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virginboy1:
She is 4 years older than you.
She has 2 kids,
she nags.
She is south african(remember this is part of the reasons their men antagonizes foreigners).
Bros,don't rush into her ooo.
That kind lady can be frustrating at the longrun.

Yeah, I agree totally.
sometimes, love is just not enough, be more logical than emotional.

stinggy:
Happy Birthday to one of the NL's oldies





































HBD friend, confidant and in-law. Wish you all the best life has to offer, age gracefully..
Have a fab celebration!

*inlaw*...kontinu!
Happy Birthday sweetest chimkaire! Sent you a pm

DuchessLily:
I was wondering same abt d canopy thingy.


OP maybe she is his mum, not grandmum

Naaah..his grandma.. his mother is very very pretty.. they were at his younger's bro's wedding yest, not driving.

Divorce him sharply, no second tots..
God forbid bad tin

There's absolutely no guy on earth that has all these qualities in one biko...
Every guy has his flaws!

stinggy:


**she knows, ohh she really knows**

I'm elated, now we can plan the traditionals, abi?

And the white wedding too

Chisox

falconey:
hey! You think I really need a girl? If not their soft skin,boobs, butts and punny I won't even talk to them.


But remember this "a man shall not live alone". As if you don't need it(us).

'man shall not live by bread alone'.
This is my last comment here.. and if you haven't learnt anything from this thread, learn it now.
If you truly care about someone, giving in the relationship shouldn't be an issue, especially when you know the other party deserves it, she's true to you, and helps u when u're in need too, if she's in need, and you deny her, don't cry if she leaves you for a man who does better for her..you should question where ur babe gets funds from if she's not working and doesn't have a capable family and doesn't ask you! dont be too attached to how much material tins u spend on ur deserving chic..
And if your current gf is unnecessarily being a blood sucking demon, it's simple, find someone else.

falconey:
maybe and maybe not.

The fact is girls are so demanding, using sex as a tool to get what they want. Not all girls are broke or demanding.

But all girls ask a thing or two from their BF ,its not like it is our nature to give but the ROD between our legs need satisfaction ni.

And when we get what we want, we think of everything and say "it aint worth it"

Ehen? Since its the 'ROD' that's making you give, biko tame it, or service it yourself? That way u can keep all your cash to yourself
Abi?

Linqsz:
I know there are good ones. But must we encounter the bad ones before the good ones surface?

It's too much to endure.
All this girls asking for things their dad can't provide for them,yet they will get angry if you tell them you don't have money for foot her bills now. Bills that you've been paying before oh!
They lack commitment and understand.

Na to dey collect them sabi,dem no go fit give.
And they will be seeing having with us as a favour to us.




Don't mind me if I sound pained,because that's how my current relationship is.

Like Jemimaa01 has said, stop dating broke gals oh!! There are girls dat don't ask a dime from their bfs.
Meanwhile, asking what their fada can't provide? (dat 1 vex me small) because you're equally collecting what your mother can't give u ni (sex)! Lol.. i'm joking.
Just stop dating broke girls, ok?

falconey:
LWKM haahaaaahhaahaha madam gift ooo

I am the boyfriend remember? why can't I?

I am not the kind of BF that act like a GF in a relationship.

Proof or I don't believe.
Not saying you act like the gf..but like I earlier said, guys like you that talk much about things like this actually do the exact opposite. The stingy bfs don't talk about it, it's just who dey are.

Linqsz:
We're not always like this,not until we meet that lady that makes us regret our actions.

Never ever say that!
If a woman is capable of changing your true nature, then I don't know wat to say...
Meaning we can as well justify 'blood sucking gfs' because they too at one point of their lives, loved someone so genuinely, gave them their all and even helped dem up wen dey were down financially and still got jilted! Hence, they became wat they are now.

For me, no man or woman can stop me from being good. If it's my nature, then it's bound to be, it only hurts to see pple take undue advantage sometimes, but one tin shud always come to mind, there are still good ones out there.

falconey:
ASSOCIATION OF NAIJA BOYFRIENDs are angry we must let our babes know!

You must let your babe know you're angry.
And I bet you can't even tell her one word about this your thread.

falconey:
I swear on my left ball. I didn't check your profile before making that statement .

90percent of girls apply all these artificial stuffs to attract and deceive men.

I saw some on your DP I can expatiate on that but I rather not.

There nothing to buttress on Oga, i'm not wearing a fake hair nor lashes, neither does my skin looks bleached.
So relax on my end, and focus on the 'context' (your words) of your thread.
Thank you.

Linqsz:
Truth. But what if the girl has nothing to offer but sex?

By d way; you're pretty.

Thanks.
Why would you in the 1st place date a girl who has nothing else to offer but sex?
The thing about you guys is you go about chasing anything flashy, *big butt* *big boobs* loud makeups* long extensions of hair* without questioning the character and mental capabilities of these girls, tmr, these guys come here to complain they have blood sucking demons as GF.. when u met your girlfriend in club, paid for her drinks and slept with her dat same night(or any other night), and still you started dating her,wat do you expect from such a girl?
There are lots of intelligent girls with very bright futures everywhere.. you get wat you seek..

falconey:
you misinterpreted the context we are talking about GF not men spending on women.

Then focus on the context and not my looks!

falconey:
LWKM you really got me there but your last statement killed everything "its not something a real man should brag about"

Fake girls wanting real men. Is your hair real? Your face(make-up)? Your skin(bleaching) your eyelashes? Let me stop here.

When you marry that's when you will know your wife, her birth skin,her real eyelashes,her hair. We know it now we just pretend we don't.

Don't try to start what you can't finish now oh? Go and look at my profile and modify your statement about my looks, okay?
And I maintain, A REAL man won't brag about how much he spends on HIS woman, not any woman.

falconey:
guys at a spot what's the highest cash you ever spent or gave that your GF then or now(not wife for married niggaz). And what exactly did you spend it on?

Mine is 3,450naira she was sick so I bought provisions; bournvita,peak milk, and sugar( she is my ex now) I wish I can get my money back.

Lil wonder she's your ex. Very funny tho, i'm having a hard time believing, because I've come to understand that guys who make mouth about not spending money on chics are actually the ones who spend a lot more.
If what you typed is true, then I can only but question the kind of girls you date, You never jam..
And the deal about spending money on someone you love or claim to love shudnt be announced am far as concerned, it's not someone a REAL man should brag about.

So sorry hun.
Ignore the alcohol and weed smoking advice.
I'll advice you block her from all ur social networks for now, don't try to spy on her at all, keep away from her as far as possible..
Keep yourself busy, find a good distraction, chatting with someone new wud help too (if the person is interesting and sensible tho)
Then forgive her...forgiving her doesn't excuse her behaviour, it wud just prevent it from weighing you down.
It's very very painful, I can relate. Just don't let it get to you too much and don't even try considering anything suicidal, she's not worth ending your life for.
Lastly, give it time, time heals almost anytin. You'll be fine hun

Love knows no age na
Besides, this man is still very good looking(and of cause loaded )
But then, who are we to judge?...
Enjoy ur life o jare and happy birthday to ur millionaire abi billionaire hubby Dabota.

Thermodynamics:
Meeen the guy is really scared, Enugu people do like money a lot, and they are also very selfish, they think about money all the time, they never do something for free, all they ever think of is how to gain from you.

NOTE: I SAID ENUGU PEOPLE, not IGBO people.
I hope he get our of this though.


I am not Yoruba by the way.

May God be with him.[/quote[quote]

Don't be tribalistic jor, there are good and bad people everywhere!
Character knows no tribe, race or religion.

The love of money..always the root of all evil..
Too bad, lesson learnt the hard way

She's clearly just seeking attention..msheeeeew

chimkaire:
You no dey play
No try am ooo

Lmao.. na plaay I dey na

chimkaire:
Cc: madamGift
I told you
He's good @ it

Am so seeing it now ...
I have no words for him!

stinggy:
She'll surely believe me than you, I trust her

Be there trusting, I wee just fall ur hand now

galaxi:
there is nothing good about them, they will never apprecaite you and read meaning to every action,the always find it hard to trust you and always have a reason to remind you how wicked men are....even you, run away from them if you are below 40years and have never been married before.

Don't say wat you don't know. How many single mom's have u been with?

chimkaire:
I didn't say anytin oooooo

Say something now oh, let me know if he's cheating on me, sister to sister

maxy097:
Spiritual wife, ayam hungry

You hand press pause? Make something to eat or do fastfood or slowfood.
;DHFFO....Husband For Food only!

maxy097:
Right here....

Lol.. spiritual husband

stinggy:
Calling on me?

If only u are ready