₦airaland Forum

@poster trust me it will not happen this nite.

[quote author=em-jay link=topic=408151.msg5629512#msg5629512 date=1267739158]I'm really sad, I'm not really the talking type. I feel the need to have someone I can talk to. Someone I don't know, someone that doesn't know me. I've done things I'm not proud of. I'm hurting and I really need someone to listen.

I feel kind of silly doing this, but I cant really talk to my friends. I'm normally the one that cheers them up, but I need someone who is for me. And I apologise in advance that you will never know my real name. Life has taught me that the world is indeed small, a little too small,[/quote]i will be more than happy to help, gbachano@yahoo.com. i also need someone to talk to, got my problems. hope to hear from u.

meat for the belly and belly for the meat,God shall destroy both it and them, the body is not for fornication the body is of God and God for the body,1 cor 6 -13, if God lives in the body y then soil it with fornication, remember God is holy and anything that worships him should be holy, no one said u shouldnt have se=x but y cant u wait till marriage. Then u have as much as u want. God bless

the easiest way to find out is for u to pray and ask God to show you the true existence of life after death. during my secoundery school days my C.R.K teacher told use to pray that way for a week, we did and most people had dreams to prove it. and i belive for anyone that have douths let him or her pray like dat.with Gods mercy he will reveal to the willing heart. God bless

i no wan poor again, for pounds, can it be? if not dollars. lol

guys i dont knw what to say. i need moni. moni moni moni. if u can help pls drop ur number.9ja wan kill me oooo. no job, no moni, no food, etc

Can it be true that most people in the world dont see anything wrong in having sex before marriage? The think being holy have to do with the mind and not the body? Are people confused or what?

@paulonline lol

I need moni moni moni moni , take my manho*d give me moni. if u can help drop ur number.

I was in love with this lady for years but the circumstances that brought us together made me not to show her how much i love and felt for her, a female friend of mine introduced her to me and since then i couldnt forget her. i made a move during my university days and when the female lady that introduced her to me  noticed what was happen she quarreled with her so that made me pull back, the funny thing was that i thought  we were just friends.
After my service year i made up my mind to approach her and tell her how i felt for her,one thing lead to another and the courage to open up was also missing, when i finally made up my mind to call her, her number wasnt going through, i was forced to call her friend because i then belive that i should fight for my happiness, to my surprise  she told me that she died a week before my call.i thought she was joking not until i saw her poster few minute later, i stood motionless for minutes. i  didnt know what to think,

I ended up saying if i had known i would have told her how i felt  maybe just maybe she will fight death and be alive till now,it is 6 months now i lost her,"HAPPINESS R.I.P,I luv u". It was because of the loss and pain that made me befriend that God forsaken girl that messed my life up. thank God we broke up on feb.

THIS IS A WAY TO TELL MY FELLOW NL IF YOU LOVE A PERSON SO MUCH PLS DONT HESITATE TO EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS, the person you see today may not be tomorrow. life is short enjoy it.

if u hav any luved one u have lost pls share with us. thanks

[quote author=e-mail link=topic=405642.msg5614409#msg5614409 date=1267544968]Madukaeleeee Eh! Ele. Preaching, preaching. I see you dont even understand yourself. Smooch and you'll see that you might lose her again. Not a prayer though. Understand that a Christian sister may not know you want to use it to keep the relationship. Think through my fellow NLer.[/quote]lol, u r right in some cases, but remember, i mean very strong relationship. lol. anyway better smooch dan se=x her dats my advice.

OLUJIME:
yes i know is good to tell the truth always. but what if this guy doesn't love you and after telling him you are a virgin, he pretends to love you with the intention of taking the pride away from u?

let him knw u r a virgin, dont allow him take ur pride, if he insist on se=x , den it show he only wants u disflowered, a good guy will let u hold ur pride, dont b afraid and dont think u will not meet a better guy if he leaves, hold urs pride ,b warned does dat have dis virgined r jealous and can tell u all kinds of thing to mak u lose ur, pls dont. is ur pride. u hv ur body. a good husband will take u as a priceless treasure, dont lose d hapy ending cos of some silly desire.

Everyone pls read my post in religion about the 11th commandment and pls drop any comment , your comments will be appreciated .

THE AMAKA hi, how are you doing? <------- just want u to knw i respect u a lot, lady of integrity, we need more of u in dis world.

I filled a form last year December for the payment of S.I.W.E.S money which should be 15,000. I have feeling is a scam, can it be true? , since then i havnt received any alert, will it ever come did anyone fill the form also?

sjeezy8:
Number 1) shes not yoruba
Number 2) she already knows her yansh is mine
Number 3) poster you are a goat

i am in love with her like it or not dats not my buisness.

reasons for loving her,she is
1 beautiful
2 intelligent
3 wise
4 loving
5 sweet
6 soft even though she thinks she is hard
7 understanding
8 caring
9 soo sweet
10 lively
11 homely
12 hardworking
13 full of energy
14 like a treasure
15 i luv her because i cant luv any other, she stole my heart completly.

michealin89 will u marry me ,

googles:
[size=13pt]duh
you think its all about you innit?
i just asked you to read the OP all over
nd check your own post
b'sides r231 is fine if he pain you enter bush [/size]

i visited romance cos i needed to see someone, if u wan talk to me, come to religious section dats if ur a believer. am off

googles:
[size=13pt]maybe you need to read the OP again little friend [/size]

watin i do u? i dey on my own oooo. weh ur husband?

The relationship i entered last, the lady wasnt a virgin i decided to overlook it cos it isnt easy to be one, but i had problem with her becos she lied to me saying she only screwed one guy when she screwed every guy that came her way, u see if u say u r a virgin d guy will want to be sure if he finds out u lied then is a problem, if u tell him u r not, he loves u and continue with the relationship. if he ask u hw many guys tell him the truth atleast let him start trusting u, if u lie and he finds out himself then u will probable loose him completely, a guy that is urs is urs so build the relationship with truth and trust, If my ex told me the truth ,she will still be mine but she didnt , i dont trust her even if she decides to say the truth. is over. PLs dont make the same mistake. a guy that luvs u luvs u. show him u can be trusted. dats what he wants to be sure of.

@ poster A lady can never 4get a guy dat disvirgined her, she will always have dat soft spot for the guy, dats y guy need virgins

wey does guys wey dey worry me, i made up the moni i lost and more profit, so no more yabbing, i dey religious zone nw.

when i said relationship i thought u will understand i meant courtship. lol. like i said is the 11th commandment , if u cant hold urself y do it, self discipline plays a good role here.

@ nimshi, i only ask becos u talk like a child. say less dan 25 yrs, any way r u afraid of satan? if yes fear God more he may be slow to anger but be careful.

i said smooch in a relationship not marriage, pls giv your self time and try not to fight an answer immediately, to keep a good relationship that will hopfully lead to marriage smooching is no sin for me, i didnt say smooch anyone u see or hv intimacy, if smooching is intimacy y hv a diff name for it. 10 commandment is for our good not God.
how will u feel if u see another guy digging ur lady u love so much, pain right? dats y we shouldnt fornicate, for our good.

Nimshi:
You've asked a direct question, I'll answer directly - as a lesson to you, and as a reminder of your ineffective attempt to evade sirent questions asked you:

A tree is a tree, and a fruit is its fruit: many times a tree may be inedible, but the fruit would be succulent, providing nutrients. Heck, a tree may not produce any fruit, at which point a certain prophet may be so mad as to 'curse't he fruit and decree it to die. There're clear differences, marked by distinctions, between a tree and its fruit. Any follow-up question?

Now, to one of the questions you've refused to answer:

1) is there any difference between adultery in thought and doing  it - to coin a phrase - for real?

is not the same,most times we cant control our minds. dat doesnt mean i hv sinned does it?Jesus used dat to save the lady dats it. i disagree to belive is the same.

u r right, most marriages in africa is based on poor religious doctrine, the bible accepts divorce but africa refuses, africa suffers more cos the belive wrongly. the still see God as brutal and hot tempered, God was only trying to make rules work. the whites accepted the change and amended some which i belive Jesus also did only dat all his activity on earth wasnt recorded in the bible.

like the bible said "my people perish because of lack of wisdom." if u read the 11th commandment i wrote u will see what i mean, God wants us to live hapily but we refuse and we accept unnessary punishment to ourself. i was once like u, i hated the bible, i hated God, but then i knew even the pastors dont knw God as they think the do,  belive me God is simple and different from what people think. trust me i dont even argue with the so called pastors. only God can judge that all i belive.
just obey d 10 commandment and then do what u think is right, as far as no one gets hurt.

anyother pastor in the house? pls trow more lights

[quote author=e-mail link=topic=405642.msg5603142#msg5603142 date=1267390740]Now i really think ure confused. Your relationship ended because of intimacy and you now go about smooching maybe all the sisters you know. Haba! That relationship was not meant to last so stop crying because you were saved from death. Intimacy (fornication) is death- thats what i call it![/quote]never said i smooched anybody i see, i see it as a way to keep a relationship. reignite the love. anyway like i said is the 11th commandment.

Nimshi:
First off: aren't you - even slightly - disgusted by the idea of human sacrifice?

How could you proclaim as moral an action that punishes someone supposedly innocent, by painful, slow death, no less, for the acts of another?

No worthy member of our species would accept human sacrifice as fine.

"God allowed slaves for a good purpose" ?? What purpose was that??

how old are u? why i am asking is because the physical world isnt the same the spiritual realm is, in the spiritual realm sacrifices is what makes covenant, but before i go on do u belive in the existence of satan?

[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=403726.msg5593321#msg5593321 date=1267229236]@ Kgdavid

please ignore those that try to make it seem as if discussing intimacy is a taboo or discussing it among the youth is. I applaud your pastor for actually tackling the issue.

intimacy is a gift from God, it is not evil, it isn't a taboo. It is beautiful, it is pleasurable, it is sacred, and from it we get new life.

But as with all gifts given to us by God, we humans with our fallen nature can abuse it.

Ways of abusing intimacy are:

Fornication
Adultery
self-service
indecency
Homosexual intimacy

intimacy is not meant to be selfish, or self-gratification. It is a giving of oneself to another, it is a giving of one's self to one's spouse.[/quote]before i make my statement are u a virgin? if yes then read 11th commandment b4 u conclude.

Nimshi:
What about those children that are spontaneously aborted?

That's what happens to about 40% of all pregnancies: aborted without any human intervention.

Who takes responsibility for that?

.

nature gives nature takes, dont abort cos if u dont want a child why get pregnant orless for a special reason like abnormality, sickle cell or any other related cases. abortion is part of the 11th commandment i wrote, u can read it. thanks

Nimshi:
So Jesus convicts people for 'thought crime'?

That policing of thoughts must be tedious.

That apart, tell: is there is difference between someone who does it and someone who merely thoughts about it? There's got to be a difference for the sake of justice, no? What's Jesus' proper interpretation, since you appear to know his mind?

.

have been following your post recently, i find it interesting, u remind me of myself when i was still trying to understand God, i must admit some places in the bible i dont read till date cos of how brutal God was then , u see God wanted to use force and instant judgment on people but instead of things working right it turned out bad, so that was y God gave us the new covenant with Jesus. Jesus used wisdom to make the people realize that the old law doesnt hold again by saying "Whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. Let him who has no sin cast the first stone."because if he didnt put it that way belive me the woman will died, remember their were greater number of virgins then. so someone will surely throw stone. LUV UR CONFIDENCE, pls do ask more questions on what makes u uncomfortable with christ.

Nimshi:
Isn't it rather short-sighted that rules made for a tribe in the Middle Eastern desert would also apply to all peoples everywhere and for all eternity? Think about it. How could it be that the rules that guided a tribe of slaves from Egypt across the seas wandering around would also be relevant today?

And if the Hebrew tribal god is all that moral, how come he never righted the wrongs of slavery?

And, if sins only hurts humans, why should god be all that concerned?

.

. the bible made us to knw that God love man so much that he is in the affairs of man , "who is man that u r so mindful of him?" "he gave his only begotten son to die for our sins" and many more about his love for us, why do u think the law of karma holds till date?God didnt bring slavery, he ended it. during the old testament God allowed slaves for a good purpose but man used it for bad reason so in the new testament he made it clear that all man is equal. prove he gave his son for everyone, he also gave salvation for everyone and also the holy spirit. these and many more are in the bible to prove it.