let’s not lie to ourselves either. Some men are intimidated by successful women. Not all men and not most men. But enough to make the conversation valid. If men can feel threatened by another man’s success, why should a woman’s success be magically different? Ego has no gender.
Now here is the part both sides tend to avoid talking about much.
What many men react to is not success, but what sometimes follows it. A change in attitude. Respect quietly leaving the room. Confidence crossing the line into contempt. Independence being used as an excuse to avoid accountability.
At the same time, number of women are actually exhausted. Tired of shrinking themselves. Tired of being told to be less loud, less confident, less visible. Tired of their confidence being labelled arrogance simply because it comes from a woman.
Both experiences are real.
The problem starts when people turn personal experiences into universal laws. “All men are intimidated” is false. “No man is intimidated” is also false.
The real issue is insecurity, poor emotional maturity, and lack of balance.
A secure man is not threatened by a woman’s growth. He is inspired by it. A grounded woman does not use success as a weapon. She carries it with grace.
Confidence is not arrogance. Independence is not disrespect. Success is not superiority.
Marriage is not boxing. It is not power play. It is not a battle for who earns more or talks louder. It is partnership.
Ideal 'Equality' is not about using history as leverage. It is about shared standards today. Empowerment is not exemption from accountability. It is responsibility with power.
If your success makes someone uncomfortable, it might be their insecurity. If your success turns you into someone difficult to live with, it might be your character.
Both things can be true at the same time.
Until we learn to talk about this honestly, without shouting “men” or “women” like war slogans, this debate will keep recycling itself.
A guy gathers courage, drops to one knee in the middle of Bokku supermarket aisle with a ring, ready to propose marriage... only for his girlfriend to look shocked, uncomfortable, and ultimately say NO (or just walk away)!
The crowd of shoppers starts chanting "Say yes! Say yes!" adding insane pressure and making the moment 10x more embarrassing for both of them. Pure second-hand cringe as the guy is left heartbroken in public while people film everything. Classic high-risk public proposal backfire!
In this chilling real-life footage from Abuja, watch as professional fumigators discover and remove a HUGE cobra that emerged straight from the toilet during a routine home treatment! 😱🐍 The homeowner, Uche Nworah, Ph.D., explains how his apartment's connection to the city's central sewage system allowed the deadly snake to slither in through drainage pipes—exactly the risk many ground-floor residents face.
This happened in 2024, but it hits harder now after the heartbreaking death of rising singer Ifunanya Nwangene (Nanyah Music), who was bitten by a snake (possibly cobras found in her home) while sleeping in Abuja on Jan 31, 2026.
Goodmarlian: There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.
When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.
Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.
I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.
OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl
I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.
In A Third World country where government doesn't exist except for those connected to the "influence peddling and patronage network system " like Nigeria. Either you are your own president, governor, councillor, chairman, or you let your betting slips to preside over your life.
What is wring with these our men in the uk? If its not s3x offender it’s mvrder case😒
Daniel Odubanjo, 27, was arr3sted in the UK after he trapped a woman in a train toilet and s3xually assaulted her before s3xually assaulting young girl.
Koiki further disclosed that Igboho was no longer being sought by Nigerian authorities, attributing the development to sustained royal interventions, political goodwill and persistent advocacy by Yoruba leaders within and outside the country.
DrMB: Where is the world’s wealth actually sitting in 2026? While Gold remains the undisputed king at over $32 Trillion, the "Old Guard" is officially being challenged. From the meteoric rise of NVIDIA to Bitcoin firmly holding a spot in the Top 10, the global leaderboard looks very different than it did a decade ago.
Looking at this list, are we seeing a permanent shift toward "Digital Gold," or is physical bullion still the safest bet? Does anything on this list surprise you, perhaps NVIDIA sitting at #3 above Alphabet and Apple? Which of these 50 assets do you think will climb the most by next year? Let’s talk strategy in the comments! 👇
Please don't allow "gone too soon" condolence message to appear here on your behalf ohh.
Kanufootsoldier: Most Women I approach do reject me I can tell you that 30 years of my life I have only bedded 3 women,not like I am counting but I am just telling you my reality,I think I am average In looks and I am not doing bad financially.no matter how hard I have tried women reject me I try being a bad boy It doesn't work I try being a good boy it still doesn't work, I feel.
Maybe I have a poor personality naturally that is not attractive because from childhood I have being abused and talked down on by both my parents and guardians and it took a toll on my self esteem and confidence even till date.i still struggle with insecurities.
However this is where it gets tricky, most of my friends girlfriend and wives do make advances on me but I avoid them even though it can be very tempting, I don't like betraying my friends even though some of them have betrayed me in the past with women but my conscience wouldnt allow me do such.
Currently a yoruba friend of mine who happens to be a nice friend to me is dating an igbo girl, since this girl knew I am igbo she doesn't let me rest, she will always speak igbo to me and flirt, to avoid trouble I always reply her with English, so my friend will not think I am secretly doing something with her, she doesn't hide it, and she is not the only one, she will view my WhatsApp status anytime I post and comment on them and like the posts, call me bad boy when I post big freaky pix.
I begin to wonder why normal single ladies do not make advances on me like that but ladies in relationships and marriages, lately I am having bad reconsiderations maybe I should start having affairs with these my friends babes because konji is killing me..
Forbes should declare him richest man on earth. The most politically connected GO on earth!
Omooba77: Congratulations to our esteemed father and mother in the Lord, Pastor E. A. Adeboye and Pastor (Mrs.) Folu Adeboye, as we celebrate 45 years of God’s faithfulness through your leadership as the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God. He officially became the General Overseer on January 21, 1981. Let someone shout Halleluya......
Since colonial days till tomorrow Nigerian students from kindergarten to professorship only dreams of packing government money nothing more after school !
Olofofo247ng: Students of Government College, Ibadan, Western Nigeria performing experiment inside a science Laboratory.
Date: 18th of September, 1960
Government College Ibadan (founded 28 February 1929) is a boys' secondary school located on the hills of Apata Ganga in Ibadan, Nigeria.
The founding fathers of Government College Ibadan were Selwyn MacGregor Grier, Director of Education, Southern Provinces, who conceived the idea of the school, and E. R. Swanston, Inspector of Education.
The school was conceived and founded on 28 February 1929. The first principal was C. E. Squire. The second principal was H. T. C. Field. V. B. V. Powell was the third principal.
Government College was modelled on the British public boarding schools of the era, and the first set of students numbered 29.
During the Second World War, the school temporarily moved to several sites before finally resettling back at its original site. The alumnus popularly called Old Boys, holds an annual reunion programme in order to connect former students.
In the period before the dissolution of the country's Western Region, the school earned the fame of being the best secondary school in Nigeria.
Some of its notable alumni's include the following:
Adegoke Adelabu, Akinola Aguda, T. M. Aluko, Segun Awolowo, Wale Babalakin, Cyprian Ekwensi, Oba Erediauwa of Benin-City, Abel Guobadia, Christopher Kolade, Victor Omololu Olunloyo, Femi Osofisan, Ayo Rosiji, Olaokun Soyinka and his father, Wole Soyinka.
In this eye-opening video, I visit a real UK building site, carry heavy blocks, mix cement, and chat with bricklayers to find out what they ACTUALLY earn in just 8 hours! General labourer (feeding blocks): £150/day ≈ ₦290,000–₦300,000+ (at current rates!) Beginner bricklayer: £200/day ≈ ₦380,000+ Naira! Compare that to typical Nigerian bricklayer pay (₦5,000–₦20,000/day) — the difference is massive! Is japa worth it? 💭 (Remember: UK has taxes, high bills & living costs — but the raw earnings are wild!) This is raw, on-site truth — no cap! 🔥
If you're thinking of moving abroad for better pay in construction, drop your thoughts below
This courageous Nigerian woman named Ola steps out in bold faith to preach the undiluted Gospel of Jesus Christ on a moving London Underground train!
Listen as she powerfully declares: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)
No matter your background, your past mistakes, or what you’ve done—Jesus loves YOU right now and offers complete forgiveness and eternal life TODAY!
She leads everyone in a heartfelt sinner’s prayer and invites new believers to find a Bible-believing church. This is real street evangelism in action—unscripted, Spirit-led, and full of love! 🙌
If this video blessed or challenged you, drop "Amen" in the comments! Share this with someone who needs to hear the Good News today.
Prayer of Salvation (pray this with faith): "Lord Jesus, I believe You died for my sins and rose from the dead. I repent and invite You into my heart as my Lord and Savior. Thank You for saving me! Amen."
When you need money, who comes to your mind first? A wealthy man.
When hunger strikes, who do you think of? A friend or neighbour.
When you need a job, where do you run to? Politicians, connections, influence.
But how many of us first turn to Allah?
Where is our tawakkul?
Sadly, some even ask with doubt: “Is it really possible that Allah will do this for me?” Yes — it is not only possible, it is certain.
Allah says:
وَمَا مِن دَابَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ رِزْقُهَا “There is no creature on earth except that its provision is upon Allah.” (Qur’an 11:6)
And we say in our du‘ā:
اللَّهُمَّ لَا مَانِعَ لِمَا أَعْطَيْتَ، وَلَا مُعْطِيَ لِمَا مَنَعْتَ “O Allah, none can withhold what You give, and none can give what You withhold.”
If Allah opens a door, no human can close it. If He withholds, no connection, wealth, or influence can change it.
This does not mean we sit idle. Tawakkul is not laziness. It means: rely on Allah first, trust Him completely, then take lawful steps knowing that the outcome is in His Hands, not in people’s pockets.
Let us correct our hearts. Ask Allah before asking people. Trust Allah before trusting means.
May Allah strengthen our tawakkul and grant us provision with barakah.
PS: Please don't forget to recite Suratul Khaf today
Ette is pure, concentrated undiluted igalas. This enugu people want to cause the same kind of crisis anambra caused between aguleri and ibaji local government that led to a very bloody communal clash. Why are you guys fund dragging land wherever you go?
Editorialtimes: [i]Ette Belongs to Kogi, Not Enugu: Community Counters Enugu Govt’s Claim, Cites Legal Evidence | Nigeria News Today
This government officials clip should be sent to US Congress!
ogododo: "They are using internet service providers in neighboring countries and not the ones in Nigeria" - presidential aide, Daniel Bwala, speaks on why security agents can't track terrorists who use social media
Romance › Re: Are Men Afraid Of Successful Women Or We Are Avoiding The Real Conversation ? by Luvisdgr8test: 11:30am On Feb 06
