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hello my fellow unibest..my name is lyly(nt real name actually) i am an aspiring 200L student ..studying pol sci in education....nice to meet y'all

[quote
author=inspiROHM][table]Play hard-to-get!

This is an old trick that never goes out of fashion! Make him jealous;
don’t answer all his phone calls, and don’t be always available for him.
Hang out with other guys too – let him believe you have many admirers.
Men are competitive by nature, so he’ll fight for your attention. As
soon as he does, he’ll start wondering: “Why am I jealous? Am I so
interested in this girl?” You’ll know you have won his heart…[/table]



There is this thing about me, I used to think that a girl that displays
such as above is the sweet sweet sweet, To my shock, the three girls I
dated that played hard to get cheated on me. Ironically, the one that
played hard to get most, (it took me close to a year to get this girl to
date me and in the two years I dated her I made love to her only
once!!!) cheated on me three different times, three different men. After
I went on a 6 year hiatus from women, on going back to try the dating
game again, the following happened; the first girl tried the HARD TO GET
gimmick. I instantly I lost interest in her without giving it second
thoughts. The second girl, well the second girl got friendly with me
smoothly and some weeks later she told me of a Air Force officer she met
at a wedding, that he calls her and talks to to her for like hours on
his MTN contract line phone. Not only that, she went ahead to flash him
before me and and giggling as the man at the other end was talking to
her. She did that in the middle of a date!!! Probably a way of telling
me that my 5 and 10 minute calls are nothing and that someone does a
better job. Up until now I am yet to fathom why she pulled that stunt on
me but I never felt the need to bother finding out. She followed me to
my house that night but I told her I would be out through out the night
for night browsing in a nearby cafe. I am a Web Site Designer by
profession. The passion was killed anyway. I had to lug my M17x
Alienware to the cafe and simply played Resident Evil 5 game all night.
Whenever I am tensed, I play my FPS games or my RPGs. Playing games
makes me focus. Well the third girl made it so hard on me that I
started avoiding them again until a youth corper from Delta came along.
This one is different; no stress, very friendly, open-minded, nothing to
hide, although does not take shit, even leaves her phone with me (can
you beat that? A NIGERIAN GIRL!!!) honest to fault even when I asked of
her age she went ahead to tell me. I don't know why but something keeps
telling me that day I sleep with this girl that day I don mess up so I
don't lay down opportunities for it no matter how slight. She enjoys my
company as much as I do hers and most times sits quietly beside me while
I work. Believe me the first thirty minutes of meeting this lady you
must appreciate her. I did and my guys are green. All I had to do was be
honest to myself as to what I want in a woman and she met like 95% of
them. Pragmatically, 5% ain't much so maturity would not let me look
hard at it. Of all I have ever come across, she was selected unanimously
to be the flag bearer of my heart.[/quote]story dat touches the heart :*

Akanbi_edu: I doubt this!

dont be foolish... wat is in dis beautiful write-up dat u have to doubt..? dey swear for u...? dont u like good things..? dont be an ingrate ..be appreciative for once...ok!!!

opsydudu: 2 fiancees

4 girlfriends

6 friends with benefit (anytime, anyday, anywhere. just call)

22 one night stand

and the list goes on and on

baddoo...i dey hail ooo....dont worry very soon u will be rushed in an emergency room...i will bring u flowers

Gamine: Girls are mostly annoying to me

i have very few female friends

eeck!

hmm..bros i hope u are nt wat i'm thinking..?

[quote
author=360degree]You missed it. Its only Ibo Man that will behave in this way you just
described knowing fully well that money running into millions is buried
somewhere. He will just agreed on the sharing formula. Shikena![/quote]u re nt serious..do u tink money z everytin...bullshit

cold: Well i'm not sure about shooting the kid after the dad had handed him over.If the story is true

he tried escaping but he waz shot dead

why is it dat ugly guys marry fine ladies...? and vice versa....anyway congrats elenu...i love ur jokes

why is it dat ugly guys marry fine ladies...? and vice versa

Afam4eva: This is the most beautiful wedding that i've ever seen in my life.

dat means u ve never attended a real wedding before..maybe d only one u attended was ur aunty's village wedding...no offence

congrats kimmy...i am so happy for u

IvyBlue: Yes it's very rude when she does it in public ,even when it's a man it's still very rude !
She should have excused herself and go do it outside or in the toilet .

exactly....dere re some certain tins human beings dont do in public.....its very embarrassing giving other pple inconvenieces....she should ve excused herself nd do it outside...dats no big deal abt dat

Plutarch: Being able to defend and stan:d for his woman

i disagree..bcoz agberos can do dat

wen u tink maturely nd wen u can b able to make ur own decisions wisely witout d help of ur parents dats wen u become a man