I know someone who knows the right spice of friendship.The one who knows the seasonings that makes the food of friendship sumptuous.The one whose heart is a kitchen that houses all the recipe of comfort and inspiring word.A heart where love and care are cooked,the heart that carries the alluring aroma everywhere and goings.The spice never for once peppery or savoury.The mighty hand of a cook cools the heart's hunger.The mighty taste that entice to do the same.

But I had never been a good cook,I will find my own unique recipe of meaningful connection.

Remember ,just like cooking, friendship takes lot of practice and experimentation.

Adorn! Garment wax heart's breath,
O! Natural ornament
Earth drools as she walks,
Sky pours her applause
Sun splendors her sunshine
Covered, decency,faith define her attire
Its length sways elegantly amidst eyes'smirk
Covered those beautiful guise seems,
Beauty seems not in divine's chamber
Beauty roses, glowing in immortal touches
Beauty keeps the eternal in her heart's embrace.

Peace she poses,
Peace of her faith she preaches
Embodiment of light she deems
She carries the heavenly wit:
the jewel of life we need
Holiness she breathes ,
never succumb in filth yield
In faith she was raised,
Al Quran is her tutelage
Taqwa is her heart's flame,
Halal is her heart frame.

Dedicated to my fellow Muslimah.

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I have heard people say many times people's opinion about them is irrelevant. Much as criticism can be a demon, there are bit of truth in some critics .Critics are two_faced.We, humans, are imperfect so it is okay for people to see our flawed side. Believe me everyone has their flawed side in which most times, can only be seen by others. You might think you are doing well, conversely, you have not done enough. Critics are teachers.It develops us on how to place prospect on ourselves. It finds us amidst who we are.Not every opinion about us can be shrugged off.Claiming it does not matter does not make it true or untrue. Honestly, it can be hard to digest all those words which has no iota of compassion.Words which make you wonder how bitter people can be__Give it a thought, a thought! Do not dwell on it. Access yourself and think thoroughly before you shrug it off.Having a strong faith and self_loving are cogent. I know some words brought back our tears but remember some has brought us comfort. It is about giving it a thought. A thought, do not dwell on it.
Critics and pejorative remarks come often most especially when you soar but it depends on your comportment.It can be hard getting negative remarks which are untrue about you, most especially from people who have not come as far as you have gone or people who know nothing about who you are.It takes a strong heart to bear all they say.One thing about some critics is that you are embodiment of what they aspire. You soar amidst all their disbelieving.
You don't take every word as a critics because it doesn't go sit with you rather take it as a bonus or an accession because words are dynamic :some words has positive intentions but not said in a right way yet some words has negative intention yet said in a positive way. Give yourself the accolades for standing against all odds.If you truly find the opinions about you untrue, trash it,that is where it belongs not in your heart.