It beats my imagination when i chat / talk to ladies and you hear them say that they prefer keeping male friends rather than keepin gfemale friends. How do they discuss intimate/private issues with opposite sex? At the end of the day, you descover that some of them end up having what i call "sympathy relationship". Here you see them both dating each other or thereabout.

Can i get answers to these PLEASE?

Joe
honpecco2k4@yahoo.com

this defines me ohhhhhhhhhhh, I love to keep male friends that female friends cuz am into male's world. Maybe cuz I grew up with four boys , even amongest my cuzzin, am closer to my male ones than I am to my female ones. Infact, ma closest cuzzin(male) knowz evertyhing about me and he knwoz everything about me and yes, we discuss everything.

Coming to my male friends, I havem't dated any yet and won't dare do that. We are friends and I know all their gurlsfriends, dat is the ones that do have. Men are like straight forward and hardly hard wat thay feel about eachother unlike gurl who would prefer to gossip, have their own crew etc, I am very open minded and straightward person so relating to gurl sumtimes ain't it. I have a female cuzzin like me dat have more of male friends than female but hm,, still hang out with ma gurlssssssss

is it ok for my husband to have women friends an go out to eat for lunch on there lunch break
would i be wrong to get jealous about it

i have a female co worker who say's she rather hang out with guyz than chicks, she see's chicks as overly too dramatic, and there is always this statement she likes to make *if women are fighting, there is obviously a D**K involved*. But when it comes to personal issues, i think women would rather share it with other women, no matter how tense their relationship is. just ma two cents

Because women gossip too much!

cuz most ladies are bitches!! untrustworthy n filled wit jealousy!!! Men dnt go aba bitching n gossiping aba a gals secret!!!

Word.

yeah word!

Having a guy as a friend is so cool and much more better. He wouldn't take advantage of you. Ladies?? Some things they do would make you wonder!

babymine:

Having a guy as a friend is so cool and much more better. He wouldn't take advantage of you. Ladies?? Some things they do would make you wonder!

Babymine if i were your friend and you were cute i would hit it evey instant i get.

babymine:

Because women gossip too much!

dats true n besides they never keep secrets or even keep 2 their promise immedately u guys hav a little quarel they will tell d whole public what u guys hav been discussing

i'll prefer a guy as a best frnd n confidant 2

long story

long story really. But the long and short of it all is that it keeps us in touch with our masculine sides - same as guys have loads of female confidantes. keeps them in touch with their feminine sides. Then you both know both sides of the story/game and can go out and play well. makes sense?

mizkay:

long story really. But the long and short of it all is that it keeps us in touch with our masculine sides - same as guys have loads of female confidantes. keeps them in touch with their feminine sides. Then you both know both sides of the story/game and can go out and play well. makes sense?

i didnt mean it's long in letters,i mean long for explaining ,

well u are also right

@ Topic
can u repeat the question please

because gurlz are b*tchez and no matter how much we deny it we all are. ye im a b*tch too thats why i don't tell otha b*tchez about ma problems because b*tchez will be b*tchez so therez bound 2 be problems. all girls are b*tchez period! there are just some that are bigger b*tchez than others_{*i kno i said b*tch alot but i was trying to prove a point*}

@kadeejah

you did prove a point. na me, i like am jo. the things i learn from them can never be learnt anywhere else.

uhmmmm i aint no b1tch and i dont confide in no one either girl or boy i confide in myself, my secrets are only safe with me

I Prefer that too,ve got male friends whom i sometimes confide in and i do dat cos some female can be really noisy about watever u tell dem.And some ladies can gossip like its their hobby and i 8 all dat so i prefer all to ve male friends.

na wah o

@ topic,

I've heard a lot of girls say that. and some of their reasons for that is girls gossip, backbite, are jealous etc. But i dont buy that crap. the ones that complain about these are usually the ones that do all that they complain about.

For me i dont mind having girlfriends that are mature of course.

honpecco simple they need a chest and shoulder to rest on in times of need, lol

cause i think my friends who are guys are more trust worthy than my girl friends,girls tend to talk a lot and so a secret is never safe with us.

If I want to let anything out, I can tell anyone. Otherwise, my heart is big enough to accommodate and nurture my secrets 

Radiant:

If I want to let anything out, I can tell anyone. Otherwise, my heart is big enough to accommodate and nurture my secrets

your so right.
i always tell my friends. if you want to have a secret keep it to yourself. that way you know its still a secret. unless you said it in your dream or while drunk.
meanwhile i think guys gossip more. _{unless its just my own friends}

Guys their own is worse than when girls gossip. Damn!!!

i know.

@Radiant and Nilla
hhhmm i guess you girls have never been betrayed before by your girl friends.dont get me wrong i have got girl friends but i think out of the multitude its only two i can bring myself to trust.yea guys have their mishaps but i think if you have a guy as a friend (i mean genuine friend,he is not down to date or flirt with you.but just wants to be your friend)he is far more trust worthy than a girl friend.experience has taught me that.

ThoniaSlim:

@Radiant and Nilla
hhhmm i guess you girls have never been betrayed before by your girl friends.don't get me wrong i have got girl friends but i think out of the multitude its only two i can bring myself to trust.yea guys have their mishaps but i think if you have a guy as a friend (i mean genuine friend,he is not down to date or flirt with you.but just wants to be your friend)he is far more trust worthy than a girl friend.experience has taught me that.

Sweetie i have been betrayed by a girlfriend before. so i know where your coming from. Girls can be downright malicious. Guys aren't really malicious but they can disrespect you in different ways.
For me i really dont put that much trust in people, so that when something happens I'm not too surprised.

Kadeejah:

because gurlz are b*tchez and no matter how much we deny it we all are. ye im a b*tch too thats why i don't tell otha b*tchez about ma problems because b*tchez will be b*tchez so therez bound 2 be problems. all girls are b*tchez period! there are just some that are bigger b*tchez than others_{*i kno i said b*tch alot but i was trying to prove a point*}

girl,
if you feel your one, you can claim it, but dont generalize and call all girls b1tches.

Kadeejay, what's the meaning of B!TCH?


Thonia, I need not to be told to nurture and pamper my secrets!!! Period!

i love girls, they are better friends than men