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I've been keeping this to myself for longtime, finally decided to share it with you for your candid advice. It goes, i dated this lady during our secondary school years, she was a virgin then i got her pregnant. She didnt tell me about it, she went and confided to her teenage girl frends. The friends advice her to abort it since am not aware and for fear of her parent reaction. Really i didn't know that she got pregnant, i only notice the changes in colour of her skin (How am i to know, a J.J.C). She took some traditional herbs to abort the pregnancy, the herbs started disturbing her and her parent got to know that she was pregnant. She called my name that i was responsible, and the parent sent for my parent on what has happened. When my parent called me over the issue i was shocked because the laddy didn't tell me about it. I accepted because i was her known boyfriend, we spend most of our times together both in their house and ours. If she had any hidden relationship, that one i can't tell. (Ladies for what they are). We went with my parent and accepted the prenancy. Three days after she had the abortion, 3months pregnancy. The issue brought problem7 between our families, at last we were warned to stay off each. We quited for 5year but whenever i came home she used to come. My dad is late and now i've married her despite his rejection, but there is no child 4 2 yrs. I feel like marrying another lady to born children. Pls advice me, !

I've been keeping this to myself for longtime, finally decided to share it with you for your candid advice. It goes, i dated this lady during our secondary school years, she was a virgin then i got her pregnant. She didnt tell me about it, she went and confided to her teenage girl frends. The friends advice her to abort it since am not aware and for fear of her parent reaction. Really i didn't know that she got pregnant, i only notice the changes in colour of her skin (How am i to know, a J.J.C). She took some traditional herbs to abort the pregnancy, the herbs started disturbing her and her parent got to know that she was pregnant. She called my name that i was responsible, and the parent sent for my parent on what has happened. When my parent called me over the issue i was shocked because the laddy didn't tell me about it. I accepted because i was her known boyfriend, we spend most of our times together both in their house and ours. If she had any hidden relationship, that one i can't tell. (Ladies for what they are). We went with my parent and accepted the prenancy. Three days after she had the abortion, 3months pregnancy. The issue brought problem7 between our families, at last we were warned to stay off each. We quited for 5year but whenever i came home she used to come. My dad is late and now i've married her despite his rejection, but there is no child 4 2 yrs. I feel like marrying another lady to born children. Pls advice me, !

Ride on, you are on the right track. What matters most is the love you have for each other. At the same time be careful of infatuation. GOOD LUCK MAN, !!

GOOD QUESTION AND IT'S ALSO A LESSON TO SOME WAYWARD LADIES. Dat reminded me of a case i witnessed, where a lady call the first guy 4 her pregnancy,when the first guy denied she calls another different guy that he is the one responsible, that second guy denied her too. She end up calling three guys on one pregnancy, what a shit on ladies side. Believe me that is happening most at time ladies trap u with pregnancy even if u are not responsible. THE TRUTH OF ALL PREGNANCY IS ONLY KNOW BY THE WOMAN ALONG. Guys take to your heed because ladies are out there looking for who to trap. BE WARNED!!!!