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If you are waiting for an apology, don’t hold your breath.

I can never find myself in this living room.

basilico:
His partner the trans is 22 year old Lance Twiggs.
The democrat party brand is just toxic.
Have you also forgotten how a judge who is not a lawyer freed the 14 time criminal who killed the Ukrainian refugee? His mother had disagreed with the judge wanting him institutionalized.The left is all about protecting criminals .

Please stop reposting what you have read somewhere else. I read both, liberal and conservative news outlets and your comments, all of them, are completely free of independent thought.

cococandy:
I should probably start bottling up my intuition and selling it because I’ve hardly been wrong about anyone. Before he became obviously unhinged, Nigerians loved him and kept praising him for his “innovative” ideas bla bla bla. Like he was pulling them with magnet or something. I was just wondering why I they couldn’t see what was so obvious to any discerning observer.

I guess he has to be blatant like this before they get it.

I never paid too much attention to but it baffles me how they could have kept defending him even after he started supporting Trump. I think to some of them he just fell from their grace after his fall from the White House. Some people are their own worst enemies.

Softmirror:
If to say Charlie Kirk is British ehn, 😊 Kemi for collect Wotowoto from the guy like machine gun. 😁


"The American Democrat party hates this country. They wanna see it collapse. They love it when America becomes less white".

– The Charlie Kirk Show, 20 March 2024


"If we would have said that Joy Reid and Michelle Obama and Sheila Jackson Lee and Ketanji Brown Jackson were affirmative action picks, we would have been called racists. Now they’re coming out and they’re saying it for us … You do not have the brain processing power to otherwise be taken really seriously. You had to go steal a white person’s slot to go be taken somewhat seriously" .

– The Charlie Kirk Show, 13 July 2023

It's an irony how someone who makes mocking remarks of others death is getting this kind of attention.

In 2021, while delivering a speech in Mankato, Minn., Mr. Kirk called George Floyd — the Black man whose murder by a Minneapolis police officer in 2020 provoked a broad racial justice movement — a “scumbag” who wasn’t worthy of the attention.

We live in scary times. People feel drawn to people who deny others their humanity and are proud of their cruelty. God help us.

basilico:
Tyler Robinson roommate was a transgender. He helping FBI and his input was vital in nailing him.
Charlie Kirk is straight who preached about a complete family. Father Mother and children if you don't know.
That would add impetus to Tyler hating Kirk.

You will believe whatever you want to believe.

benalvino3:
South Koreans "we are Charlie kirk"
https://fxtwitter.com/DefiantLs/status/1966908942686318954

From Australia, to new Zealand, to Germany, England Charlie is an icon.

No we are not.

basilico:
Trump is not my hero. I agree with him on most issues because I don't like liberals reasoning and conduct. Look at what havoc your god Obama left in libya, Syria,Iraq .There was no media to call him.out. I can call him a stealth jihadist
Before he became president,CNN was a reliable news network.So many journalists and media houses had their biases but they strove to be balanced. Enter the tin god,I don't know whether he spied abd blackmailed them ,but journalism was thrown out of the window. Hatred was allowed to foster. When Trump won,media officially became the democrat PR department.

I don’t have time to dissect your writing for all the nonsense you are spewing here. Trump is your hero if you don’t see the damage he is causing domestically (division) and internationally (throwing allies under the bus and rolling out the red carpet to Putin). Bye.

basilico:
Trump answers questions in his office, en flight. He goes to CNN CBS etc for interviews
I'm.sure you can see a problem,why democrats are able to get away with lies.10 media stations granted interviews respectively



Barack Obama (2009–2017)
ABC News (Liberal)
CBS News (Liberal)
NBC News (Liberal)
CNN (Liberal)
Univision (Liberal)
Al Arabiya (Neutral)
PBS (Liberal)
MTV (Liberal)
MSNBC (Liberal)
Fox News (Conservative)

Donald Trump (2017–2021)
Fox News (Conservative)
NBC News (Liberal)
CBS News (Liberal)
ABC News (Liberal)
CNN (Liberal)
Christian Broadcasting Network-CBN (Conservative)
One America News Network-OANN (Conservative)
Newsmax (Conservative)
CNBC (Liberal)
PBS (Liberal)

Joe Biden (2021–2025)
ABC News (Liberal)
CBS News (Liberal)
NBC News (Liberal)
CNN (Liberal)
MSNBC (Liberal)
Univision (Liberal)
Telemundo (Liberal)
ESPN (Neutral)
PBS (Liberal)
BET (Liberal)


They only go to TV Stations where they most likely have questions before hand or they won't be asked anything serious by fawning activists pretending to be journalists.
Unlike Trump who goes deep into enemy territory and entertains their questions any time.

Your hero was too cowardly to debate Harris for a second time. Spare me with this your nonsense list. When did Trump last give an interview on a liberal network? How many journalists did he exclude from White House press conferences? Nonsense with ingredients.

cococandy:
Just two day in? 2 days? Nah.

I’d be in bed inconsolable. Someone would have to come get my kids for a bit or live with us temporarily because I wouldn’t be able to function.

But everyone is different I guess. Side eye

It might be trauma. People suffering a traumatic experience often don’t understand what’s happening until days or weeks later. I don’t know, dear. I would probably need very strong tranquilizers.

cococandy:
For someone whose husband just dyed 2 days ago, this rehearsed performance comes off as inauthentic. Dry tear ducts. The obviously orchestrated managed emotions. Very uncomfortable to observe .

Most people would be distraught in active mourning.

Obviously there is no “correct” way to act after something like this happens to your husband but pushing his organization like a commercial was so weird. I think certain people are definitely using her to push their agenda further.

Watch closely , next thing you know she’ll be capitalizing off his death and running for office.

I didn’t even listen. I read about it and was thinking that it’s extremely weird to make a public appearance so soon. But what do I know, maybe it’s trauma that makes her deny the gravity of her husband’s death.

basilico:
So Charlie Kirk used to hold "Prove me Wrong " debates. Everyone welcome to challenge his ideas on literally everything he believed in You go do your research and ask him questions which he would try his level best to answer
He wasn't like a social media influencer with 20 million folliwers who post content that goes viral , with a large chunk believing what was posted.
No, he was ask me personally I'll be here on this day to take your questions.
For tha, t they celebrate his death May his soul rest in peace. May his efforts bear fruit.

To spoil this. When was Obama or Biden ever asked any question by a credible journalist or panelist. Answer: Never ever including in presidential debates

When was Trump anywhere but on Fox Garbage News?

budaatum:
I think that is why people (leaders especially) should act responsibly and be careful what they say.

I see what you did here.

Trust me when I say that kindness is not your problem. Nuff said.

TONYE001:
Whoever teaches you guys these things has defrauded you all.

Funny how many of you think you sound smart, but in reality, your lines of thought are distant from facts.

A wife a liability? Just how? Your positions on husband-wife matters are strongly suggestive of childhood faulty family settings since our parents are the first to introduce the concept of marriage to us.

Now, I won't just stop at attacking you and your likes; I'll make frank efforts to educate you:

1. No, a wife is in no way a liability. In fact, the ideal husband-wife relationship isn't a business transaction where one can be labelled an asset, and the other, a liability. Ideally, a marriage is a setting in which a husband and a wife come together to work up a project - the family project. Both parties contribute according to their abilities; ideally, there is no fixed law guiding this collaboration. No law should dictate if the husband should bring A and the wife, B. This is because the union is fluid-like, it does not assume any particular conformation. Where one party is unable to bring A, the other party easily compensates. Like this, both husband and wife support each other, and do a lot of sacrifices backstage.

2. The African tradition has plastered an annoying stereotype in our heads. The African man easily thinks that the husband is the sole provider. In fact, this is not just a thing of tradition or culture; it actually reeks of ego, unhealthy ego and pride. DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY HOMES THAT ARE RUN BY WOMEN?? You just have no idea! In one Nigerian study, researchers noted that female breadwinning is becoming "increasingly common" in urban settings (Akanle and Nwaobiala, 2019). In another study that sampled Nigerian primary school teachers, results showed that in over 70% of families, females/wives are the breadwinners ((Nnubia, Ibeanu, and Okechukwu, 2020). The concept of female breadwinning would have been there decades before now if not for the skewed African culture many of our parents and grandparents practice(d) (this culture NEVER MADE SENSE; essentially, it is a STUPID idea to deprive women of education and empowerment, depriving women of their rights to steps that would have ensured their independence shows how insecure our forefathers were). Just imagine how the family structure has changed since females started achieving independence, especially financial independence. Now, because they now have money, wives support their families...and in multiple instances, they RUN/SPONSOR their families.

Let me explain more. Females are more motivated, more caring (biologically), and more ambitious than men (Tao, 2014; Wicht, Miyamoto, and Lechner, 2022; Naz, Shah, and Qayum, 2020). Even among Nigerian populations, the findings are similar (Ojule, 2024). With these attributes, females are likely to be more successful than males IF ALL THINGS ARE ALLOWED EQUAL. Imagine they were allowed access to financial independence long before now? If this were the case, many families would have been liberated from poverty long before the current generation. So, partly, it's the African culture that has made poverty strongly palpable across families today.

3. How can you call the woman that births your children a liability? Why did you not have those kids with the side chick? This is callous thinking and demonstrates a heightened level of irresponsibility. With this thinking, I should feel pity for any woman you end up with. Perhaps, intending spouses should be submitting their social media handles before marriage. With a post like this, I wonder if any woman would want to settle with you (that's if you aren't married already).

4. If you fall sick or run into difficult situations, who would stand by your side? The side chick? Mabel Okungbowa is a Nigerian wife who donated a kidney to her husband. Would a side chick do this? Who is present throughout the growth of the children? A side chick?

5. A more personal example. I went back to school roughly 2 years after getting married. At the time, I and my wife were concluding our master's-degree programmes. I was working, my wife was too, but not something rewarding, just something to keep her CV busy. I resigned from my work, went back to school for a third degree - MBBS. I was in medical school for 7 whole years. In these years, my wife was my strongest support system. If not for that lady, I wouldn't be a medical doctor today. She helped me realize my dream, and in so doing, she gave up some important moves that would have skyrocketed her career. My wife did a whole lot, a whooooooollllllleeee lot. Every single day of our 11 years of marriage so far, I make sure I let wifie know how grateful I am! In my family group chat, when discussing with my parents and siblings, I ensure I let them know all my wife does. I want my people to know about her sacrifices...just in case I pass on before her. And, thankfully, my family appreciates her! Is there a side chick in this whole world and in the heavens that would have done a millionth of what my wife did? Nope! How can anyone call a wife a liability?

6. Just like I had said, when it comes to husband-wife matters, many people think they sound smart, but in truth, their positions in the matter displays ignorance and poor parental orientation....like Gehgeh (or whatever he's called). Women are doing a lot on the family front. Many are sacrificing their lives just for the family to succeed. Many would have been professors, millionaires, heads of great corporations, international figures if not for the fact that they are wives and mothers......though I do not support this (I would create a thread about this one day).

Dear Nigerian women, dear wives and mothers, on behalf of the many grateful husbands of yours, I say THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO. We see your works, your sacrifices, your doings. Maybe we should be speaking out more so this horrible narrative about you won't be extended to the next generation.

NB: I'm guessing that many commenters on this thread are single young guys. This post is educative, and you all are the exact targets. You all may not accept it, but I'm grateful for those that will.

Links to References (in no particular order)

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0021909619880283?utm=

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/13668803.2020.1797634

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341758004_Gender_Differences_in_Motivation_And_Academic_Achievement_A_Study_Of_the_University_Students_of_KP_Pakistan

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0362331914000354

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/343576708_Are_Girls_More_Ambitious_Than_Boys_Vocational_Interests_Partly_Explain_Gender_Differences_in_Occupational_Aspirations

https://www.tnhjph.com/index.php/tnhj/article/view/817#:~:text=Females%20are%20more%20motivated%20to,affiliation%2C%20and%20enjoyment%20than%20males.

God bless you and your wife, sir.

Nnamdipapa:
Love is a mere emotion which is overrated and subject to manipulations my friend. Most times, one party is taking advantage of the other in the name of love.

Emotions or their lack of are a powerful force influencing our decisions, actions and relationships.

Thanks for the answer though.

kushme:
In other words, what are females whose relationships and marriages failed teaching girls?

You got it still, right?

Na only man dey make relationships fail, abi? They blame men for their failed responsibilities as well.

The logical gender strikes again.

There is no movement of girls/women with failed relationships/marriages teaching girls about men/marriage. It’s your red pill heroes who do that. Losers raising losers.

Nnamdipapa:
Me dig? Mbanu!

I am not bothered about her cheating on me and she knows that. I don't have time to dig around and look for supposed evidence of cheating. I might even be amenable to an open relationship from both side. Life is too sweet to be digging around monitoring someone.

Do you love your wife if I may ask?

kushme:
Red pill was primarily created out of families and responsibilities. Older guys whom had been there, done that,left or still in the plantation like Nnamdipapa, are the ones teaching their experience.

Wetin smalll boys know about red pilll experience?

In other words, guys whose relationships and marriages failed are teaching boys how to fail.

Got it.

pocohantas:
E dey happen offline kwa. Trauma bonding is real. But thinking every woman wants that drama is the exact reason they end up divorced.

Like I said, they gonna learn. Just sorry for the kids in these unions.

pocohantas:
Abi na. He should marry and apply it to his wife.
Life no suppose hard.

All this online gra gra.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Raincheck!
Ain't nobody gonna outgrow no Redpill any time soon.

The clouds are just beginning to form.

Feel the environment and find out its gradually becoming common knowledge.

I pity wives of the next generation because they'll have to deal with toxic husbands who can expertly manipulate their emotions and get away with a lot.
Men they'll be helplessly attached to, yet cannot control or walk away from.

The monsters you all made.

In your circle, not mine.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Isn't that what y'all call a boring husband?

The one that doesn't get coochie unless he's a good boy during the day or it's a very special occasion?

What happened to the emotional high and the one who keeps his wife on her toes?

Or, is this just another pretentious, 'romantically correct' opinion?

When you people grow up and start your own families with all the responsibilities that come along with running a home and taking care of children, you will outgrow all your red pill nonsense philosophies.

As a woman, that’s the area that I want to be in control of. I don’t know how men can comfortably rely on some random girlfriend to use their DNA as they deem fit.

Starz825:
This means...there must have been a good reason they didn't come up with a pill for men

They have.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/male-birth-control-pill-yct-529-passes-human-safety-test/

bayelsaowei:
americans are yet to feel the pain and stewpidity of RFK In the health sector. By the time that awful man and Trump are done with them.

I hope no Democrat will come to clean the mess before they feel it.

AmazonTopaz:
Still MAGA follows him above anything else so he shouldn't die. He should continue like that.

Amen.

cococandy:
Oh trust me. No matter what happens to him, it won’t be the end of the mess that’s in the White House now. He was just the distraction. An entertaining evil ediot if you will. But evil nonetheless.

Nothing he’s signed into action via executive orders were any of his ideas. He never wrote any of what he signed and he barely read any of them. He didn’t even know what was on them. The people puppeteering him have entrenched themselves into positions of influence and now MAGA or not, Trump dead or alive, it won’t make that much of difference unless they all go.

My sister, whatever the case may be, I want them to pay for their stewpidity. Every single ediot who voted for him and then ran his mouth like his IQ is above one digit.