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Blackeard:
I'm sure abortion is a greater sin than fornication

No sin is greater than the other. No matter how little a sin might seem, it will lead to the same place as the so called big sins which is HELL FIRE

Blackeard:
Lmfao there is something seriously wrong with you. I hope the Lord frees him from bondage

you still call the Lord even after saying there ain't anything wrong with a grown up man carry condom to wherever he goes. Hmmmm may the Lord forgive you

hope2sweet:
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why you dey change de topic na abi na attention u dey seek

clemzo101:
Carrying condom in ur wallet shows how irresponsible u are. It shows all u think about is sex, it shows u go about looking for sex, it means u are ready to have sex anywhere d opportunity presents itself. Come how old are u? U shld thinking about achieving great things in life and not sex.

no wonder most men can't stand an unclad lady

DedeNkem:
I'm not a woman but I have chip in.

Any guy who carries condom everywhere is always thinking about sex. Not good at all.

If you are going for an appointnent to meet a chic you hope to shag, then it's good to have condom.

really tell me about it

Rushna:
To me..... It's absolutely irresponsible....... It doesn't portray a responsible character at all......... It might even make his gal nt to trust him.....

that's if he has a girlfriend

it's the height of irresponsibility I have a guy friend who does that and I confronted him about it,this was his response 'I carry condom in my pocket because of an emergency, I might meet a girl on my way 'hmmmm I was speechless for a while all I could say was END TIME. the carriage of condoms by male or female is evil and demonic from the pit of hell unless of course condom is not used for what I know it for and I doubt that

Okay no problem just don't forget that am waiting,till Saturday then and Good morning

ideology:
Sorry deae for belated response, am. Still with you, ave Not forgotten, kinda tight schedule for now, hopefully, by Saturday evening, I'll get you the post.
Hope you are doing great?

ideology:
kikikikiiii, God is a spirit, you can't feel it or see it hence you can't develop feelings for something you don't see or touch.

So Abraham Never developed feelings for God, because it is not possible in the first place,


Understand that what Abraham Had with God was good communication, of course, you know communication is only complete when it is both ways. In most relationships today, only one person talks the other just wants to be a reciever
In communication, you talk, I respond, and I talk you respond.

Communication begats trust (faith), trust begats love, see the links and that's what Happened between Abraham And God, not mere feelings.

In the same way, if both of us begin to communicate effectively, over a period, you will begin to trust me and I too, with time it grows to love.

On the aspect of having feeling before you can sacrifice, well its not true, you can sacrifice for a total stranger. Am talking from experience, in fact daily experiences and the reason is simple, everyone have the capacity to love to a certain measure


As for the next discourse, you will have the response tomorrow morning,

Ask more questions on this discussion
Good evening!!

I perfectly understand and tanx for making me to am still waiting for the other stuff

ideology:
cc: Machi25

John 3:16
16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son – NLT
Notice the emboldened words, Loved, Gave, Only

Love – Gave meaning love is giving,
Love – Only, Love is Sacrifice

Love is sacrificial giving


Gen 22:1 -12 – Abraham sacrifices his only son
12, And He said, “Do not lay your hand on the lad, or do anything to him; for now I know –NKJV

[size=15pt]A lover is a giver, and it must be sacrificial giving, not giving out of abundance[/size]

Luke 21:1-4 The widows might
1 While Jesus was in the Temple, he watched the rich people putting their gifts into the collection box.
2 Then a poor widow came by and dropped in two pennies.
3 "I assure you," he said, "this poor widow has given more than all the rest of them.
4 For they have given a tiny part of their surplus, but she, poor as she is, has given everything she has." - NLT

Can you give out your last? (Time, Money and Energy) no matter how small it is…

Let’s say Lady Fx has two male friends who wooed her. On her birthday, dude F bought an item @N1000 and he is left with say N500 in his account, guy X took her for shopping spent N100k, took her for dinner and later movies.
The tendency for her to describe guy X to be in love is high, probably because of how she is configured and her level of understanding of realities (truth), hence that feeling of care you described sets in

At night, Dude F , takes N100 from his last N500 and calls her , while guy X may calls her and may also call 3, 4, 5 other ladies and tells them sweet nonsense, of course which is what ladies want to hear.
Note that, they are all giving, but one can give without loving (giving because he has to give, or to make you just feel good and get your attention) but you can’t love without giving.

But Lady FX may decide to settle for Guy X, even against sign that the guy may not be faithful, just because of financial security which she describes as Love
Also note that, No body is happy being financially down, its possible the dude F is working towards something. A little support and encouragement could make a lot of difference in Guy F life.

A know of a female nairalander who did search for job for his boo, and got a job for him, she would have said, the guy is broke , he has no job and follow another man. Today, both running businesses together while working, they got married in April.

That is love, it doesn't mean the guy was lazy. She only fulfilled the scriptures, he that finds a wife, finds a good thing ……
And another saying, behind a successful man is a woman ……

Love is a choice, you don't feel like it, but you make up your mind, hey! this is what I want

Lemme end this episode here

other topics i would love to share with you are

1. What love does
2. The dimensions of love
3. The place of attraction in relationships (so wont misunderstand me) and many others

feel free to ask questions


Prov 9:8-9
9 Teach the wise , and they will be wiser. Teach the righteous, and they will learn more. -NLT
You are blessed

well constructed dearie but we are saying the same thing. Look at it this way; if you don't have an iota of feeling for a person or thing, you won't even think of sacrificing for them. Abraham wouldn't have thought of sacrificing Isaac if he doesn't have an intense feeling towards God. He cared about everything that concerns God which shows he loves him.please tell me about the place of attraction in relationships(3)
Tank, CHEERS!

ideology:
Hmmmmmm,
Firstly, love has only one definition, if it is not love, its not.
the greatest mistake people make, I knew you will define love as feeling.

Love is not a feeling, feelings are subject to change, love does not change.

This is the problem of many relationship, its all about how they feel.
When one sees a handsome gent/ cute lady, and you feel wow, kikikikikikikioiii,

When a lady meets a guy with fat pocket or born with a golden spoon, she feels great, and tend to describe it as love, hahaha

Folks just attached themselves to the cuteness, fat pocket and fame, and claim to be in love.
They are just feeling cool because they like what they see. If any of these factors changes, wahala de. If the guy mistreats the lady consciously or unconsciously, that feeling start may start fading away. Which leads to statements like "darling, for some time now, I don't feel anything for you, lets separate for a month, maybe the feelings will blossom again " before you know what is happening, the lady meets another man, the guy may meet another lady, marriage ends, because someone will be accused of cheating.

interesting points,so please define love in your own words

love has a thousand and one definitions.one of which is that Love is An intense feeling of affection and care towards another person

ideology:
My question was what is love

ExInferis:
of course not!

that's why i spell it as "igboe". i refer to the criminals giving everyone a bad name, not the decent igbos.

never take anything online seriously, especially not on nairaland.

NOTED.

ExInferis:
Religion is about faith, and whatever people worship, as long as they sincerely believe in it, i've to respect it.

But the fakers and capitalists are fair game to be shamed and chewed to pieces, whether christian or muslim.

God speed and Cheers.

okay. Your signature caught my attention.do you hate igbos that much or what am seriously curious

ExInferis:
You're right. I shouldnt make fun of religion. Sorry.

it's a good thing you have finally realized that.thumbs up for admitting it

ideology:
You are wise, more blessings

Cc: machi25

please understand me dear, i don't want to sound too religious but both Number 2 and 3 are morally and religiously in as much as we don't practice premarital sex.my point is that personally I would go for number 2 because I can't marry someone I don't love. Love -marriage -sex is my pick

ExInferis:
point is, he's still sick after your voodoo incantation.

I'd take you seriously only when you actually heal him, Hermione, but not just when you just blow hot air like your conmen pastors are fond of doing to milk you ignorant sheep dry of every penny just so they can buy jets and castles.

suit yourself sweety am not gonna exchange words wit you if that's what you want but if you have been a victim of fake pastors and you are frustrated,it's your problem DEAL WITH IT. as for me am JESUS baby and he answers me when I call on him

Truckpusher:
Oya sorry nau.

Person no fit follow una play again?

that was rather too expensive of a joke but it's okay sha

Truckpusher:
I wasn't insulting you , I only said that your uncle could be the police officer I described above and that isn't an insult.
Una too dey vex .

if you say that, then I suggest you go back to school.your class should be -FOUNDATION ONE

ideology:
Nice response, but If you study your bible closely, you will find out that the right answer is [size=15pt]3[/size]

You can speak to an elder or your pastor, who is grounded in the Word.

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It's funny how folks, get wrong impression of no. 3

Cc:Aminat508

no 3 isn't biblically wrong but ordinarily it's archaic to me that a Guy should marry a gal he isn't sure he loves and vice versa. I can't marry him if there isn't an atom of love that I can build on.No 3 is meant for marriage by recommendation (were the spouse is recommended to someone by another person)

ExInferis:
*silence*

Cheep-cheep-cheep *crickets in the background.

Nothing happened o. Still sick.

that you are in a fight with your Maker doesn't mean that everyone is.. Go settle with God because you have all to lose if you don't. no man can strive or contend with his creator

Truckpusher:
Your uncle must be this particular policeman that I use to know.

He spends all his egunje on alcohol and prostitutes .

He will never take it home and feed his family with it and I guess this is why you've never noticed.

I won't dignify you by commenting on those insults of yours but to let you know that indeed you are a truckpusher as your name indicates.

missyadorable:
Abstaining from sex before marriage has nothing to do with religious folks and hypocrisy.That is the commandment from your creator.If you cant,say you cant.Dont use people to cover up as excuse

God bless you so much for that comment. Imagine him pushing his maker aside by ignoring what he said about sex. I can't believe it that ppl are prepared to go to HELL.#endtimeisnow

No 2 is the best for me because the Guy ought to love me first then Marry me before sexing me in compliance with the Holy Bible(the manual of life)

my uncle receives 50k per month,as for u guys talking about bribe, it's not all police officers that are corrupt as you guys think at least my uncle isn't.

Can a man put on a woman's trouser? Isn't their a difference between a woman's and a man's trousers? And why do we lay so much emphasis on trousers how about those women that wear their husbands shirts even pastors wives isn't that also part of it? How about men that tie wrapper? Plz let's focus more on our inner man than on things that matters very little That's if it matters at all.

An2elect2:
mtcheeeeeewww. A decent trouser or a skimpy skirt? Are there not customised trousers for females? Wont it be absurd if a man wears those trousers?

Hypocritical pharisees. You put all your efforts/time on trivial things that do not matter and preach another gospel that is no gospel at all

Sweety thank you so much for that comment. Can a man put on a woman's trouser? Isn't their a difference between a woman's and a man's trousers? And why do we lay so much emphasis on trousers how about those women that wear their husbands shirts even pastors wives isn't that also part of it? How about men that tie wrapper? Plz let's focus more on our inner man than on things that matters very little That's if it matters at all.

quoteauthor=Omotayor123 post=37931561] They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How True) ... Why then do ladies go into relationships Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitute).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independent

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. () when does pre marital sex become a necessity

What happened to Abstinence till Marriage
The irony of all these is that most ladies actually don't care much about the money thing rather they care more about how much the guy loves them, appreciate,respect and how far the Guy can go for their sake. Mind you money plans a role as well bcoz without it, love gets frustrating
2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belong



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
. [/color][/quote. The irony of all these is that most ladies actually don't care much about the money thing rather they care more about how much the guy loves them, appreciate,respect and how far the Guy can go for their sake. Mind you money play's an important role as well bcoz without it, love gets frustrating

Tanx alot, I live very close to ikotun there.

cactuscee:
2 5000k AC non AC 3500k. The bus take up by 5:30am in the morning.
Where do you stay?

Thanks alot for that info,i really appreciate. .Please how much is the T.fare to Abuja

juddexy2:
God is good motors. They have a clean terminal at the heart of ikotun. I use it to abj if i'm to go by land.

The word of God says 'by his stripes we are healed 'and that I should declare a thing and it shall be established,therefore I declare healing upon you prince Uche in the name of Jesus. With the power in the blood shared on the cross of Calvary, I command every imperfections in your health to be made perfect in Jesus name, amen. You are healed mr Uche

The word of God says 'by his stripes we are healed 'and that I should declare a thing and it shall be established,therefore I declare healing upon you prince Uche in the name of Jesus. With the power in the blood of Jesus shared on the cross of Calvary, I command every imperfections in your health to be made perfect in Jesus name, amen. You are healed mr Uche