Thank you all,
@ Damsal,
No there is nothing like invasion of privacy. We have access to our mails, just that I happened to read that mail first.

Well, ladies have been taking advantage of him too much, they like asking him to do things and confide in him alot, married ones, and divorced one. One happened not too long ago that made me so mad because i felt she did not do the right thing, i knew she always called my man and talk talk talk, confide in and ask for advice and she got married and still goes on to depend on him. There was a problem and that husband now saying my man talks to the wife alot, even though he too love reporting the wife to us, and the wife always call to say things about him, my man always act in helping resolve problem between them that they report to him about, now he went to say my guy talk to her alot, all this i witness and i have decided not to allow any lady come close again, he has this gentle and great personality to help out, but many lady i can count on my fingers have done harm than good intention of help, i have come to know now that they haven't been honest,

that's my reason of trying to find out her intention, ofc, she has been divorced a long time, the tone of the mail sounded like she has an agenda (mind you i did not say everything in my first msg). Now if i allow this to come in and confide and talk, talk talk and lady friendship start again, it's like am repeating what happened sometime ago.

I hate it when some ladies out there know a man is married and they still act to him like he is not married….your comment is welcome.

na wah o